bangcock Posted July 11, 2001 Report Share Posted July 11, 2001 Hi guys, This evening i went to the Long Gun for the first time (i have missed much ). When i sat down a girl did sit down next to me. She was nice and we talked, bought her 2 drinks, and eventually there was some kissing. During all of this i noticed other girls who were more my type of girls. Nevertheless, i didn't get rid of the girl because she was nice to me (i know i am to good for this world) I certainly will go back to the Long Gun and she knows that. Now i am sure that she will come to me when she sees me come in, but i am not that interested in her and she's too young for me too (18 years). I know that i made a classic newbie mistake by sticking with the first girl that approaches you, although i am not a newbie anymore. Untill now, i always made sure that this didn't happen to me because i am not so good in turning down girls. I've read several ways how to "dump" a girl, but i am just not good at it. How should i handle this when she approaches me again when i enter the Long Gun without making her angry/loose face/etc. I am certainly not butterflying, because i didn't barfine. So it shouldn't be that difficult. I have acted like a newbie, but please help me with this small problem. [ July 11, 2001: Message edited by: bangcock ] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shygye Posted July 11, 2001 Report Share Posted July 11, 2001 Buy her a LD when you come in. Ask her to introduce you to the cutie of your choice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elef Posted July 11, 2001 Report Share Posted July 11, 2001 Hi bangcock! 1. If you're lucky she is not there next time you go to the bar - no problem. 2. Invite other girl also to join you for a drink - may be problem. Then tell the girls that you want to barfine both - this may be big problem. 3. Bring a friend and have both girls join you. Then you take the other girl and go. If your friend barfine first BG even better. But here may be jealousy. I always tell BG that I have a GF (this I recommend you to say even if not true). Then you reduce the problem - she will not see you as her own dream-prince. elef [ July 11, 2001: Message edited by: elef ] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 11, 2001 Report Share Posted July 11, 2001 elef said, " I always tell BG that I have a GF (this I recommend you to say even if not true)." this is great advice- i would say the most important rule when meeting bg's is that you tell them sometime during the first 20 minutes that you are married- it will not stop them pursuing you- it just changes their strategy- and best of all it will always give you an "out" if things get to close for your liking- either immediately or somewhere down the road Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bangcock Posted July 11, 2001 Author Report Share Posted July 11, 2001 I understand. What if i tell her that she is too young for me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CondomKing Posted July 11, 2001 Report Share Posted July 11, 2001 quote: Originally posted by bangcock: I understand. What if i tell her that she is too young for me? She'll probably won't understand and say,"Thank you very much, I like you too." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phiketpete Posted July 11, 2001 Report Share Posted July 11, 2001 quote: Originally posted by tanha: elef said, " I always tell BG that I have a GF (this I recommend you to say even if not true)." this is great advice- i would say the most important rule when meeting bg's is that you tell them sometime during the first 20 minutes that you are married- it will not stop them pursuing you- it just changes their strategy- and best of all it will always give you an "out" if things get to close for your liking- either immediately or somewhere down the road IMO saying that you are married does not get you to far. If all the married guys visitng Bangkok did not visit a-Go Go they would be empty. I prefer to say that I already have Thai GF. Said this once in LongGun the girl I had just bought a LD for left so damm fast you will still see the burn marks on the floor if you look down. On another occasion at another bar I tlod the lady I had a Thai GF "Oh" she said "How long have you been together" "Err about 3 years" I replied "Oh lets go then . It's time you had a change" was the quick witted reply. If you politely show that you are not interested and do not buy her a LD it should work. However every girl is different and could also depend on what she thought was at stake ie the size of your wallet. Remember it is a business. Would you like to easily lose a potential good customer? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 12, 2001 Report Share Posted July 12, 2001 Before going to Bkk I wondered how hard it would be to have girls go out with me being that I’m married I thought about removing my ring but that I would never do, intern I found that being married and wearing a ring helped me get rid of girls that I was not intrusted in I would tell them that I’m married show them the ring and tell them I was here to watch the show. But I never found a girl that had a problem going with me even though she new I was married. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elef Posted July 12, 2001 Report Share Posted July 12, 2001 phiketpete is right and it's what I'm actually saying - I'm having a GF in Thailand. I also tell them she has a company, which is the truth. But no explanation is working every time. elef Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet mouth Posted July 12, 2001 Report Share Posted July 12, 2001 Bangcok, I can suggest 2 strategies: 1- Don't be recognized: Grow a beard (or shave), dye your hair or try a wig. 2- (on a more practical side) tell her right upfront that you're a big butterfly tonight; that should do the trick. Good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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