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jonjon058 last won the day on May 4 2013

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  1. My friends and family would sometimes ask about my preference for Asian girls. I never gave it much thought and so I would shrug and say “that is just what I likeâ€Â. Similar to liking a certain type of music, or having a preference for a certain type of food. It isn’t to say that I found all Asian women attractive. Among Asians girls there was a certain look that I was drawn to. And, it wasn’t that I didn’t find any non-Asian girls attractive. There were some that I definitely did. But I would have to admit that even those non-Asian girls I was most attracted to tended to have the “Asian†features I found appealing. So I began to think whether this preference was really more than just that, a preference. Was it what some friends referred to as an “Asian fetishâ€Â? The term conjured up images of the older guys who would approach my girlfriends with “Konnichiwaâ€Â. The politically correct would even go so far as to say that an Asian fetish is a form of racism. Although that always seemed to me to be taking things too far to expect an equal opportunity approach to dating. Following that line of reasoning, would I be considered sexist for preferring to date women over men? Despite my ability to argue the point, I still wondered where my attraction to Asian girls started. I gave this some serious thought and began by allowing the possibility that this was a fetish of some sort and then asking where any sort of fetish originates. My feeling is that it usually has to do with what you were exposed to during that time in your life when you were just becoming sexually aware. So I tried to remember if there were any Asian women I knew during that time that could have left an impression on me. I moved a lot as a kid but during that impressionable part of my childhood, I lived in a mostly Italian-American middle-class neighborhood in Brooklyn. I had not really thought about that period of my life much. My father was an abuse drunk and there weren’t many happy memories to reminisce over. But as I thought back to try and pin point a moment when I first thought about an Asian girl in a sexual way, a memory of a hot summer night came back to me. It was late, but my parents were fighting as they often did. I went to the backyard to get away from the yelling and also to escape any stray violence that might come my way. In the backyard we had a huge oak tree which I often climbed, always trying to gather enough courage to make it to the very top and always getting too scared by the time I was looking down at the roof of our two story house to go any further. Under the full moon that night I decided I would climb to the very top. If I fell, I didn’t care. Perhaps part of it was the “they’ll be sorry when I am dead†attitude of an angry kid. But mostly I think that it was knowing that this was the one thing I could do that would make me forget about the chaos going on inside my house. I pushed myself to the very highest point and then some. I can only imagine the size of the branch that could barely hold me at that age. I also remember feeling much better about life and myself and suddenly caring about dying as I started to make my way down. But as I lowered myself to a safer branch I noticed the open second story window of our neighbor’s house. The second floor was rented to a guy who just returned from Vietnam and who had brought back a pretty Vietnamese girl. At the time they seemed much older, but I am sure they were probably early 20's. They must not have had air conditioning because they left the window wide open to try and get some breeze on that hot humid night. And from my high perch, I could see into their apartment where the Vietnamese girl was preparing for bed. I don’t know how long I sat there watching her, I just remember the feeling of seeing my first glimpse of a beautiful semi-naked women. Was she the one that inspired my future preference for Asian women? I guess I can’t really know for sure. I didn’t develop a fetish for climbing trees and peeping on women. Although, I will admit that I did climb that particular tree a lot more that summer and mostly at night when the Vietnamese girl had her window open. Fortunately, I had not yet discovered masturbation because climbing the tree was dangerous enough with two hands, and I would hate, for the rest of my life, having to explain exactly how I became a paraplegic. So if there was an episode that inspired my Asian preference that might have been it. But for all I know, it could have been watching an episode of “Kung Fu†or some other silly incident that I cannot even recall. Or it might have nothing to do with anything from my childhood and just the fact that as I got older, being with Asian girls has in general been a good experience. That those good experiences validate and reinforce the bias I have for them. But if it was that pretty Vietnamese girl that was responsible for my attraction to Asian women, I would thank her now for leaving her window open as she prepared for bed on that summer night so long ago.
  2. Is "Lucy's Oar House" in Nagoya still around? It has been a long time since I went to Batam. There used to be a guy named Jensen that hung out at Lucy's and would take you around to the different places in town that had girls, trying find the type of girl you wanted. Afterwards he would say to pay him whatever you thought his services were worth. Nice enough guy for a pimp. Nagoya was a real shit hole 10 years ago and the majority of the Indo girls I saw did nothing for me. Too dark, too fat, horrible fashion sense and too much make up. But after a lot of searching I did find an adorable little thing at one place. It was 350K Indonesian Rupees for 24 hours which I made full use of. I did spoil her a bit being the Indonesian Millionaire that I was. But she definitely earned her money in bed. I remember sending her off the next afternoon only to get a light knock on the door a few minutes later. When I opened the door she stood there in the hall with her head down. I thought maybe she had forgotten something but she said with a sad voice that I didn't give her a kiss goodbye. It may have been an act. If so it was a good one. The memory of her standing there pouting is still vivid after all these years. The rest of Batam is just as well forgotten.
  3. To avoid the exchange of bodily fluids which can contain various STD's, the safest thing to do before performing oral is to tie a plastic bag over your head.
  4. I am a big fan of Ridley Scott as well. I love the cinematography in his movies like Blade Runner, Black Rain, and Gladiator. He is great at creating a certain mood with his camera shots. As for recent movies I watched and enjoyed: "The Hangover", very funny. The photos during the ending credits had me in tears laughing. "Gran Torino". Great movie. Add "Get off my lawn" to the list of classic Clint Eastwood movie lines.
  5. 51/8197 vs. 77/8198 doesn't seem significantly different given all the other uncontrolled variables in such an experiment.
  6. Here is what I tell my newbie friends... First off, don't stare at or smile at a girl that you don't want to come sit with you. Second don't tell anyone it is your first trip to Thailand and you just arrived. If a girl you are not interested in asks to sit with you, just smile and say "no thanks". If she sits down without being invited, then politely ignore her. Even if she is hanging on you, don't give her any encouragement. If she asks the inevitable questions (what you name, where you come from, how many time you come Thailand) then just answer politely without asking any questions in return and go back to watching the other girls on stage. If she still doesn't get the hint and asks for a lady drink smile like she made a joke and shake your head no. If you spot a girl you are interested in, point her out to the girl trying to sit with you and ask her to bring the girl over. That gets rid of the one you don't want and you don't waste time with a girl you have no intention to barfine. Save the lady drinks for the girls that you enjoy sitting with. Unless the waitress are doing something beyond bring drinks I don't buy them lady drinks. Give them a small tip when you settle your bill if they provided good service. If you ask or otherwise encourage a girl to come over to sit with you then you should offer a her a drink. But if she asks for one the minute she comes to the table it is a bad sign. I probably wouldn't barfine her in that case. She should be patient enough to wait till you offer it. Just don't make her wait too long. Realize being overly generous for no reason just encourages the wrong type of girls to swarm you. Save your generosity for the girl(s) that earn it with a great ST/LT experience.
  7. When I take my friends to Thailand for the first time I just tell them they need to realize there are pros and cons. All the girls are pros, and all the guys are cons. Actually, Thailand is not that bad. You have some polite Thai trying to trick you out of a few bucks if you're dumb enough to fall for his scam. Now imagine a wealthy tourist walking through the poorest neighborhood of some Western city.
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