Guest Posted March 7, 2002 Report Share Posted March 7, 2002 I have a problem with not being able to cum. It seems to take forever,and to be honest, I seem to lose interest before I get there. Not sure if its a mental or a physical thing but hoping maybe someone knows of anything (Vitamins, herbs,drugs, better looking women ) that can help. Thought of giving up 'Self Gratification' but saving that as Very Last Resort. BTW whats the price of Viagra? Thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr. Cop Posted March 7, 2002 Report Share Posted March 7, 2002 Guardian, What's your age, are you married and are you taking any type of medication now? This is a common problem and is like a puzzle. Do't worry, you are normal Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 7, 2002 Report Share Posted March 7, 2002 NOrmal!,, no you are not normal.. if you cant cum you have serious problems buddy sorry... now viagra you DONT NEED IT!... what you might need is ZINC or horney goat weed..these will make your libido(sexdrive) better make you real horney... so that way it will make the sperms move your cock hard and you will be feeling it... then you will blow your load... ALSO..its in your mind..so look in the mirror or take two girls and get nasty... think cool stuff what gets you off... because the fact is..if you cant finish the job..no point in starting it!!!.. just stresses you out and then she feels like W.T.F do you like me?...then you gotta tell stories... so maybe you might have a inside problem..so ZINC will help that go but a bottle of ZINC tabs and start taking one a day.. trust me it works....and goat weed... well try a chinese medicine store... ZINC!!! peace.... P,S.damn you must fuck for hours!!! man I have a problem of blowing to early and you have a problem of not blowing at all..ahahaahha... still a LOS virgin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 8, 2002 Report Share Posted March 8, 2002 I just got back from buying Zinc, could not find any 'Goat Weed',but will hit China Town when I have time. DrCop, It's embarrasing to admit but I am 35. I am single now for 2 1/2 years but had this problem long before that.Never used to really think of it as a problem, was kind of proud, but now I find the women tire out long before I do. I am not taking any kind of medication that affects the situation, hoping the zinc will help. Seoulman, would trade problems with you any day!At least you can reload and shoot again! As for not starting? Well it is too much fun not to! I hear you on the questions from the women but believe me, I have 5 or 6 stories that work pretty well and have still not been called on. As for fucking for hours? Well yes, except it is kind of a start and stop situation, we start, after a while she gets tirede, we reast , start again, this can go on for a while. Would much rather re-start with a freshly loaded gun! Thanks both for the comments and suggestions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tiger Moth Posted March 8, 2002 Report Share Posted March 8, 2002 Guardian, Your situation could be similar to mine. That is, for a few years, having always taken a long time to finish with a woman, I became convinced that I was no longer able to do so. As was suggested to you, I overcame this problem going to bed with a woman young and attractive enough to get me really hot and by determination. The determination part was that I had lost confidence but now I refused to get into that negative thinking and forced my concentration onto the attractive woman I was with. After being successful that once, I was more successful subsequently and have recently finished twice in a night - will be trying for 3. Also, for me, I find that I am less likely to be successful if I am "tenderly making love to this sweet woman" than if I am "fucking this hot young bitch". May not be the most desirable attitudinal situation, but such is life. By the way, I am tender and sweet before and after but more successful if I am aggressive during the act. I do think that for me there may be a physical component in that I don't think I can finish as many times in a week as the average guy. But, perhaps this is more in my head and I need to work on it. Lastly, although I haven't tried Zinc, I do take a testosterone precursor, eat a healthy diet, get appropriate rest, don't drink alcohol. Best of luck to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 8, 2002 Report Share Posted March 8, 2002 As for fucking for hours? Well yes, except it is kind of a start and stop situation, we start, after a while she gets tirede, we reast , start again, this can go on for a while. When you're in Thailand, at least, this is not a problem. Take two girls. Other advice is don't worry about it. If you can improve your experiences, great, but enjoy whatever you do get out of them. Ejaculating is a fine thing, but as you've noticed, it's not the only thing. If you have or want to finish yourself off by hand, there's no shame in that (for you or her). It's better than going at it until you break a condom. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 8, 2002 Report Share Posted March 8, 2002 In the sack is one place where cuming in first is not always the best thing. I tend to fantacize on some kinky thoughts or concentrate on that fact that Im drilling some gorgeous babe. If I concentrate on me than I can get myself to blow and do it many times in one night/ obviously since I can go a while the first thing that is excting is watching this lovely gal get off, once or twice ,who is with me than I worry about myself. I mean if it does not turn you on why do it. Sex seems to be one of the more shallow pursuits in life but of the SHALLOW Pursuits it is one of the netter ones in that it sure is fun. Also why dont you try getting her to be more oral {lick you all over while you work it by hand }with you maybe drilling her does not float your boat. There are only a few gals where I get off inside them and im not sure what the key is besides chemistry. There are many ways to get off, and Thai girls seem to know them all its just a matter of finding someone you have the chemistry with.GOOD LUCK [ March 08, 2002: Message edited by: Serious Sanuk ] [ March 08, 2002: Message edited by: Serious Sanuk ] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 8, 2002 Report Share Posted March 8, 2002 I'm assuming your problem is not that severe since you've implied you can get off OK by yourself. Are you talking about coming inside a woman when you are using a condom rather that without a condom? I have had this problem before, especially the first few years of my sexually active life. Condoms do take away from sensation. Some suggestions: - Try Avanti condoms, which are polyeurethane, transfer heat better and give more friction and sensation. Make sure you have adequate lube though, as these are more prone to breakage. - After fucking for a while have her get you off with her mouth and/or her hands. I stayed with one girl for a week, and 90% of the time she got me off with a hand job. I trained her as we went and she got very good and got a big kick out of it. Blowjobs/handjobs can give better orgasms than a condomclad fuck IMO. - YEah, try better looking women too. Arousal for men is very visual, as you probably know. Most people would say Viagra will not help, but it might. A full erection can be very arousing for both people and just might do the trick. I know once it goes down for me when I'm wearing a condom it's hard to get it up again. You can find info on Viagra by using the search feature. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 8, 2002 Report Share Posted March 8, 2002 I would NEVER dismiss [censored] young, hot babes. Still, I urge you to consult a urologist at one of the Western hospitals here. It's entirely possible that this is merely a symptom of an underlying, potentially serious problem. If it's not, then you'll know; if it is, then you can get treatment. Even if it's not, he'll know best how to improve your situation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bibblies Posted March 9, 2002 Report Share Posted March 9, 2002 I'd relax about it, give it some time. I have had this happen to me fairly often. It can happen when I've drunk a lot or am 'forcing it' - that is, doing it for the sake of it when I'm not really in the mood. You can get into a routine rut after a while, so it's important to try something new. If I have to get off, I try something new, something filthy. Try to fulfill a new fantasy in a fully-mirrored short-time room. If I take a girl from a go-go bar, I often like to get her to wear her stage costume, otherwise the line of fantasy sometimes breaks. Now - this is weird. I've even started to think of girl B while shagging girl A and then, bizarrely, the next night I've taken girl B, but started to fantasize about girl A again. Anyone else had this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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