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Several years ago I was fortunate enough to date a stripper. I didn't know at the time but a lot of them are bisexual.

Anyway, I ended up in my first 3somes. A few things I realized after a while.

First, any woman who says she's bi, means she likes women but will go for some dick once in a while. If she has to make a choice, its women.

Second, I wish I had your stamina. I would actually go to the sofa during the week. I was tired as hell for work. It became a chore after a while. Yeah, I sound like I must be gay, but it was a lot of work.

 

Very few men can keep one woman physically satisfied (we won't even count emotionally satisfied). Trying to keep two is impossible in most cases. The majority of the time I came first and ended up watching the other two. No matter how long I tried to hold out, at best most of the time, only one of them was going to cum...and that one may have faked that as well. lol. It takes way too much stamina and time to truly satisfy both. It won't happen, unless you're porno star material and can hold it forever. I'm not porn star material.

 

I also found that there was a dominant woman and one that needed the exact amount of attention. Both are wondering if you like the other more. Its a fine line and you're playing more psychologist than anything else. Its tiring mentally tyring to make sure you give one the attention they want without making the other feel too neglected.

 

Also, I've never seen it work with the same 2 girls all the time. This girl would bring different girls back from the club every so often. Sometimes the same one would come back but often times it was someone new she 'broke in'. This didn't happen every night. It didn't happen every week. It happened often enough though. Also, she did other women by herself than with me. Women just have a different connection with each other than with a guy.

 

The 3 somes that are the most successful in my humble opinion are the ones that have a little bit of dom/sub thrown in. One of the girls is the dom, typically your girlfriend and both of you 'make' the girl do stuff. Those are hard to come by.

 

I've had p4p 3 somes in LOS but the stripper was the only one time there was no exchange of anything but bodily fluids.

 

The 'best' 3somes I've had are p4p because I didn't have to worry about the mental part of it with the women. They were focused on making me happy.

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I know a chap back in Australia who had two wives for about 5 years - they all seemed very happy and even went to family events as a group.

 

Funny thing was now his current wife is suggesting the same thing again to him - I think he has the stamina but not the wallet to take her up on the offer.

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I know a chap back in Australia who had two wives for about 5 years - they all seemed very happy and even went to family events as a group.

 

Funny thing was now his current wife is suggesting the same thing again to him - I think he has the stamina but not the wallet to take her up on the offer.

 

Gr8 idea!!!

 

Anyone I know?????

 

Say G'day 2 "Jack" from me....

 

 

Chrs DC

 

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Several years ago I was fortunate enough to date a stripper.

 

You meant to say "unfortunate", right?

 

Sorry, I couldn't help but tease you. It was a really honest and insightful post, and a good read.

 

lol...no problem. I'm a 'tease'...er..I mean...I tease and I can give as well as get...that still didn't sound right?

 

I wouldn't do it again frankly. I forgot to add sometimes the two women would go at it and it was obvious I wasn't 'needed'. As I said, best time I ever had was a p4p episode in Pattaya. It was the first time for both, same bar. I told the one I had first that I wanted to try a 3 some and she said she would try it. I told her to pick the girl. I learned from past experience she has to fee comfortable with it. Well, the surprising thing is she chose a girl from her bar that she never hung out with or particularly liked. I think this girl was a little down on the rung in terms of bar heiarchy as well.

Anyway, they got so into it that it went very well. I still get goose pimples thinking about it. I'll provide a teaser and if we ever meet up in a bar I'l tell you the whole story. Picture the main girl slipping a rubber on me, greasing me up with KY and the other girls ass with it and helping me slide it into the other girls 'brown eye'.

 

 

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