thalenoi Posted February 18, 2006 Report Share Posted February 18, 2006 No, not me, but a friend When I lived in Chumpon there was this nice guy in his late sixties who rented a house right on the beach and every two days I would visit him and have a drink on his terrace late afternoon. He talked a lot and socialised with thais and farangs alike. He was the niciest person I have met in the 4 years I stayed in Chumpon, I liked his sence of humor, laughing with everything, including his own stupidity. He returned living in Farangland due to health problems, but when I went to Udon last month to rent a house he happened to be there as wel for one week. We went out for dinner, where he told me how he got married to his 5th wife.... A friend of him, living in Udon and married to a thai lady, asked him if he would like to correspond by mail with a thai gal. So he did, they exchanged photos, and he decided tomake his first trip to LOS to meet the lady. He arrived april 21st and married her april 23d. It was very hot in Udon then and just telling me this, made him laugh as always. He immediately added that his family did not laugh when he told them. Heu heu heu. Not a record in fast marriage, but close.... Now I met his wife many many times. Highschool graduate, good command of English, young and beatifull, but a bitch. How he does not see this goes beyond my understanding, although I am sure he knows to a certain degree and he does not care to much. I remeber he organised a birthday party for her to celebrate her 30 years. A few months later he went to see a lawyer to make a will. It appeared she was far from being 30 years young. He told me that he hoped she would be 30 at last on her next birthday, heu heu heu. She asked to be given a golden necklage, which she managed to loose on a train to Udon whilst he was away. He had suspicions she might have sold the gold for cash. Since my gf was friends with his lady this was quickly confirmed. Oh, yeah, she has a child from a previuos thai man she married when she was younger (sic). They live in farangland now and he pays 10k baht/monthfor the "education" of the boy who stays with the grandmother. The grandmother plays cards all day, you guess where the 10k go? heu heu heu. Whilst he was away to get medical treatement a few years back she told him she went home to stay with her boy. My gf told me she went to Phuket in stead to fuck a farang for pleasure. I remember lots of lying and cheating for money events when we lived in Chumpon, disgusting really. He is 70 now and maybe she's 30? Whilst I had dinner with him my gf went to a korean bbq with her. The next morning she told me upset that she only married him for her welfare and that there was no love involved. No surprise here. Yesterday I had dinner with some friends in a thai restaurant in Brussels. There was this very nice man, also 70 years young and he had this thai lady with him. I observed her behaviour and could not get my mind of my old friend, too many similarities in the ladies conduct. As the evening went by, it became clear how wealthy the man must be and how the woman must be waiting for the man to pass away. There were no signs of love in her behaviour, as opposed to two other couples sitting at our table. The old man was clearly enjoying her company as he told me how good it was to have such a beatifull and nice lady with him in his old days. Yep, my good friend would add: heu heu heu. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chilli13 Posted February 18, 2006 Report Share Posted February 18, 2006 chok dee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Encore Posted February 19, 2006 Report Share Posted February 19, 2006 Sorry, Thalenoi, this is no flame, just a question. You question the behaviour of a 'wife' who on her husbands absence goes to Phukhet to have sex with someone else, for pleasure. yet, yesterday, you, who ostensibly has a long term relation (4 years?) with a Thai Gf, ask the question on where to do a quickie at BKK airport on your way back from Belgium to Udon/ i have no judgement, since I am married and also frequent P4P, Just wondering about possible double standards here. I am "Chao Chu", I admit, and wouldn't criticise anyone else for being so. Sauce for goose and gander??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thalenoi Posted February 19, 2006 Author Report Share Posted February 19, 2006 Dear ikkrang, I do not question my friend's wife behaviour, she is bad without question, we all know the signs of lying, cheating, stealing. There is no respect for the man and no love. The lady in question simply confirmed this when she went for dinner with my gf a few weeks back, no surprise to me. Sorry you did not get that message. Bad example on my part to mention her Phuket side step, but it was for all the lying and bullshitting making the man believe she was with her son and mother. I have no problems with the lady wishing to fullfill her sexual needs. I should have listed a ton of her other misbehaviours to make the message clear. Honestly, I have not felt the need of visiting a P4P place since I met my gf more than 4 years ago indeed and last week I spent 6 hours at Dong Muang in between planes walking around terminal 1 and 2, eating a Burger King whopper and spending a fortune on the internet at 50 baht for 15 minutes in that small coffee shop situated in terminal 1 next to the meeting point.(Still deerer than the 5 baht/minute charged in that small net shop on the 4th floor next to the fast food area) I did give it a thought to jump into a taxi to SC or NP but decided not to. I do not forget the sleezy places I visited in an other life, If you know the Cais Do Sodre in Lisboa for example you would know what I mean. I stopped smoking 4 years ago, sometimes I crave for a cig for a second Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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