Guest Posted June 1, 2001 Report Share Posted June 1, 2001 This is not meant to be a dig at anyone who has posted recently about their disasterous marriages / relationships with bargirls, but I was wondering why we never hear from anyone whose relationship ended because THEY cheated on and lied etc to their wife / girlfriend, rather than vice verce? Is it because those on this board are not typical of the average Farang? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
khunsanuk Posted June 1, 2001 Report Share Posted June 1, 2001 Hi, Very good point. I think that a lot of the guys measure with double standards. They can cheat, the wife/gf can not. Sanuk! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nomad Posted June 1, 2001 Report Share Posted June 1, 2001 quote: Originally posted by David_66_UK: ... I was wondering why we never hear from anyone whose relationship ended because THEY cheated on and lied etc to their wife / girlfriend ...? I'm sure no guy on this board has ever cheated on his wife or girlfriend. If he did, he'd be banished. Hear that girls. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nomad Posted June 1, 2001 Report Share Posted June 1, 2001 quote: Originally posted by db_sez_aloha: I'm sure no one has because this is a Sanuk board, and you can't sanuk when your johnson has gone for a duck's dinner... db ... or when your little fella gets caught in the floppy drive during a pornography session. Man that hurts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 1, 2001 Report Share Posted June 1, 2001 I am having to live through the consequences of someone else butterflying right now. My wife’s friend spends half her life at our apartment moaning and asking my wife’s advice about the farang boyfriend with whom she lives. According to the lady he is out at the bars every night never coming home before 23.00 and often much later and she knows he is butterflying. (I’d love to know how he gets up for work every morning). He now has his best mate’s Thai wife, his ex-girlfriend, phoning him at home trying to get back together with him. Not a good thing to happen especially if you are not home to intercept them IMHO. He is actually considering taking her back. To add further insult to injury she is getting horny as he has already spilt his seed before he gets home! (My brief reverie about volunteering to help her out was rudely interrupted by the tap, tap, tap of the knife blade on the arm of my wife’s chair.) Personally I am getting a little bored with the seemingly never ending saga but the interesting point, to me anyway, is that she really doesn’t want to go work in a bar. She has taken a considerable pay cut to go and live with this guy as he gives her less than a third of what she was earning, if you were to see her you would appreciate why. To be fair to him he is being more than generous if you consider the $200 quoted in other threads. She is forever wailing “Why I no find gooh mahn to luurf me-ah?” Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 2, 2001 Report Share Posted June 2, 2001 I'm sure no one has because this is a Sanuk board, and you can't sanuk when your johnson has gone for a duck's dinner... I for one would never cheat on my wife and girl friend, they'd never forgive me. 555 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
augustart Posted June 3, 2001 Report Share Posted June 3, 2001 David, Yes, good point. I guess we have a bunch of saints on this board, LOL. augustart Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashman Posted June 6, 2001 Report Share Posted June 6, 2001 What's good for the goose is good for the gander. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spirit_of_town_hall Posted June 6, 2001 Report Share Posted June 6, 2001 I'm pretty sure that over 10 % of the posters on this forum have at some time cheated on their wives, possibly more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MekhongKurt Posted June 7, 2001 Report Share Posted June 7, 2001 This is an interesting point, in all seriousness. Fundamentally, what constitutes "cheating" for the man? When I moved in the one and only Thai girlfriend I've had in my several years in this Merry Kingdom, she made but 3 requests of me: (1.) Don't sleep with her friends; (2.) Don't make her lose face (closely connected to (1.), in my understanding; and, (3.) Don't cut her off financially without a spot of warning. If (1.) and (2.) are standard sorts of requirements of Thai ladies of their Significant Other, then I repeat: what is "chaeting," precisely, in Thai-lady terms? It appears to me that these are standard sorts of requirements, given the Thai man's fondness of his "minor wives." Of course, this whole question immediately gets bogged down in the larger issue of cultural relativism. I certainly don't pretend to have an answer -- in fact, I don't have a clue, at the end of the day. Mekhong Kurt http://BangkokAtoZ.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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