Coloseum Posted December 3, 2002 Report Share Posted December 3, 2002 5 times in LOS never had any contact with regular TG's except for service personnel in Hotels, Restaurants etc. On my upcoming visit I just may date 1 or 2. 1. Suggestions as to where to go for a 1st. date ? 2. Am I expected to escort her home at the end of the night, or just putting her in a cab and paying for the ride is OK ? 3. Do I kiss her good night ? etc. etc. etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted December 3, 2002 Report Share Posted December 3, 2002 Hi, Just ask her how much she charges for S/T. She'll take care of the rest. Just kidding. I really don't know, as I've never had the time to try it. From what I've heard, it won't be just you two present on your first date. And it could be a while before you even get a kiss, so would not try on first date. HT Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JJsushi Posted December 3, 2002 Report Share Posted December 3, 2002 Says Coloseum: 5 times in LOS never had any contact with regular TG's except for service personnel in Hotels, Restaurants etc. On my upcoming visit I just may date 1 or 2. 1. Suggestions as to where to go for a 1st. date ? [color:"red"] Go to the Coliseum generally good time. Get there early for prime seating or just ask the lady what she wants to do. [/color] 2. Am I expected to escort her home at the end of the night, or just putting her in a cab and paying for the ride is OK ? [color:"red"] Depends on if she mets you alone or with a a group of friends. Depends on if she met you or you picked her up from her place. Depends on if she spends the night with you or invites you over for a nightcap. Depends on if she shags you rotten at your hotel and you go into a deep slumber.[/color] 3. Do I kiss her good night ? etc. etc. etc. [color:"red"] Up to her. When was the last time you dated a non P4P woman? You gotta read their eyes and body language along with listening to what they say. Do you want to kiss on the first night or do you want to play it cool?[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whosyourdaddy Posted December 3, 2002 Report Share Posted December 3, 2002 1. Do accept the chaperon 2. Do pay for everything and take care of her 3. Do not touch her 4. Do not talk about personal issues..'what is your belief on this.... 5. Do not kiss ( for months) 6. Do not ask too many person questions 7. Do go to a public place 8. Do not invite her for a nightcap at your hotel 9. Do expect her to be late and dont worry about it if she is 10. Do enjoy yourself and dont think too much about the relationship. She will give you hints where the relationship is going and when you figure them out and understand her , you may kiss. Number 2 is tricky. She would most likely have a friend with her to drive with her home. If not jump in the cab with her and then return to your hotel/ apt alone Suggestions for first date.. dreamworld, safari park, the ancient city, dinner on the river would be winners. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coloseum Posted December 3, 2002 Author Report Share Posted December 3, 2002 Is a chaperon an absolute must ? If so, I guess I won't have my date. Not cause I plan anything, but I don't think I could cope. How about if I just invite her over to the Hotel's lobby for a drink in the afternoon ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
check_bin_krap Posted December 3, 2002 Report Share Posted December 3, 2002 "Is a chaperon an absolute must ? If so, I guess I won't have my date. Not cause I plan anything, but I don't think I could cope. How about if I just invite her over to the Hotel's lobby for a drink in the afternoon ? " Hey, don't let that chaperon thing get you down. She would probably suggest and bring a friend along. It even loosens up things a bit, with less pressure on both when more people are there before you know her better. Cheers! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted December 3, 2002 Report Share Posted December 3, 2002 <<<<<How about if I just invite her over to the Hotel's lobby for a drink in the afternoon ?<<<<< :: :: :: Yea, that'll do it. "You come see me a Nana Hotel. I buy you cola!" Seriously, I'll sure you will get some real-life intelligent posts here, but you need to understand that in most cases dating a non-b/g in a very formal, and long drawn out affair (no pun). In most cases I think you will find it takes a great deal of time, and effort (read months) just to get to the point of kissing, and holding hands. I would not even try it, unless you are really going to commit. You could cause her an unbelievable amount of loss-of-face, if you let relationship go on for some time, just so you can conquer her into bed, and then exit. I'd also watch my back very carefully after that. Especially every time I heard a moto guy driving up behind me down some side-soi. HT Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coloseum Posted December 3, 2002 Author Report Share Posted December 3, 2002 Thanks for the encouraging words. What really worries me is that my date and her friend (chaperon) would pass the time talking Thai and I'd feel left out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
check_bin_krap Posted December 3, 2002 Report Share Posted December 3, 2002 "Thanks for the encouraging words. What really worries me is that my date and her friend (chaperon) would pass the time talking Thai and I'd feel left out." I think you are getting into human behaviour more than dating a Thai here. If she is interested in you, and you manage to keep that up during the date no problem. Loosen up a bit - its not like getting married is it? Cheers! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted December 3, 2002 Report Share Posted December 3, 2002 Go have dinner on a River Cruise and when she arrives take a deep breath , say hello to her and her chaperon and smile ! You might even find yourself attracted to both her and the chaperon then take a deeper breath and enjoy the evening ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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