junglesoup Posted September 7, 2007 Report Share Posted September 7, 2007 HI guys, I ve been thinking recentely about any relationships I ll find myself in, in the future. With my circumstances now, of course with any future girlfriends I will need to wear a condom. I know sex isnt the be all and end all in this world...but to be honest, I have quite a high sex drive, and I really enjoy having sex. Now, all us guys know that sex isnt as good with a condom on...however this is my question. Is the pleasure reduced for a women by the same degree as it is for a man, when wearing a condom? Also, if I m in LOS, what are the best condom options for me. I have been getting to know a girl over the past few months o myspace. We talk everyday and have hour long phone convesations. She is a student at Thammasat, cute,22 years old and seems like a great girl, with great taste in music which I think isnt that common for a Thai girl. I knew this girl before I knew my status. I have told her about it. She doesnt seem to mind, and said it changes nothing really. She is even prepared to come to see a doc at Bumrungrad to get all the facts about safe sex in a discordant relationship. I was actually taken aback by her reaction, although I m very pleasantly surprised. She has been a great outlet for me to chat to in the last couple of months, and we have had a really good laugh. So, this is my question. What are the best condom options for me in LOS, as regards safety but also sensitivity? And do condoms really reduce a womens pleasure that much? And do you sex mongers have any tips about how to have a great sex life for someone in my position. The docs here have told me, even of condom does break, they PEP available. In the beginning its going to be hard to relax while thinking about all this. My viral load is undetectable I found out last week. So I think this reduces infection rate even more, if I do have a condom that fails. I ll not be putting any pressure on any girl I m in a relationship with, but this girl seems to be pretty much ok with it. She seems more enlightened than most I suspect. She said, not to feel bad. she just said, its like, well I can get a cold or a flu, you just happen to have this...attitudes are changing maybe. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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