Coloseum Posted December 4, 2002 Author Report Share Posted December 4, 2002 The term "Normal" was borrowed from other threads I've read. Sorry if anyone was offended. I clearly meant a NON BG. Thank you all for the inputs. Keep them coming. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cardinalblue Posted December 4, 2002 Report Share Posted December 4, 2002 I have found that dating regular work best with a day-time date like lunch, park, zoo, movie, etc. They are less likely to bring someone like a friend. I would advise against inviting the girl over to your hotel the first time as she would certainty bring someone along. I think it is just a bad idea as you need to come up with a place that doesn't happen to be where you sleep. I would say 90% of regular girls who I have taken out don't drink alcohol nor smoke so avoid having dates around bars, nightclubs, discos, etc. Inviting a girl for a few drinks just isn't a good idea. I have found that thai girls really like it when you don't drink as well but this is something that is pretty much set beforehand whether you drink or not. Most don't accept taxi money nor do they ask nor expect it like BGs. Try to not look like a walking ATM as we have been accoustomed to with BGs. They have a different level of expectation than a BG of you. Try to get out of that "rescue" mentality that we get ourselves into with BGs..... These girls are much more self-sufficient, self-reliant and have a greater sense of self-worth so don't treat them like children. Avoid any talk about the BG world and even best to act ignorant of it....... I don't even think about touching or kissing the girl of the first date or dates. If she is a true non-bg, you will get signals from her what is acceptable behavior or not. Be on your best behavior as first impressions and image really seem to stick with non-BG girls......... cardinalblue Remember, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lusty Posted December 4, 2002 Report Share Posted December 4, 2002 Number 2 is tricky. She would most likely have a friend with her to drive with her home. If not jump in the cab with her and then return to your hotel/ apt alone or go to to the nearest s/t bar and get rid of all your frustrations! ::Sorry I could'nt resist it. I bet it costs you alot more before you get a shag. Good Thai girls are good,bad Thai girls are even better! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jasmine Posted December 5, 2002 Report Share Posted December 5, 2002 Hi, [color:"red"] Number 2 is tricky. She would most likely have a friend with her to drive with her home. If not jump in the cab with her and then return to your hotel/ apt alone [/color] Thailand is not exactly safe for young woman riding taxi alone. When I was in a University there, studying late, school functions or dates (yes we dated), we, women always had someone trustworthy escorted us home. Once, one of our male class mates dropped me off at my dorm and walked to his place only 2 blocks away, was robbed of the last 10 Baht he had. At least he did not get beaten up. A woman should be careful where she is and with good communication, her date should escort her home. Rusty, I want to thank you for bringing that up on being a gentleman. Jasmine Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jasmine Posted December 5, 2002 Report Share Posted December 5, 2002 [color:"red"] These girls are much more self-sufficient, self-reliant and have a greater sense of self-worth so don't treat them like children. Avoid any talk about the BG world and even best to act ignorant of it....... I don't even think about touching or kissing the girl of the first date or dates. If she is a true non-bg, you will get signals from her what is acceptable behavior or not. Be on your best behavior as first impressions and image really seem to stick with non-BG girls......... [/color] In short, treat her like a respectable woman at home is usually ok. Cardinalblue, it is nice to have men like you who seem to understand the non-BG. Jasmine Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattaya127 Posted December 5, 2002 Report Share Posted December 5, 2002 Try to not look like a walking ATM as we have been accoustomed to with BGs. They have a different level of expectation than a BG of you. Try to get out of that "rescue" mentality that we get ourselves into with BGs..... These girls are much more self-sufficient, self-reliant and have a greater sense of self-worth so don't treat them like children. Avoid any talk about the BG world and even best to act ignorant of it....... ---------------------------------------------- In all due respect, I believe there are a few ladies involved in the nightlife, who appreciate good manners too, a lot of them are not just the stupid giggling greedy Bgs of farang lore, and can be treated or will treat you like any normal woman. Especially these last years, meeting my friends Gfs, I have met some extremely nice ladies with very proper behaviour, who were moonlighting. The money thing, or the spending of it, though of course not so apparent when first-dating a "good" girl, can always crop up in any LOS relationship, albeit under different approaches. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted December 5, 2002 Report Share Posted December 5, 2002 Says pattaya127: Especially these last years, meeting my friends Gfs, I have met some extremely nice ladies with very proper behaviour, who were moonlighting. Do they 'apologise' or 'wai' their customers before they mount their pu**y on their comtomers' mouth(head is regarded a high place for Thais)? Sorry, just couldn't resist. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cardinalblue Posted December 5, 2002 Report Share Posted December 5, 2002 pattaya127, Of course there are exceptions to the rule. Every guy is looking for their needle in the haystack when entering a gogo or beer bar. But I gurantee you will find much more chafe than wheat in such a place. I hear so often guys talking about i like/attracted to only one or two girls in this or that place. It is just the way it is when dealing with these places. Nor would I expect it to be any different. We have a tendency to focus in on what we only like and pay zero or little attention to the hordes of girls that compose each place. You mentioned moonlighters. Well, I was addressing true non-bgs and not tweeners. Girls who are moonlighters know the "business" and have much greater knowleadge and understanding of the "business" than true non-BGs who know nothing or just hearsay. I personally believe there are hundreds maybe thousands of these tweeners who go back and forth between the "entertainment business" world and the regular world. I discount these girls because they are not a true representation of either because they have crossed the line yet usually are trying to hide their existence of it. No one really talks much on this board about these unique girls because they are ones who makes us see grey (cloudy and confusion) when we like to think and see in terms of black (BGs) and white (non-BGs) categories........ cardinalblue Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cardinalblue Posted December 5, 2002 Report Share Posted December 5, 2002 Your statement about "extremely nice ladies with proper behavior who are moonlighting"......Is this not an oxymoran? Maybe we have different definitions of what proper behavior or nice is? Cardinalblue Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
check_bin_krap Posted December 5, 2002 Report Share Posted December 5, 2002 "No one really talks much on this board about these unique girls because they are ones who makes us see grey (cloudy and confusion) when we like to think and see in terms of black (BGs) and white (non-BGs) categories........" This BG and non-BG stuff is confusing things a lot. And then comes freelanzer and GTG and God knows what. Why not use the term prostitute? If they sell their services in a bar, disco or MP is irrelevant. Is a girl picking up customers in the street a non-BG? GTG, is it necessarily any good in a person just because she is not a prostitute? Thats a weird way of looking at people. Cheers! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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