Guest Posted November 13, 2001 Report Share Posted November 13, 2001 actually, both feet. Being the "noob rookie" that I was on my first trip to the kingdom a month ago, I'm sorta in a pickle if and when I'll be visiting bangkok again. (heh, I think i fucked that sentence up. hope its comprehensible) During the last leg of my trip, I met 2 great BG's. The first one(let's call her Ahn) was a fresh drink of water. Those whom read my chronicles know of my hit/miss luck. Ahn delivered everything I yearned for, in a very simple easy-going fashion. We spent like a week together. I decided to stop seeing her for 2 reasons. One, because I had one day left before I went back to the US and two, I wanted to have one last sanuk run. Anyways, so I stopped seeing Ahn and I met another winner! (wtf!!! I find 2 winners in a row when I have only a week left of my trip! damn my fucking luck!) Winner number 2(call her Tu) offered me what Ahn couldn't, decent dialogue. Well, it IS my fault that I was totally ignorant in thai... Anyways, Tu and I conversed extremely well. She had the funniest and most engaging stories. I was swept. Now, the problem is this. I've kept in contact with both of them since I left. Ahn has emailed me several times and asks when I'll be back and such. Tu actually put more effort and called me on the phone several times so I could get her new cellular number. I do feel some connection with both these great girls and probably I'm to blame to have made or making the scenario more difficult. If I somehow manage to piss off both girls, I'm afraid I'll be cast out of 2 of my favorite sanuk joints. Also, being the idiot retard I am, I do want to see them both, but how.... I do have genuine feelings for both of them, but not to the extent of serious long-term relationship type. Or am I deluding myself as usual and overthinking this. Perhaps, all the emails and phonecalls are part of their reperatoire(sp?)? They've never asked for more money or even asked for it while I was there, neither while I'm here at home. Hell, Tu has actually lost some money calling me in the states on her cellular, I think. Fuck, I wish I wasn't so dumb to burn my bridges. I liked those bridges too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 14, 2001 Report Share Posted November 14, 2001 Just tell each of them, you have another girl, but you like her too. As long, as you don't want to engange in a serious relationship with any of them, they will get along pretty well. Don't forget, they are bargirls. I have a friend, who had 2 girls at the same time together in his bed. Roland Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 14, 2001 Report Share Posted November 14, 2001 Idiot, retard you are calling yourself because you are seeing 2 girls??? You are in LOS. WITH MONEY IN YOUR POCKET! You do what you do! Just try to do it respectfully. Well, as respectfully as you can! Mykal Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 14, 2001 Report Share Posted November 14, 2001 tyler durden, I don't think I can be of much assistance here, because I have somewhat of a similar problem. Four nights before leaving to come home I meet a girl in Soi 7 beergarden. The next morning I made arrangments to see her 2 nights later. Of all the gf experiences I had in the LOS, I liked her the best. Like you stated, she had qualities that I enjoyed. The only downside of being with her was the communications. I didn't know Thai and she sure didn't know English. Thank goodness for my Thai phrase book. I also wanted to spend my last night with her, but she was going up country to visit the family. Somehow I found out that she had a email address and gave it to me. With the language problem, I really didn't think I would ever get a answer to a email. After I was home for a few days and cleaning out my luggage I found her address. Shortly after sending here a email I got one back from her. Let me tell you all now, she told me that she had a girl friend helping her with the translations. After a few emails, I told her I was returning to Bkk and would like to see her again. She has taken this to mean, we will spend all my time in Thailand together. I would like to spend a few nights and days with her but, thats all. She knew that I went to Pattaya last time and said we can go there together. This would be like taking your own candy to the candy store. I will be in Bkk 3 days before the date she thinks I coming. She also doesn't know that I will be spending 3 weeks this time. So I guess my problem or decission will need to be, do I see her and if so for how long. I would like to see her again, but not cause a major problem when she finds out it will be only for a few days. I think I will try to use a little of what Roland said. Might be a good idea to do this in a email shortly before I return there. Once again she is getting help (and maybe coaching) with her emails. I'm also sure the would like a long time security of income, and not need to take the chance of not getting someone each night. I have throught about lying to her about when I arrive and leave. I haven't lied yet, just haven't told her the dates. Like mentioned in other threads as big as Bangkok is, you can't hide. I also don't want to play the hotel rotation game. I guess I want my cake and eat it too. tyler, I'm lucky I only shot myself in one foot this time. I will watch for answers to your thread, and let the chips fall where they do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Old Hippie Posted November 14, 2001 Report Share Posted November 14, 2001 Tyler, To bad you had to leave just as things were picking up! 2 girls, 2 different bars...? well, you can be honest with them...or you can try explaining that you want both of them...at the same time! They are women, I am sure they will understand! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 14, 2001 Report Share Posted November 14, 2001 Remember this, girls who work at bars and street are looking for a better life or a better future. They are fishing to see if they can get a catch. You are not the only piece of action she is getting or working on. You are only 2 week out of the year or what ever time you have. Think about it. Girls who really want a better future with a farang willing to go as far as spending their own money to see if they can hook you. If you let your guard down, your FUCK. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattaya127 Posted November 14, 2001 Report Share Posted November 14, 2001 Why does it have to be a quandary? lay your cards down to them, the faster the better, and most likely, they will accept your rules. You may have to spend a little now, that's all. Either that, or they are totally stupid! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JJsushi Posted November 14, 2001 Report Share Posted November 14, 2001 I fail to see your predicament. The only problem that I see is that you are allowing your desires and awkward sense of committment cloud your ability to make a decision. Last time I checked out the BG scene the paying customer ususually calls the shots. Unfortunately, most farang forget this and usually get themselves into sticky situations of their own doing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted December 4, 2001 Report Share Posted December 4, 2001 Whatever you do, don't lie to them. They will respect you more if you're honest. Tell them "Me, butterfly"... I don't think there's a b/g in Thailand who won't understand your desire to explore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted December 5, 2001 Report Share Posted December 5, 2001 but don't butterfly too much If you do then maybe someone will do the knife and helium baloon trick on your d*** oush! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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