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"emails and other electronic communication might not be genuine"

 

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welcome to 2012 & fb, whatsapp, skype, cam, smartphones and all kinds of instant communications that will blow almost any fakes away asap apart from the most convincing LBs :p:censored:

 

p.s. how much do the fake uni uniforms go for at khaosan currently?

 

Skype, e.g. might give you a much better picture literally whom you are talking to and if she is actually able to speak English. But this aside any TG will be able to sell her story to unsuspecting newbies. The real scam starts after the guy has landed in LOS anyway. Sex sells.... devil.gif

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yeah this might come as a huge surprise that for Thai ladies, age of their lover does not matter, but it is true! Most of them are so romantic and believe in true love, mutual understanding and connection of two souls no matter what age gap there might be! those young birdies want to possess your soul! indulge!

 

Sigh.

 

Kill me. Now.

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Skype, e.g. might give you a much better picture literally whom you are talking to and if she is actually able to speak English. But this aside any TG will be able to sell her story to unsuspecting newbies. The real scam starts after the guy has landed in LOS anyway. Sex sells.... devil.gif

Are we not all selling a story though? I mean, why criticize a TG for being a possible gold digger or something when we are single minded pussy hounds? LOL As long as the gold does not get handed out, guess who got the best of the deal?

 

It is tiring tough, all the Skyping and chat of small talk and silliness. I'm starting to appreciate why the BG option is attractive...

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All I can say is good luck bro. I once thought I had met the ultimate GTG, graduated from a Top Thai University went to the states for her MBA before coming back to Thailand. I wasn't naive at the time I had already been living here for 13 years when I met her, introduced via mutual friends not via some internet dating site.

 

Lets just say she was the biggest scam artist I ever had the misfortune to know hence the reason why we are going through a multi million Baht divorce case now after 8 years of marriage, and she is now where she belongs behind bars, the judge won't allow her bail, 555555.

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All I can say is good luck bro. I once thought I had met the ultimate GTG, graduated from a Top Thai University went to the states for her MBA before coming back to Thailand. I wasn't naive at the time I had already been living here for 13 years when I met her, introduced via mutual friends not via some internet dating site.

 

Lets just say she was the biggest scam artist I ever had the misfortune to know hence the reason why we are going through a multi million Baht divorce case now after 8 years of marriage, and she is now where she belongs behind bars, the judge won't allow her bail, 555555.

That sucks and I am very sorry to hear about your experience. I have heard similar stories.

 

I guess what I am saying is this: I have been made aware these TGs have a reputation for charming farangs, getting in their head, and manipulating them with false love (or a different definition of it). My guard is up (I hope) and wallet locked. For me, at this time it is unrealistic for a relationship so I will play along, be respectful, and try to have plenty of fun. It ends when I leave Thailand but it will have a lasting effect on my head.

 

I do need some advise. Assuming it gets a bit deep with one of them, what are good ways to "dump" a Thai girl if needed without losing a body part? And, how does one ever figure out their sincerity in such a short time?

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That sucks and I am very sorry to hear about your experience. I have heard similar stories.

 

I guess what I am saying is this: I have been made aware these TGs have a reputation for charming farangs, getting in their head, and manipulating them with false love (or a different definition of it). My guard is up (I hope) and wallet locked. For me, at this time it is unrealistic for a relationship so I will play along, be respectful, and try to have plenty of fun. It ends when I leave Thailand but it will have a lasting effect on my head.

 

I do need some advise. Assuming it gets a bit deep with one of them, what are good ways to "dump" a Thai girl if needed without losing a body part? And, how does one ever figure out their sincerity in such a short time?

 

Shit happens mate, the fact she is Thai and it happened in Thailand is not of much relevance it could have happened anywhere in the world.

 

Just warning you to be careful, if you do get into a relationship with a Thai Female then ensure all your possessions and investments are recorded as "Sin Sun Tua" (Private acquisitions) then she cannot touch them, just one of the many rules one learns along lives journey, I could sit and talk to you for 10 hours about Thai Civil & Commercial and Criminal acts and you would probably get about 5% of it.

 

As I said just tread careful mate.

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That sucks and I am very sorry to hear about your experience. I have heard similar stories.

 

I guess what I am saying is this: I have been made aware these TGs have a reputation for charming farangs, getting in their head, and manipulating them with false love (or a different definition of it). My guard is up (I hope) and wallet locked. For me, at this time it is unrealistic for a relationship so I will play along, be respectful, and try to have plenty of fun. It ends when I leave Thailand but it will have a lasting effect on my head.

 

I do need some advise. Assuming it gets a bit deep with one of them, what are good ways to "dump" a Thai girl if needed without losing a body part? And, how does one ever figure out their sincerity in such a short time?

 

Actually, I don't think that TGs art _that_ clever. In the P4P scene many of them are really simple country girls. It's more IMHO that many Western men are _that_ stupid! It is extremely easy to fall in love with a cute twentish year old who provides really good girl friend sex, who is very sensual around you, seemling is submissive and who asks first for your decision what to do (when did this happen the last time in your home country?), and who might even introduce you to a part of her life (going out with her friends, visiting a temple, e.g.).

 

It is very easy for us to forget that she provides sex and and the girlfriend illusion for money. She might even like you, which of course makes the job easier for her. But this has nothing to do with love.

 

But don't worry, during a ten day trip you won't be able to have deeper relationship with a TG. If a bargirl gets too sticky, which can happen, pay her and send her home. Usually that's it.

The following days you might avoid her bar and if you go there its better not barfine other girls from her bar, this could cause conflicts with her and/or other girls (its not about you, but the girl protecting her territory and not wanting to lose face). If the girl starts to show up at your hotel, just change the hotel.

You shouldn't give her your office email address and some punters buy a Thai mobile phone for to keep in contact with their girl(s) during their trip.

By the way some girls like to stay in contact with you to keep you as return customer, which can be nice.

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PS: you might have already read that you never should get loud e.g. with other people. ALWAYS keep friendly and smile. This has nothing to do with weakness. Below the Thai smile can hide a will of steel. Even the smallest, cute Bargirl might be as tough as you (or even more tough).

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All I can say is good luck bro. I once thought I had met the ultimate GTG, graduated from a Top Thai University went to the states for her MBA before coming back to Thailand. I wasn't naive at the time I had already been living here for 13 years when I met her, introduced via mutual friends not via some internet dating site.

 

Lets just say she was the biggest scam artist I ever had the misfortune to know hence the reason why we are going through a multi million Baht divorce case now after 8 years of marriage, and she is now where she belongs behind bars, the judge won't allow her bail, 555555.

Waitaminnit. Yesterday morning, you reported that you said you were willing to let her use community assets to post bail. Are you saying the JUDGE put the kibosh on that arrangement, and insisted she use her OWN money for the bail, or did the judge just say "Nope. Flight risk. Remanded until trial."?
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good observation specialist.

 

however on the 'dump a gf' shit I say easy peasy:

just dont contact her anymore - take it slow

if she asks u when to see u just say u busy.

no need for any complicated arrangements.

gtg much easier than lunatic possesive bg lol - or so i've been told :p

 

p.s. whatever u do dont trust kamui - who would trust a burglar anyways?

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