shygye Posted August 8, 2010 Report Share Posted August 8, 2010 She already is in a major depression and she has a life long struggle ahead of her. Many of the anti-depression drugs have a side effect of killing the labeto. It seems her depression has worsened since you have been with her. I don't see how you staying longer is going to save her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AF16 Posted August 8, 2010 Report Share Posted August 8, 2010 sorry to hear that coss, maybe the best advice, pharlap too. cav - she does have hormone probs, and a lot of trouble with related imbalances, psychological issues (mainly depression) and puts off seeing doctors and psyches due to her lack of motivation. When these issues do come up in conversation she apologises, though I don't blame her for the issues - she does, and invariably is reduced to tears after a few seconds of talking.. becomes incoherant, sleeps a lot, stays depressed for 1-2 weeks and doesn't talk about it again, unless I bring it up (which I don't) and the depression starts again. This doesn't sound like (only) a depression to me. What are these other issues you mention? I would imagine they would be more important to me in making a decision than the "depression". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
incognito Posted August 14, 2010 Author Report Share Posted August 14, 2010 She already is in a major depression and she has a life long struggle ahead of her. Many of the anti-depression drugs have a side effect of killing the labeto. It seems her depression has worsened since you have been with her. I don't see how you staying longer is going to save her. Side affects definately lower libido and energy levels, and yes, the thought it has got worse since I've been around has been playing on my mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coss Posted August 14, 2010 Report Share Posted August 14, 2010 Not that this has anything to do with Incognito's circumstances, I'll just say that hormones do affect the countenance in ladies. MiWiMee just had a hysterectomy, womb and ovaries, and is now possessed of a sunny disposition. So whilst I am not sure, how this will affect my ongoing escape plans, I guess the message is, things change, and if you can get her operated on, things may improve.. (Black Humor) Cheers Coss Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nervous God Posted August 15, 2010 Report Share Posted August 15, 2010 Coss - interesting co-incidence, sister just had the same and a far nicer person to be around I am told. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coss Posted August 15, 2010 Report Share Posted August 15, 2010 How interesting, now if I could get her chest rebuilt and some affection showing on the meter, things might just work out. Any one know a good Katoey surgeon? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nervous God Posted August 15, 2010 Report Share Posted August 15, 2010 I'll ask her, she likes Middle Earth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bust Posted August 15, 2010 Report Share Posted August 15, 2010 Just remember incognito.....while you are in a relationship with the wrong person you will never find the right person. My ex did and still suffers from depression. What I found was that all me leaving her did was deny her someone to dump her shit on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sanddawg1 Posted August 16, 2010 Report Share Posted August 16, 2010 What I found was that all me leaving her did was deny her someone to dump her shit on. I concur! Same with me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nervous God Posted August 16, 2010 Report Share Posted August 16, 2010 Since you've left Bust you have no one to dump shit on? Keeping dumping shit on him, I do! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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