Exactly! My buddy and I are known in the "scene" for our Sanuk-Attitude (without beiing silly!!!). Both of us won't make it on the cover of Mens Health but we do not have any difficulty to have a great time with the gals, be it in the bar or in the bed.
Being polite, good tempered, relaxed and a bit submissive always did the trick for us.
The only problem with this is the fact, that you get known quite fast. It is almost impÃƒÂ¼ossible for us to hit the scene incognito.
Have fun in the kingdom and be thankfull, that you are there!!