soongmak Posted July 13, 2007 Report Share Posted July 13, 2007 I cannot beieve it! Do you condone kidnapping? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bjon045 Posted July 14, 2007 Report Share Posted July 14, 2007 I cannot beieve it! Do you condone kidnapping? It's not kidnapping when it's your f'ing child and the child goes willingly. When you go through the courts it is equivalent to sanctioned kidnapping for most men due to gender bias. I suggest you read the website below: http://www.ncfmla.org/ When parents contest custody, courts give primaryphysical custody to moms 90% of the time. (Cynthia McNeely, â??Lagging Behind the Times: Parenthood, Custody and Gender Bias in the Family Courts,â? www.law.fsu.edu/journals/lawreview/frames/254/mcnefram.html.) Myth: "Men are rarely victims of domestic violence."Fact: Half of domestic violence ("DV") victims are men. Although men are less likely than women to call police, randomized sociological (behavior-based) research consistently shows: (1) women initiate DV as often as men do; (2) women use weapons and surprise more than men do; and (3) about 38% of physically injured DV victims are men. (www.csulb.edu/~mfiebert/assault.htm.) Even the latest fact sheet from the Centers for Disease Control (partly from crime-based data) states: "In the United States every year, about 1.5 million women and more than 800,000 men are raped or physically assaulted by an intimate partner" (i.e., 36% of the victims are men). (www.cdc.gov/ncipc/factsheets/ipvfacts.htm.) Unfortunately, the DV industry has covered up female violence for decades for purely ideological reasons. (Kelly, Linda, "Disabusing the Definition of Domestic Abuse; How Women Batter Men and the Role of the Feminist State," 30 Fl. St. U. Law R. 791, 2003, www.law.fsu.edu/journals/lawreview/downloads/304/kelly.pdf.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nervous_Dog Posted July 14, 2007 Report Share Posted July 14, 2007 Bjon, you may be interested to see the contested rate in Thailand, majority of men who want to get custody win over women. Interesting stat Vs West Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soongmak Posted July 14, 2007 Report Share Posted July 14, 2007 It's not kidnapping when it's your f'ing child and the child goes willingly. I call that hairsplitting. What you do is abduct a child without the mother's consent. And no, she doesn't get visiting rights, because she lives in another f'in country without, money and a visa. I guess child abduction sounds better to you. I am sure though if you divorce a BG and pay a fancy lawyer, there are plenty ways within the confines of the law to paint her as a bad mother (former whore, no education, no money) if you're willing to stoop so low. I see no need for vigilante justice here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AF16 Posted July 17, 2007 Report Share Posted July 17, 2007 Though not relevant at the moment, the issue is highly interesting to me. What if we decide to split? We live in Norway. If we are on holiday in Thailand could she just split and keep the child? What if we stay in Norway, could she get custody and move away? Would I get the right to take the child away just because I'm Norwegian, if she decide to move to Thailand? Children really complicate things, and the stake are so hight. House, money, car .. it's nothing compared to loosing a child. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soongmak Posted July 17, 2007 Report Share Posted July 17, 2007 If your wife decides to stay in Thailand, and take your child, you probably have to fight her for custody in the Thai courts. Thailand is not one of the countries that have signed Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction. If she would fight you for custody in Norway, I have no idea what the odds are that the court awards it to her. I'm pretty sure though she can't move back to Thailand without your consent. Most courts place a high importance on letting children stay in their original habitat. A more important question you have to ask yourself is, do you want to fight her for child custody? I have asked myself the same question, and the answer for me is no. I have told my wife I would never come between her and our boy. I have waived my rights for parental custody. My wife is the sole custodian, and I have 100% faith in her parental abilities. If we ever divorce, she can do whatever she wants. Stay in the Netherlands, move to Thailand, it is up to her. I will not contest her. I have a full time job, and simply can notgive the same care to him as she does. I am the provider. It seems the natural way for me, that she gets custody in case of a divorce and I will still provide. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zaad Posted July 17, 2007 Report Share Posted July 17, 2007 A child's well-being is the most important issue in such cases and (regardless one's contradicting feelings.. if any) you're able to put that on top of the list. You're an example to follow, SM Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AF16 Posted July 18, 2007 Report Share Posted July 18, 2007 If she was taking her halfway around the world, yes I would contest it in a court. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Weird Posted July 19, 2007 Report Share Posted July 19, 2007 She could have been a looney and he was fleeing with his child to get away from her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soongmak Posted July 19, 2007 Report Share Posted July 19, 2007 I find it funny and telling that if a farang does something bad, we get all mushy and think of reasons why he did what he did, but if a BG cheats a guy, it's just comfirms the fact that all BGs are no good, lazy, lying whores. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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