bust Posted July 5, 2008 Report Share Posted July 5, 2008 EasySt I am quite certain the guys speaking badly of it or kind of not saying much are trying to keep it quiet. is directly because of It would be a very low life move if anyone went into this just looking to bang a bunch of GTG's because this is a mongering board after all. Maybe in some cases but not all. I guess the same as the girls on these sites.. some are looking for marriage others for fun. I think in a lot of cases it allows them to do a bit of freelancing on the side without really having to get out amongst it. I figure what defines your intentions is your level of honesty. Never promise something you have no intention of delivering. I think the real reason a lot of guys are quiet about this is because it's like punting without the baggage, and a lot of guys just don't know how to behave around woman outside whoring. Besides TLL is so yesterday. There are other sites out there much better and one in particular is purely for finding sex partners in SE Asia..... :grin: :grin: :grin: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gadfly Posted July 6, 2008 Report Share Posted July 6, 2008 I have 2 separate unrelated 18yo's who webcam with me in their school internet room. The uniform, other students in the background, the supervisors/teachers in the background. They both want to be my 'tour guide'. I think with those they really are maybe thinking they will get something financially out of it but they definitely are students. Too young for me so I won't pursue it but they contacted me not the other way around. Now that is strange. But now I am wondering about some the younger women that work in our office. They are all average looking (IHMO), but whenever I approach their cubicle to discuss work, the screen immediately changes. I never see what is actually on the screen. I also know that we have really slow internet at work, and there have been complaints about use of the internet for non-work related purposes. I figured it was Thai guys looking at porn (I don't think any of the few Farangs where I work are stupdid enough to do that), but maybe this explains the problem. This being Thailand, of course, the IT staff will not directly identify the unauthorized use (I have no problem with any staff doing anything on their own hours, but I don't want them slowing down our already slow access times.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MooNoi Posted July 6, 2008 Report Share Posted July 6, 2008 is purely for finding sex partners in SE Asia..... Ain't it ever!!! It can also make one's life incedibly complicated!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bibblies Posted July 6, 2008 Report Share Posted July 6, 2008 Now that is strange. But now I am wondering about some the younger women that work in our office. They are all average looking (IHMO), but whenever I approach their cubicle to discuss work, the screen immediately changes. I never see what is actually on the screen. I reckon they're constructing a fake photo of you in a thong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MooNoi Posted July 7, 2008 Report Share Posted July 7, 2008 They are all average looking (IHMO), but whenever I approach their cubicle to discuss work, the screen immediately changes. I never see what is actually on the screen Can pretty-much guarantee you it will me MSN or Yahoo Messenger, with Skype a close 3rd, and maybe laced with a couple of dating sites. They seem to be all-the-rage in Asia at the moment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dumsoda Posted July 7, 2008 Report Share Posted July 7, 2008 Yep....agree Every time I'm in one of our Offices in China...same same...lol They all "try" to look busy ...It's all the little "Hearts & Flowers"....and teddy bears and shit that give them away... I watched one....for about an hour...playing with photo shop...editing her own photos....lol ...Only problem...she's "HOT".....and I was kinda gettin off "watching" her..... Maybe I should call her in and..."disipline" her next time...hehehehe Cheers DS Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasySt Posted July 10, 2008 Report Share Posted July 10, 2008 Well I am about 2 weeks into my little experiment and I could easily have a date with a different GTG every night of the week when I am in BKK in a few weeks. It's kinda scary actually because it seems after only 2 webcam sessions a lot of them decide we are now BF/GF and that's that! They seem to just fall for me far too easily. Many are early to mid 20 somethings falling for me. ME, mid 40's, thin on top, thick in the middle. Go figure. Lot's and lot's in their 30's. I could have a different date every day of the year with 30 somethings. They are nurses, shop girls, business owners, students, teachers. You name it. The hard part is going to be trying to juggle them all without them finding out about each other and without having to lie my ass off. Exclusivity is a big thing with them but if they think I am going to spend all my precious time in Bkk with just them even though I hardly know them that is their problem not mine. I won't BS them though. A little white lie here and there to keep from hurting their feelings but I won't do anything to give them dilusions of marriage and living the good life in some far off country or whatever after only a couple webcam sessions and hanging out with them for a few hours in Bkk. Lot's have their MSN on at work and I have webcamed with a few. These girls are mostly all experts at MSN. They are teaching me how to use it....LOL! That always amazed me about Thai girls. Some may basically have little or no education and may not even be able to add 2+2 but they could be experts at configuring and using a new high end cell phone or advanced MSN Messenger tweaks. I guess it's all comes down to motivation I am mostly concentrating on Bkk girls since I won't have time to be going all over the friggin country and don't want them busing in only to find I don't like them or whatever but I am stuck with them for a whole week. If I had time I could spend it all just travelling around the country meeting these girls. Some are friggin drop dead gorgeous university students. Early to mid 20's. Basically I would have the keys to the kingdom complete with my own harem if I wanted. This has sure opened my eyes to the possibilities. It has also made me appreciate the elegant simplicity of mongering. Much less complicated when the money and intentions are all up front. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bust Posted July 11, 2008 Report Share Posted July 11, 2008 Rule number 1.....45 mins for a coffee at starbucks with an appointment to leave for. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
simon43 Posted July 11, 2008 Report Share Posted July 11, 2008 Talking about using a webcam with TLL, I've always shied away from this because when I've tried it before, my face looks really ugly. I think it's because of the lighting, or maybe I really am just ugly. But can anyone suggest a good webcam technique/lighting etc so that my mug can actually appear handsome to the shy lass at the other end?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasySt Posted July 11, 2008 Report Share Posted July 11, 2008 Rule number 1.....45 mins for a coffee at starbucks with an appointment to leave for. Absofriggin lutely! I'm way ahead of you. More like 15minutes. I'm even arranging to have a buddy call me after 15minutes to make it seem more legit. "Oh, gotta go meet a friend and help him with something, sorry". I have webcamed with every girl I plan to meet so I know what their face looks like. Bit harder to get a read on the body. Very important to webcam because some of these girls are posting pictures that are 10-15 years old sometimes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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