happyfarang2547 Posted August 6, 2006 Report Share Posted August 6, 2006 It's a long sad story but the long and short of it is a guy I know is 50 year old and is still a virgin. He lived with his mother until a couple of years ago when she died. Since then he has hired several girls to help him but to no avail. The last one was a nice go-go girl he begged over a period of several months until she finally believed his pathetic story and agreed to help him. After paying her $1000 he wouldn't take his underwear off and he wouldn't let her touch him. Now this guy wants to come to LOS when I come in a couple of months. I've suggested he see a shrink. Do you think there is hope for him there? He reads this board so any helpful advice would be appreciated? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
passingthru69 Posted August 6, 2006 Report Share Posted August 6, 2006 I think a trip would be great for him, but only after talking to a therapist. One that deals in this type of problem. Was or is he a momma's boy. No disrespect to his deceased mom. But yes he needs help and a holiday. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happyfarang2547 Posted August 6, 2006 Author Report Share Posted August 6, 2006 Yes, he was a momma's boy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chuckwoww Posted August 6, 2006 Report Share Posted August 6, 2006 Poor guy. Travel, with a friend, would be good for him. And some kind of therapy might help. But if his mother was really dominant he'll never completely escape. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sayjann Posted August 6, 2006 Report Share Posted August 6, 2006 i know someone very similar. in his 50's,never married and totally dominated by his Mother. he cannot use a toaster or microwave as he was never shown,every meal cooked for him. it was instilled into him that any Foreign food was poisonous and he will not touch anything strange. he was even told by his Mother that cheese on toast is bad because it is also known as Welsh Rarebit and that is Foreign. never had a GF and we all think he is still a virgin,but who knows?. he has never left the UK in his life and never takes time off from work. he is the ideal person i would love to take away to a place like Thailand to sort him out. but i know he would be so imtimidated by what happens and would just sit there looking helpless. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julian2 Posted August 7, 2006 Report Share Posted August 7, 2006 Some guys just never manage it, not only Mummy's boys but just shy. My neighbour, a Pom, was nearly forty when he cracked it and has only ever had P4P girls. His Mrs is the Pattaya bargirl from hell. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 7, 2006 Report Share Posted August 7, 2006 Yep, therapy first...which might take a while.......it's possible he could enjoy intimacy, but needs to sort out his thinking first... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chanchao Posted August 7, 2006 Report Share Posted August 7, 2006 If Thailand can't help him then nothing can. Seriously though, there is a real risk of falling in love with the first but most horrible skank he meets, and being taken to the cleaners.. At that point (after havign met someone) you're not in the position to talk sense into him anymore. Anyway, all this talk is moot: you can NEVER know how people will respond to Thailand. Some of the most outgoing people in the world turn into trembling bunnies, some mothers-boys actually come to life and have a great and even generally responsible (towards everyone and himself) time. Maybe it would be good to focus on the "holiday" aspect first, so that would mean not hitting Nana or Pattaya on day one. But take an actual holiday, the beach, the mountains, visit Sukhothai, etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BKKanalist Posted August 7, 2006 Report Share Posted August 7, 2006 Take him coyote dancing but limit your involvemeent if you can would be my advice. Have had sexually dysfunctional freinds come over here before whith disastrous results. Chanchao is probably right in that he will fall in love with the first hard core, tatooed skank scamming slut coyote dancer and start making plans to buy farms and hosues for her and her Thai husband. It is beyond these guys that girls will lie. Then you will be the asshole for not understanding that his girl is different. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DocThai Posted August 7, 2006 Report Share Posted August 7, 2006 I would not recommend taking him to any Entertainment Zones until he has had a chance to work through some of his issues. His level of performance anxiety on many levels could prove to cause long term emotional scarring. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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