Encore Posted April 5, 2009 Report Share Posted April 5, 2009 Hey Deadman, that wouldn't be by any chance a girl you met at Tulip? I think she's expect money as usual, I think she simply would want the same as usual, and would feel she's doing you a favour by having you avoid pay the MP. There's some very nice women there, have fun! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bust Posted April 9, 2009 Report Share Posted April 9, 2009 Whores are such hard work Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deadman Posted April 15, 2009 Author Report Share Posted April 15, 2009 ok, i suppose i'd better write the conclusion to this, nothing worse than dudes who don't follow up posts......plus it will give some a laugh i'm sure. After giving my initial post some thought, i'd concluded that my thinking was a bit skewed, and decided it would be lame to think in terms of a 'freebie'. So i was pretty much prepared to fork out the same loot as i gave her in the MP. Called her at lunchtime on her day off, she said she had shit to do, and would call when she finished. Despite me expecting a flake, she called at about 7. She was at carrfoure rama4, which is just down the road from me. So i head down there and we had Yum Saap. Cut a long story short, next thing i know, i find myself in carrefoure helping her buy a computer desk and chair.....oh fark. Didn't have to spring for it, but did have to trapse around like some kinda lame muppet with his missus. Kept thinking to myself, like some kinda mantra, 'som nom naa.....u wanted the GF experience......well u fucking got it'. Was tempted to just bail, but just couldn't bring myself to do it. So after dropping the shit off at her place, we headed back to my condo, for what i was hoping would be a right old romp. However, there were mutterings about us just cuddling, and not fucking......ahem!! This was not really wot i wanted to hear, but i know that sometimes chics just say this, so i thought i'd just test the waters when the time came, and hope for the best. Just about the first thing she did was boot up the I-mac and start googling porn.....these chics amaze me, as if they don't see enough cock all day??? Once in bed i did some subtle explorations, and concluded she really didn't wanna get physical. Obviously i coulda pestered her till she relented, she could hardly refuse after all, but i'm not into that kinda shit, i'd rather let it go than feel like a desperate myth. Actually, if she didn't wanna ting i was pretty much Ok with it. At the risk of being flamed, i'm a bit sensitive about this issue. In meeting a chic outside of her work environment (MP), one realizes that there is more to her than the 'programmed to please' role she plays at work. To me, that's always the trade-off. We did end up fucking later the next morning, which was better than nothing, but always a bit of a consolation prize in my eyes. Understandably, i had no intention of giving her any money after all the shit i did for her the night before. I saw her a few days later at the mp and she was pretty stoked that i didn't force the issue that night. She said every customer she's ever seen outside had always pressured her into getting physical even if she didn't wanna. So dats my sorry tale. Now whether it was some kinda shit test i don't really know. What i did learn from the debacle is that the very reason i like P4P girls is so i don't have to tolerate all the shit that goes with having a GF, such as shopping trips and them not being in the mood to get physical. cheers D M Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WorldFun Posted April 15, 2009 Report Share Posted April 15, 2009 thanks for the follow up not sure what your longer term expectations is with the chic although it seems from her side she's seriously 'test driving' you & may already have gotten a pretty good test result on you LOL. If seeing the same girl on the job you know what to expect only as repeat customer should be better Outside she can show her real ide whether that being good or bad, so if it's bad obviously don't use that option no more! Now I think good on you for bailing out early even though I must admit she was way out of line in what she got away with in the shopping part as well as bedroom part, but nice story in the end Sure MPs are a very convenient no bullshit environment for its service, but there's really nothing like a 'Fl GF' as it's much more dynamic, unpredictable & real be it bad or good... :hubba: Enjoy ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Encore Posted April 16, 2009 Report Share Posted April 16, 2009 >I saw her a few days later at the mp and she was pretty stoked that i didn't force the issue that night. She said every customer she's ever seen outside had always pressured her into getting physical even if she didn't wanna. < Yes, I can relate to that. Keeping work and private separate. I can quite imagine that once she's spent a whole week at work getting fucked senseless (Some of the more popular Tulip girls can have 4 or five clients in a row), she doesn't really want to work on her day off. Needs a day to rest her working parts. I had same experience with the MP girl a few weeks ago, who wanted me to take her photos. We did a photoshoot in a hotel room, I wasn't sure beforehand if that would include a roll in the hay (paid for the room anyway), but she didn't make any advances, so I left it at that, and she seemed pleased. (Well, it helped that I just had two HJ during a massage an hour before she arrived). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Munchmaster Posted April 16, 2009 Report Share Posted April 16, 2009 ...., but did have to trapse around like some kinda lame muppet with his missus.... You mean like Torneyboy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Torneyboy Posted April 16, 2009 Report Share Posted April 16, 2009 You were lucky to have her go with you "outside"...most are not allowed to have any contact ( due to contracts etc) outside the MP... I had a two year relationship with an MP girl ..the only reason/way we got to meet outside was that the "tan" was from the same village ... Anyway good luck .. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Torneyboy Posted April 16, 2009 Report Share Posted April 16, 2009 ....' date=' but did have to trapse around like some kinda lame muppet with his missus....[/quote']You mean like Torneyboy? Only when in Thailand Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Central Scrutinizer Posted April 17, 2009 Report Share Posted April 17, 2009 Deadman, "but did have to trapse around like some kinda lame muppet with his missus." Watch it pal, just because one is out shopping with his missus doesn't make one a 'lame muppet'! :content: We could be shopping for something I want to buy... it happens, once in a while. "Kept thinking to myself, like some kinda mantra, 'som nom naa.....u wanted the GF experience......well u fucking got it'." 55555555555! The GF experience can come with many stings attached. This line had me pissing myself. Thanks. (Now I have to go change.) "Was tempted to just bail, but just couldn't bring myself to do it." Good man. Bailing would have been lame I feel. In for a penny, in for a pound and all that. "So after dropping the shit off at her place, we headed back to my condo, for what i was hoping would be a right old romp." Which would have been right and due, in many cases. "However, there were mutterings about us just cuddling, and not fucking......ahem!! This was not really wot i wanted to hear, but i know that sometimes chics just say this, so i thought i'd just test the waters when the time came, and hope for the best." The full GFE huh? "Once in bed i did some subtle explorations, and concluded she really didn't wanna get physical. Obviously i coulda pestered her till she relented, she could hardly refuse after all, but i'm not into that kinda shit, i'd rather let it go than feel like a desperate myth." Score another for the good guy (jai dee mahk). "Actually, if she didn't wanna ting i was pretty much Ok with it. At the risk of being flamed, i'm a bit sensitive about this issue. In meeting a chic outside of her work environment (MP), one realizes that there is more to her than the 'programmed to please' role she plays at work. To me, that's always the trade-off." True, and if not, why meet them outside of their working environment? You are looking for a broader experience. "We did end up fucking later the next morning, which was better than nothing, but always a bit of a consolation prize in my eyes." Any sex is good sex, and a prolonged wait for sex is sometimes worth the wait. "Understandably, i had no intention of giving her any money after all the shit i did for her the night before." Understandably so. And right in my eyes. "I saw her a few days later at the mp and she was pretty stoked that i didn't force the issue that night. She said every customer she's ever seen outside had always pressured her into getting physical even if she didn't wanna." Bingo! You win the jai dee mahk mahk prize. You treated her as a person, a woman, not just a hole. She sees you differently now (for better or worse depending on your own plans for the future). "So dats my sorry tale. Now whether it was some kinda shit test i don't really know." It was. You passed. "What i did learn from the debacle is that the very reason i like P4P girls is so i don't have to tolerate all the shit that goes with having a GF, such as shopping trips and them not being in the mood to get physical." Yup. One thing I liked about massage parlor women is you never run into them after your session unless you actually want to. BGs can be a pain in the ass every time you enter the bar or even the bar area. But the question is, why would you meet them outside of work if you just want sex? Free sex? Highly unlikely, you pay for it in one way or another. Sometimes it is cheap, sometimes not (and I am not just talking about the financial aspect here). Some of them are a lot of fun out of work and are nice to know on a deeper level. The problem though being they can possibly see it as something else than you (many men) would like. Be careful of the minefield. Cent Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeartThais Posted April 17, 2009 Report Share Posted April 17, 2009 But the question is, why would you meet them outside of work if you just want sex? Free sex? Cent Intimacy maybe? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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