skirtlifter Posted January 26, 2004 Report Share Posted January 26, 2004 I know this subject has been spoken about ad nauseum but how the hell do you get over the disappointment and heartache of a BG who you know is fucking others for money. (I have been with her a long time) Is there anyway to stop her from doing so...I'm at wits end. Please...serious replies... especially from some of you that have gone through what I am experiencing now. If I could forget her I would but in the meantime I will probably drink myself to death Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
limbo Posted January 26, 2004 Report Share Posted January 26, 2004 Most likely the only way to have her stop doing this is that you provide for an alternative life style, meaning, supporting her financially, getting her a room plus furniture, get her to do something during the day time, like going back to school/uni etc etc. If you do this, it'll be a big financial commitment with no guarantee that it'll work out. It's a start however. How long do you know her, how old is she, does she have children, how long did she work at a bar? Please give out some more information, so we have a better idea about her situation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skirtlifter Posted January 26, 2004 Author Report Share Posted January 26, 2004 Thanks Limbo you make perfect sense. I have been with the girl one year. She is 30 and has three children which her family takes care of. She tells me she worked in the bar for 6 months before I met her. For the first 6 months of our relationship she was very content and Ibelieve she she was not working...but then she began drifting back to past habits. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
think_too_mut Posted January 26, 2004 Report Share Posted January 26, 2004 >but then she began drifting back to past habits. Habits or source of income for herself and 3 children? What was she living off while you thought she was not working? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 26, 2004 Report Share Posted January 26, 2004 I think you can not do it. Do you remember the old saying "Take a girl out of a bar vs. take the bar out of the girl"? May be, she got bored and started again. I am not sure if she does it for money or she does it for fun or she is looking for somebody else, but IMO you made your point towards her and she doesn't want to finish to work. IMO forget about her and skip to somebody else. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skirtlifter Posted January 26, 2004 Author Report Share Posted January 26, 2004 She seemed content to live off my earnings and was making a little extra selling food to get money for her family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iuytrede Posted January 26, 2004 Report Share Posted January 26, 2004 been there, done that.... and agree 100% with Peter's reply. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
think_too_mut Posted January 26, 2004 Report Share Posted January 26, 2004 >been there, done that.... and agree 100% with Peter's reply. I'm still there (3rd year), doing that....and don't agree with Peter's reply (at least not 100%). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sfinkz Posted January 26, 2004 Report Share Posted January 26, 2004 "...how the hell do you get over the disappointment and heartache..." ___________________________________________________ Immediately. Assuming you have provided support in the past year and haven't messed around yourself, I'm sure it hurts but don't drag it out by futilely trying to rectify matters. It's broken and unsalvagable. An all too-familiar BG tale but--as trite as it sounds it's also even more true in Thailand--there are other...... Don't deny yourself more promising opportunities. Learn from it and move on. Immediately. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skirtlifter Posted January 26, 2004 Author Report Share Posted January 26, 2004 Does anyone know if Serapax or it's equivalent is legally attainable in Thailand. I just want my heart to stop aching. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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