Guest Posted June 3, 2003 Report Share Posted June 3, 2003 Hi MaiLuk, I know a freelancer who could be the younger sister of your gf. Exactly the same behavior as you described it. The difference is that she never lied to me. I was helping her with money some times and she seemed to be very very grateful for 3 days :: She even wrote that her family wants that I marry her. Maybe this was a lie, but she didn't tell that she wants to marry me. And we both know that she doesn't love me. She doesn't even respect me. But we are something like friends, I guess. I respect her for not lying to me and she might respect me because she doesn't need to lie to me. "I just want you to believe me." I know another girl which insists that she is telling the truth only when she is lying. Usually I just say I believe you (and then I am lying myself ) I don't understand really why it is so important for her that I believe her. Maybe because she knows that she has done something that I wouldn't approve (like drink too much, smoke or go with a customer, actually I don't approve only the first two things, but she believes that I don't approve the last one neither). It isn't really important for me because we have no comittment so I don't understand why she seems to have a bad conscience. Maybe this is just standard bg behavior: to deny everything. This leads me to a remark: I am always amused when people don't understand that I don't think in the categories of truth and lies (like most people?!?). I categorise everything after their likeliness. So I almost never believe anyone hundred percent and I almost never think that someone has lied. Best regards Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
legover Posted June 4, 2003 Report Share Posted June 4, 2003 Better control ourselves & react less to the drives that impel them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattaya127 Posted June 4, 2003 Report Share Posted June 4, 2003 I don't think in the categories of truth and lies ---------------------------------------- indeed, some lies are more telling about a girl than basic truth..... true lies! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shygye Posted June 6, 2003 Report Share Posted June 6, 2003 You have never dealt with an addict. She can find drugs anywhere in Thailand, not just Bangkok. She needs to go to a GOOD drug treatment center to give her the best chance of success. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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