Hamokhamok Posted February 14, 2002 Report Share Posted February 14, 2002 I have been asked for money by a girl in Bangkok. I actually was only with her for one night but we have kept in touch by e-mail. I have declined the offer of me sending money to her. My question is how is that taken by her - what are your experiences. Is that the end of our e-mail relationship, keeping in mind I'm going back to Bangkok in April. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 14, 2002 Report Share Posted February 14, 2002 My experiences have been- you don't give money then she don't like you no more! Easy as that. Though if you turn up at her bar in a couple of months with a pocket full of drachmas then she will probably love you again for a few days . Try one of the thousands of others , & then one of the thousand of others. I hope you guys do well in the world cup too!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fatbastard33 Posted February 14, 2002 Report Share Posted February 14, 2002 Originally posted by Hamokhamok: "I have been asked for money by a girl in Bangkok. I actually was only with her for one night but we have kept in touch by e-mail. I have declined the offer of me sending money to her. My question is how is that taken by her - what are your experiences. Is that the end of our e-mail relationship, keeping in mind I'm going back to Bangkok in April." As a girl once said to me "boyfriend send money, customer no send money". Looks like when you are in Bangkok in April you will only be a customer, and not a boyfriend Fatbastard33 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 14, 2002 Report Share Posted February 14, 2002 Well I met a Thai Girl through the internet classifieds ( called hereself aon/supaporn junadee.After about 2 months of corespondence and tales of hardship she asked me to send her 15000 baht. She even mailed me her account number. When i said that it would not be possible she said that she was going back to her village and would not contact me any more. She refused to take any help like contacting a friend of mine for a job. I am not at all suprised that you have been asked. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Central Scrutinizer Posted February 14, 2002 Report Share Posted February 14, 2002 Hamok, Well, you'd only spent one night with her! I wouldn't worry too much about it really. Can't blame her for trying though, and you're smart not to do it. Don't let her guilt you into it. If you see her again I doubt she'll even bring up the subject. You haven't been leading her on in your e-mails about how you feel about her and claiming your undying love for her have you? If not, don't worry about it. Cent Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 14, 2002 Report Share Posted February 14, 2002 When I was in BKK in Y2K one BG gave me her email, only the one night I was with her. Anyway I think email was something completely new to her as on the same piece of paper she wrote her password. Occasionally I'd send the odd brief email, nothing more as I don't know who else she gave her Password to innocently. From time to time I couldn't resist the urge but to take a look in the a/c and the was a very clear pattern ---> (1)Meet customer & give email (2)Customer goes home in distress (3)exchange about 3 friendly emails (4)email explaining new problem (5)'problem still have' + need money She asked me also but I didn't bother replying, one lad said her would send some and she emailed him all her bank details etc. I'd say be carefull what any details you put in emails to BGs because it could end up anywhere. Often you can go to Internet shops in BKK and see BGs email a/c's still logged into and if you wanted there would be plenty of material for Blackmail scams. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 14, 2002 Report Share Posted February 14, 2002 I'll pass on what a veteran BG advised me for a similar case. If a BG in a long distance relationship asks for money, it is a big red flag. She went on to recommend you flatly refuse and see if the BG continues to correspond or not. If not, she was only interested in your money. If so, she really is interested in you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 14, 2002 Report Share Posted February 14, 2002 Escape Rabbit, Veteran BGs can be a gold mine of information. One told me once that "farang who sends money to lady Thai is stupid" another gem was "lady Thai no love farang...just love his money". I jokingly said to a former BG friend of mine who has a half farang son "one day your son marry Thai lady" she was most incenced and said "no no, Thai lady no good". All obvious bits of info but good to hear from the horses mouth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhordPhan Posted February 15, 2002 Report Share Posted February 15, 2002 There's a country song that's been around for many years. My mother used to sing parts of it when I was a child. I think Willie Nelson does one of the better renditions. Part of it goes... "If you've got the money, honey, I've got the time...When you've got no more money, honey, I've got no more time." I try to keep this in mind when sporting with the lovelies. PhordPhan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hamokhamok Posted February 15, 2002 Author Report Share Posted February 15, 2002 Thanks people. So many different ideas. For the record I haven't heard from her since. I will keep you informed. It will be interesting to see if she e-mails me ever again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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