Good to see u r up and well. You seemed to have risen the topic of HIV to another level on this board. Good for everybody! Thx There is quite a number of guys out there (everywhere) who refuse to use condoms as they "dont like" them as if they DO like contracting hiv. With that they leave their responsibility to the one they wanna fuck. Is she hungry for the money? Or just horny? That makes her vulnerable. THese kind of guys tend to not think about consequences to others either. Their ego blocks out that THEY can be the carrier themselves, it doesnt have to be the sexworker. It takes a lot of disrespect to sexworkers and women in general. And disrespect towards yourself?
As far as I can see is the problem with not being able to keep an erection when getting a condom on is ALL IN YOUR HEAD (no pun). I notice that the idea of having to put a condom on is a turn off so erection out the door but if you keep the excitement by thinking of hot sex its no problem to put one on. It is a prob when you think its a prob.
One of my lovers is physically challenged. When i make my little love sounds he will keep his hardon going while putting on the rubber when i dont there is a problem...