turned over by a Laos girl

[cheekyboy]

i have known her for about 5 years ,shes never worked in a bar but had menial type jobs in BKK for which she earns around 8000 a month, i topped that up each month with a extra amount .i paid for her boob transplants and we were talking about the sinsot and building a house in Vientianne.

Then she lost her job, laid off because of the downturn and suddenly her money was tight. i usually ring her and sms and she responds to me.

Then suddenly yesterday things turned bad !the phone was off in the afternoon when we normally have a chat ,rang her late afternoon and evening ,still off . i was fearing the worst !

rang her at midnight and still off ,it looked like she was doing the dirty !rang her all thru the am ,phone was still off .6 -7 morning it was still off. at just before 8 the phone was back on but no answer .i sent her a sms asking why the phone off and no answer .no reply .send further sms to ask what was wrong still ,no reply .

sent a few more sms but no replies..

 

Dumb and dumber ...

 

now you would have thought she would have realised it would jeopardise things and leave her phone with her mate or in her room so as not to arouse my suspicions ,or money would be cut off and house wouldnt be built ,but no they are too dumb for that .

 

i sent her a sms accusing her of doing the dirty but no reply .amazing how things can turn around .

thats another waste of time and effort.

and money down the drain .

 

but i am hardened now and her sex drive was diminished because of the implants ,it upset her hormones and she wasnt hot any more .

 

so maybe its for the best ,its just that ones faith becomes diminished at these strange turn of events .its not the first .

 

i save my money on the sinsot and house but lose just a small amount .so i guess its a close shave but i wonder are there any gals out there that you can trust or are they all unpredictable nutters ?

 

yours truly ...gutted

 

 

[Bangkoktraveler]

Maybe somebody grabbed her phone?

[cheekyboy]

tried sms and calls today ,no reply .

if it was stolen they would have changed the sim card i feel .

[waerth]

If you need help PM me ... try calling from a different number, get some change and call from a payphone, if she picks up she is ignoring you or have someone else call and ask what the problem is.

[Ckrisg]

But it would still ring and the messages would be sent as long as the sim is active, does'nt have to be in the phone.

[Faustian]

cb, doesn't sound good..only excuse is her phone was stolen or broke. I guess she knows your number by heart? And she's made no effort to call you.......so indeed it sounds bad.

 

Also if you need help let me know.

[bust]

Sounds like you had a good run......took 5 years for her to get caught out.

 

Just curious......what's the age difference here?

[soongmak]

Aren't you jumping to conclusions? All I get from your message is a turned of cell phone, and no one answering the phone or your messages. That could mean any number of things.

 

I do think it's for the best you think about cutting her loose, since you're obviously more concerned about yourself than her well being. If I were in your shoes, I would be worried about her, and NOT if she may have slept around. You sound quite selfish to me.

[Faustian]

soongmak, fair points....there could be any number of reasons, hence I think he might need some help with this.

 

cb, do you have any of her friends numbers you could contact or family?

[jonjon058]

There is no girl out there that you can trust 100% not to cheat on you. Under the right (wrong?) circumstances even the nicest girl may do things that she will later regret. What matters is why she did it and whether it is part of a bigger character flaw.

 

The fact that you suspect she is cheating because her phone has been off makes me think this isn't the first time you have had your doubts about her.