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Did you have a wedding party?


jai-dee

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Ok for those of you who are picky. It was buddhist cermony at an ungodly hour at the wife's family home with evening reception at Sofitel and registration at the Don Muang Amphur in my wifes Soi there. Honeymoon was a relaxing four days in Krabi at Pra Nang Inn... with a packge deal we bought at some Thai expo they had at Impact Arena.

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This is late and most points have been made but regardless of the reasons this should be your GF's decision and there is no requirement that you must have a party (and although her reasons may sound false remember that she is not going to say something that might make you feel bad). She probably would appreciate a morning offering to the monks and blessing at her home; but that also should be her call.

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Thanks for all the replies. Since I've posted the question there have

been some developments and it is now almost certain that we'll get

married during my next visit to Thailand in September.

 

My GF is a very practical girl, for her the party is a waste of money

and effort. Also she doesn't hold her fellow village folks in very

high esteem. That's fine with me, it simplifies the matters. I've

been in the village, met the neighbours and relatives, and I rather

agree with her view. We've been to the local temple and obtained the

monk's blessing, and we held the "sacrifice pig's head for the ghosts"

ceremony (hua muu sen wai phii) where all her relatives gathered

and gave us their blessing. Although I suspect they were so eager

to come because they walked away with 2kg of pork each. This ceremony

cost me 12,000 baht but her mother sacrificed one of her pigs.

 

So what remains now is to visit the ampheur and complete the formalities

there. I have no intention of spending any amount of time in the village

and neither does the GF. I will however have to build a new house for

her parents.

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Guest lazyphil

My inlaws live on the road you turn right onto at the lights just up from Major (dont know the name of it?!!), there house is about 1/2 mile up there by the river. I always take the address written in Thai to show taxi drivers when I'm foraging on my own or I'd get lost, but usually I manage to direct them to the house without the address I have written down, its an amusing sight I imagine!!

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I had a great wedding, apart from the wife forgetting to tell me we where getting married, but thats a old old story.

 

Party was fun, moved around the village a bit as well, cost me about 4500 baht!!!

 

Most of that (1000) on beer!

 

If its in a rural village it should be this cheap if they are making the food!

 

If its at a restaurant, then of course much more

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