Guest Posted July 22, 2001 Report Share Posted July 22, 2001 quote: Originally posted by bungie6: I recently flipped over a 25 year old pooying. Problem is I just turned 48, though look somewhat younger. Do you think she thinks I'm an old fart? Is it possible for such an age gap to not be a problem? Can a Thai girl honestly love someone old enough to be her dad? My answers: 1. How could anyone on this board possibly know? Especially since all you've told us about the both of you is your ages. 2. Yes. Age is less of an issue (but still important). That is if you're in Thailand. Don't know about problems you might encounter in your home country. I met a 28 year old thai woman (non-bar) who loved her 78 year old canadian, uh, 'boyfriend'. They'd known eachother for years beforehand though (he was her boss), and he took good care of her and her family. And lets not forget how common it is for aging movie stars and wealthy folk to trade in their wives for newer models. Chances are other things are potentialy much bigger problems: culture/language differences, mismatched expectations, etc... 3. Yes. See above. Read around for posts on situations similar to yours. An important factor in love and attraction for women is wealth and power. For men it's youth and beauty. In thai/farang relationships these are even more important. Call me cynical, but I think love is just your biological programming telling you bond with this person because they meet the above criteria. Some people don't feel love part but are just manipulative to get what they want. Hence tales of scheming bar girls, etc. (But of course all of us are innocent of manipulating young women for sex! ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Kev Posted July 22, 2001 Report Share Posted July 22, 2001 Go for it Gramps!! I turn 48 myself in September, and girlfriend of past two years turns 24 the week before. We'll finally be to the point where she's half my age!! And we're both very happy together! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BkkShaggy Posted July 22, 2001 Report Share Posted July 22, 2001 >Can a Thai girl honestly love someone old enough to be her dad? Of course, she can !! I know a 25 year-old educated Thai lady married to an 52 year-old Thai man!! After 8 years, they're still happily married. At first her family was worried about the "dirty old man" issue. But after the guy had proved himself that he was not , they got married. In your case, if she's a bg - other postes have given good advice. But if she's not a bg, you may need a little more time to prove yourself to the girl and the girl to you. If you're sincere you won't have any problem. Good luck, BkkShaggy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 23, 2001 Report Share Posted July 23, 2001 Thanks for all the advice. I guess I should point out that this relationship is entirely one-sided at the moment. I'm crazy about her but she doesn't want to sleep with me because she says my large farang penis hurts her. I'm going to tell her that experts say she will get accustomed to it with use and it will no longer hurt. So you see I've got a bit of a way to go before the marriage proposal, even if I did blurt out "Pom rak koon" accidentally the other day, quickly correcting it to "Pom chawp kook maak." And she doesn't like my hairy body either. But I can't stop thinking about her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 25, 2001 Report Share Posted July 25, 2001 perhaps simply feeling the need to ask the question is an aswer in itself. bkk_nsr Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 25, 2001 Report Share Posted July 25, 2001 When is a farang too old for a pooying? As far as HE'S concerned, it's when the arthritis kicks in and he can't get the viagra out of the blister pack. As far as SHE'S concerned it's when the Alzheimers kicks in and he can't remember his ATM PIN number. Just a rough guide Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 26, 2001 Report Share Posted July 26, 2001 Like women all over the World, Thai girls vary in their likes and dislikes, I had a wonderful fling with a soapy girl back in April she spoke exellent English, and I learnt a lot from her, she said that whilst in the fishbowl she always sat with the same friend and if an older man came in the friend would always say " Look, an old man, I hope he doesn't pick me" whereas my lady has no problem with older men, she doesn't prefer them over younger men and vice versa, she was 23 years old, and said she wanted to be out of it by the age of 27, " I don't want to be working at that age and men come in and say I don't want that old woman " for a few more details on this lady see the thread " Your most memorable angel " on page 12 of general discussion. And for those concerned about the age gap, remember the words of Tony Curtis " I woudn't be seen dead with a woman old enough to be my wife " Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 26, 2001 Report Share Posted July 26, 2001 Thais are fairly ageist, more so than farangs I would say. However they seem willing to cut some slack for farangs or rich people. If you were 37 you could probably get away with it. 48 is pushing it a bit. I would let her go. Let her find a nice Thai boy of her own age. It might be painful but you'll both be happier in the long run. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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