MaiLuk Posted September 1, 2003 Report Share Posted September 1, 2003 Since we are discussing love recently, 3 questions: Is it really important that your thai girlfriend or wife love you? Related question: Is it enough that she respects you and is genuinely committed to the relationship? If you overheard your faithful young thai lady telling her friend on the phone that she wants to be with you forever but feels no love, would you end it? [My definition of love: the same as Romeo and Juliet]. MaiLuk [Rest removed at request of the poster - KS] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jitagawn Posted September 1, 2003 Report Share Posted September 1, 2003 Curious post yet a reasonable one given that marriages in Thailand frequently have less to do with "love" in the western sense than security,stability, familial honor and sometimes even upward class mobility. Yet I see classic"love" amongst my Thai friends as well- Its your call bro what do you feel inside-in your heart? What do YOU need We are all different thank-Buddha- I personally need dedication and a depth of understanding and communication and yes love is part of it but the fantasy love of romance novels fades into a wonderful friendship and the sharing experience of life when it is all said and done...IMHO Always good to ask these questions of one"s self. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jitagawn Posted September 1, 2003 Report Share Posted September 1, 2003 PS- They ALL say kit tung khun chang louiie-(every one of them) Something to ponder ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaiLuk Posted September 1, 2003 Author Report Share Posted September 1, 2003 They ALL say kit tung khun chang louiie-(every one of them) I know, the ex gf said it 10 times a day even tho we lived together Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 1, 2003 Report Share Posted September 1, 2003 You have described a situation where you are both aware that something is missing in your current relationship. In my mind this is a serious danger sign, because the corollary to something being missing is the ever-present possibility that she'll find that something elsewhere. In other words, are you just biding your time with each other until something better comes along? A recipe for heartache down the line... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shygye Posted September 1, 2003 Report Share Posted September 1, 2003 [color:"green"] [My definition of love: the same as Romeo and Juliet]. [/color] That is why there is a 50% divorce rate in Farangland. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaiLuk Posted September 1, 2003 Author Report Share Posted September 1, 2003 Better than mutual suicide i suppose :: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaiLuk Posted September 1, 2003 Author Report Share Posted September 1, 2003 the ever-present possibility that she'll find that something elsewhere. A torrid love affair behind my back. But this can happen also in relationships that started out very hot. Agree? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattaya127 Posted September 1, 2003 Report Share Posted September 1, 2003 hard to get into this. You need to really live with her for a while, settle in some fashion as a couple. Until then, no proof is in any pudding, so to speak. IMO Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Torneyboy Posted September 1, 2003 Report Share Posted September 1, 2003 Says MaiLuk: </font><blockquote><font class="small">Quote:</font><hr /> They ALL say kit tung khun chang louiie-(every one of them) I know, the ex gf said it 10 times a day even tho we lived together She misses you... IMO..no love no relationship...harsh but true. BTW my wife asks me every day if i miss her (after we get home ) from work :: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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