check_bin_krap Posted June 20, 2004 Report Share Posted June 20, 2004 He is a big dude, 85 cm's and 13 kilos. Unfortunately, 2 governments are hating us So I can not stay with my son yet. I spend a lot of time travelling to see him and his mum, I have been to Viet Nam 2 times this year, and my wife has been here once. It was frustrating when he was smaller. He treated me as a completete stranger, no wonder - I am not there every day. Is sucks being a dad who is not allowed to live with his son, and when I visit I even have to get a permission to stay in my wife's house. From district office. He knows me now, when I call on the phone he says "Papa" and "Ba" (Viet for father). I love him and his mum and long for the day when we are allowed to live together. Its pretty hopeless at times - everything takes so much time. Important time is stolen from me and my family. Its 1 1/2 years since I started to try to get my wife here. :banghead: Now, wife can go here - but we still have not gotten a bth'certificate for my son as Viet Nam does not approve of Viet/foreign babies outside of marriage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
limbo Posted June 20, 2004 Report Share Posted June 20, 2004 Hi CBK, You got my deepest sympathy and I hope this red tape nightmare ends quickly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
check_bin_krap Posted June 20, 2004 Author Report Share Posted June 20, 2004 Thanks Limbo ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bibblies Posted June 20, 2004 Report Share Posted June 20, 2004 My small one's 33. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zaad Posted June 20, 2004 Report Share Posted June 20, 2004 Congrats with your kid's birthday. I hope the three of you will live together soon so the next birthdays can be celebrated with the entire family. Goodluck CBK. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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