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JayD

"Receiving" anal from girls

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What's below might sound like a joke or trolling, but I swear it's true. Here's my situation (apologies for the long post):

 

Even though I'm young (25). I can only get an orgasm from being penetrated anally. Even though I have no problems getting hard, sex, blow jobs, hand jobs even masturbation just do not work. I've tried getting "done" by guys, but I prefer girls.

 

Earlier this month I had a stopover in Bangkok, and decided to see if the red-light districts had anything to offer someone like me. After one kathoey (who was a dud) I hooked up with four girls in total. Two just weren't into it, one was OK and the last one I met totally blew my mind.

 

I met N. at a go-go bar, took her back to my hotel along with a strap-on. When I told her that I could only enjoy receiving anal, she didn't believe it until she tried giving me a hand job for 20 minutes. When it clicked that I was being serious, she seemed surprised but totally cool with it. She also really got into doing me anally, after about 5 hours of it (no joke) I said I had had enough but she got annoyed and wanted to continue.

 

She told me not to come back to the bar, and if I wanted I could see her the next day before work free of charge (she gave me her number). But I was too sore for it the next day and then I had to go home.

 

She said she had grown up in Bangkok, had worked in bars for 5 years and that I was the 4th guy she'd done anally (she said she wanted to do more and also kept hundreds of gay porn images in her phone). She also said that she'd gone to Western countries for several months at a time on tourist visas, but worked (illegally) in brothels (which explained her relatively good English).

 

I've heard Thailand is much more tolerant than the West towards gay people, which I can believe seeing the number of kathoeys around. What is the general attitude in Thailand towards girl-on-guy anal? How about among bar girls? Was I just lucky in finding N., or are there many girls who would be into "giving" anal to guys?

 

Part of me is also seriously considering dating N. She seemed like a fun person in general (not just in bed). I don't think learning Thai would be that hard for me as I can learn languages quickly. I'm a fully qualified ESL teacher and I know it would be easy to get a job in an International School in Bangkok. Also I would be happy for N. to keep working in the bar (she might even be upset if I take her out because she seems to enjoy being on stage and has a lot of friends there). I would be happy to have an "open relationship" if such a concept exists in Thailand.

 

But there seems to be a huge number of people around saying never to enter into a relationship with bar girls (even books like Private Dancer with this message). I'm not interested in her sexually (in any conventional way) and really could not care who she has sex with as long as she uses a condom (AIDS worries me). What issues am I likely to face if I keep seeing her?

 

Anyone who has any input, comments or advice please don't hesitate to respond :cover: Thanks in advance.

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JayD. A nice post (well, at least it was interesting for a change) but a couple of observations. I hear and read scenarios similar to yours every single day and moving to Thailand to work as a teacher as a means to an end (sex-wise) is going to end in tears: yours.

 

I suggest you go to Ajarn.com forums and do some research there first and you'll get more of a feel for how it really is here.

 

I'd recommend a few more holidays here for the beer and bum sex before making any life changing moves. Dig around on the net, talk to a few people in person, sit back, take a breath and think.

 

Wicked first post though! (Sock or troll? Whatever...)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Lol... that's some funny shite right there. Good luck with that!

 

Good Lord, that's mild stuff. The stories I could tell you...

 

But don't.

 

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Good story ...it is almost like frede is back in town :grinyes::neener:

 

Ah, Frede! That mystery wrapped in an enigma.

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