'Never Again' to Falang Women?

[jasmine]

[color:"red"] how are pre-nups between a farang and a thai stand in thai court of law? I hope someone knows, because i never heard of it, and i wonder..... [/color]

 

I never heard of any case, but between Thais, they stand quite well.

 

On another hand, between American men and Thai women in American court, the losers were men because "Me, Thai, not understand what I did!!!", and most judges believed it.

 

 

Jasmine

[jasmine]

[color:"red"] You can find that same type of woman in Thailand or (insert any country here) as well. In my experience, when it comes to what they are looking for in a man, women are pretty much the same all around the world.

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Wow, I am so glad that some men actually understand.

 

Cheers!

[BelgianBoy]

All,

 

Ok, back to the original question........

 

I'm just hours back from LOS but lemme say what the difference is between Farang and Thai women ( just my humble opinion ) : Thai women are still 'women', farang ones have turned into 'bitches'........ just my take.

 

Cheers !

[Guest]

Fiery Jack,

 

you crack me up man..

 

I never rule anything out . I was "married" in all but piece-of-paper sense (thank God, or I'd currently be shelling out large for 2 divorces ) to a tasty looking British bird when I was younger (but I was tasty looking in those days too ). We lived together for 6 years. The usual ups and downs, but, all in all, okay . I came home from work on our sixth anniversary and she answered the front door wearing a black stockings-and-suspender-belt rig, and nothing else . (Nice for me , but not so clever and a tad embarrassing for her, since we lived on a busy shopping street in Central London and it was still only mid-afternoon. ) She said, "Tonight's our anniversary, and I really want to make you happy, fulfill your wildest fantasies . What would you like me to do for you. I'll do anything you ask..."

 

"Right!" I said, "Get in the fucking kitchen, wash that mountain of festering stinking dishes, throw the hoover round the floor, make the bed, stick a washload in, clean the shithouse-bowl and bathtub out, dust the bloody place, cook my dinner and iron my shirts while I go to the pub and get roaring pissed with my mates..."

 

jack

 

PS. Of course, predictably, she did nothing of the sort . Instead, she immediately packed my bags and threw me out, left me and became a sodding lesbian (...unless they let me watch ) (which they wouldn't, even when I offered a quite large sum of used cash ).

 

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[Guest]

BelgianBoy,

 

Couldnt agree more. Not only are they bitches but they are all feminists too. Infact I think the word bitch is synonymous with western women.

 

[CondomKing]

Says camerashy:

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Was watching one of those all women American talk shows late last night. One of the hosts (there were 3 of them) suggested that as soon as a woman marries, she should start the "training" period for her husband - tell him she will not wash clothes, dust, clean floors etc, but she will iron if necessary sometimes. She thought he would then suggest geting help for her or doing these things himself. She then intimated that he would then be rewarded with a bit of

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Shit, if felt like jumping through the tv screen and choking the bitch!

Give me an honest, hard-working girl from Isaan who has been taught by her mother to take care of her husband in the good old-fashioned way, and feels happy, content and fulfilled to do so.

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Yes, I also saw that show and felt the same way myself, expecially when the panel compared training a man to training a dog!!! I'm not kidding! ::

 

This show is called "The View" and it is on network TV here in the States eveyday and watched by millions of women daily. ::

 

Every once in a while when I'm home in the daytime channel surfing I will stop for a minute to check out the topic on "The View" and it is always similar to the "husband training" roundtable. ::

 

I think equality is great but here we seem to have "women's lib gone totally wrong".

 

BTW, my wife is Thai and very happy to be a "traditional woman" as I am happy to be a "traditional man".

[chilli13]

just don't put the issan lady in that show as she will be eaten alive ::

the good thing is that that apart from isaan girls those qualities abund with many other TG or even AG's for that matter.

[check_bin_krap]

"Have you completely ruled out ever marrying a falang woman or at least having a long term monogamous relationship with one under any circumstances? Even if you met a sensible one? Are you completely gone (mentally to LOS that is)? "

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I don't agree with the view that farang women are that bad. I have had several female farang friends who I am sure are good choices in marriage. Genuine, good and caring people can be found everywhere.

 

But I have never been attracted to Norwegian girls. So yes, its ruled out especially as I am engaged now!

 

Cheers!

[pattaya127]

just don't put the issan lady in that show as she will be eaten alive

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if the end result is to keep one's man, with the help of a good translator , The farang women may instead be eaten alive by our lil' TG.

[Guest]

Did anyone read Benard Trinks column today? There was a highly amusing post about mens expectations of women..

 

http://www.bangkokpost.com/en/250703_Realtime/25Jul2003_real06.html

 

It reads:

- Dear Bernard: It is important for men to remember that as women grow older, it becomes harder for them to maintain the same quality of housekeeping as they did when they were younger. When men notice this, they should try not to yell. Let me relate how I handle the situation.

 

When I got laid off from my consulting job and took ``early retirement'' in January, it became necessary for Nancy to get a full-time job, both for extra income and for health benefits that we need. She was a trained medical transcriptionist when we met twenty-eight years ago and was fortunate to land a job at a local transcription house. It was shortly after she started working at this job that I noticed that she was beginning to show her age.

 

I usually get home from fishing or hunting about the same time she gets home from work. Although she knows how hungry I am, she almost always says that she has to rest for half an hour or so before she starts supper. I try not to yell at her when this happens. Instead, I tell her to take her time. I understand that she is not as young as she used to be. I just tell her to wake me when she finally does get supper on the table.

 

She used to wash and dry the dishes as soon as we finished eating. It is now not unusual for them to sit on the table for several hours after supper. I do what I can by reminding her several times each evening that they aren't cleaning themselves. I know she appreciates this, as it does seem to help her get them done before she goes to bed.

 

Our washer and dryer are in the basement. When she was younger, Nancy used to be able to go up and down the stairs all day and not get tired. Now that she is older she seems to get tired so much more quickly. Sometimes she says she just can't make another trip down those steps. I don't make a big issue of this. As long as she finishes up the laundry the next evening I am willing to overlook it. Not only that, but unless I need something ironed to wear to the Monday lodge meeting or to Wednesday's or Saturday's poker club or to Tuesday's or Thursday's bowling or something like that, I will tell her to wait until the next evening to do the ironing.

 

This gives her a little more time to do some of those odds and ends things like shampooing the dog, vacuuming or dusting. Also, if I have had a really good day fishing, this allows her to gut and scale the fish at a more leisurely pace.

 

Nancy is starting to complain a little occasionally. Not often, mind you, but just enough for me to notice. For example, she will say that it is difficult for her to find time to pay the monthly bills during her lunch hour. In spite of her complaining, I continue to try to offer encouragement. I tell her to stretch it out over two or even three days. That way she won't have to rush so much. I also remind her that missing lunch completely now and then wouldn't hurt her any, if you know what I mean. When doing simple jobs she seems to think she needs more rest periods than she used to have to take.

 

A couple of weeks ago she said she had to take a break when she was only half finished mowing the yard. I overlook comments like these because I realise its just age talking. In fact, I try not to embarrass her when she needs these little extra rest breaks. I tell her to fix herself a nice, big, cold glass of freshly squeezed lemonade and just sit for awhile.

 

I tell her that as long as she is making one for herself, she may as well make one for me and take her break by the hammock so she can talk with me until I fall asleep. I could go on and on, but I think you know where I'm coming from.

 

I know that I probably look like a saint in the way I support Nancy on a daily basis. I'm not saying that the ability to show this much consideration is easy. Many men will find it difficult. Some will find it impossible. No one knows better than I do how frustrating women can become as they get older. My purpose in writing this is simply to suggest that you make the effort. I realise that achieving the exemplary level of showing consideration I have attained is out of reach for the average man.

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