Younger wives, happier marriage

[cavanami]

...married by the bartender or dek serve :grin:

[jack_schist]

...married by the bartender or dek serve :grin:

mai chai....unions are ordained by the DJ, with the mother of the bride being the mamasan. Not sure who gives away the bride though.

[BelgianBoy]

Not sure who gives away the bride though.

just make sure to bring her back !

[flacko]

Sounds like good science

[torrenova]

When asked and considering that I am not meant to live alone and I am, when happy, the most faithful guy around, I offer the following words.

 

If, as I do, you have no desire to change your girl as she and you age, then you have to be physically happy. If you marry a woman of your own age, then when you are 60, she will be 60 and though Asian women are vastly different in general to their blubber absorbing western counterparts, you have to accept that she will not be the girl you knew physically from years ago.

 

If you are with someone who is some years younger than you and she is nearer to her prime, then as she ages, your declining desires on the physical front may insure you from seeking a change.

 

I had an older wife, though she was Asian. We are divorced

 

I am not discounting all the emotional attachment and so on but I am realistic enough to know that if there is still a physical attraction then that is one less barrier to overcome and the easiest way to manage that issue is to have a partner who is younger than you.