BG thoughts

[sayjann]

not quite sure where to put this,so feel free to move to the relevant place if necessary.

 

has anyone ever spoken to BG's concerning any worries they might have regarding their safety when going to a Punters room?.

i BF'd a BG S/T and we spent around 5 Hours together before i let her go.

i found a Photo i took of her in my room after i had known her for around an Hour.

she was an experienced BG but she has this look on her face which seems to one of apprehension.

it looks like she is thinking if she will be alright in my room?,maybe thinking am i an OK Guy who will treat her good or am i a Barstard who will mistreat her?.

 

i have never had a BG hesitate when i suggest going to my room,wether it is S/T or L/T.

but surely some of them must get mistreated wether it be violently or having the Man refuse Payment?.

so anyone out there have any insight into how they think when a total stranger takes them back to his room?.

[MooNoi]

Hi Sayjann.

There must be at least a seed of apprehension there most times a BG heads off to a punter's room. A lot of the girls I have spoken to have told me about a punter who has got violent with them and hit them, or at least got them really scared. Maybe about 75% of girls I have been with have mentioned this. Sometimes they brought up the subject, and sometimes I have asked.

 

They have also told me about some punters who want to do some pretty "out-there" kind of things and sex-games once back in the rooms. If the girl says "no", sometimes the punter can get a bit narky I would imagine - especially with a gut-full of grog in them too.

 

Sometimes I've seen some farangs talking to their BF's in the street, or on the Skytrain platform, or in a bar - somewhere where I've been able to eavesdrop on the conversation - and the way some of these guys speak to the girls is disgusting. Basically they were talking "at" them as if they were some piece of meat. When getting my shoes fixed one day, I heard a guy say to his girl on the corner of Nana and Sukhumwit:

 

"I'm going to get a massage. You go and wait at the hotel and don't go out anywhere. On the way back to the hotel don't even look at another farang, and don't talk to any other girls. You just go straight back to the hotel and wait for me. And don't order any food. If you piss me off, you'll be in big trouble and you know what that means. Got it?"

 

The venom and force with which he said this was really disturbing to me. The fact that he had his index finger pointing at her, about 2 inches from her nose as he said it only added to the fear he was putting into this poor girl. The look on her face was one of hatred and fear. I've never seen a BG with a look on her face like this. I'd hate to think what happened with this guy back in the room. It was really sad to be honest.

 

I really hope no-one on this board gets violent with the girls... how could anyone possibly think of hurting a gorgeous Thai girl? Simply bullies IMO, and deserve a good beating themselves.

 

Fly P.

[sayjann]

thanks Fly.

your comments are an insight to me.

the Girls must have worries sometimes with a new customer?.

 

i thought your story about the Punter was really BAD from his point of view.

he had no need to treat her like that,what an ARSEHOLE.......

 

i admit when i have had a Beer i sometimes treat the Girls badly because i am pissed,but just silly things.

i would never dream of being violent or ripping them off.

i might ask them to leave because of things which might have happened,but i ALWAYS went back to their Bar the next Day and if i had not paid them the the Night before i made sure they had the Money the next Day.

 

and i would do this if no sex occured.

if i paid the BF and things didn't work out in the room i would still give them something for their time and trouble.

but there was a time when a BG got violent towards to me,but it had nothing to do with Money.

[Lusty]

Didn't you notice the look of apprehension on my face when we slept in the same room round at Spirit of Townhalls squat! ::

[MaiLuk]

A good number of the girls do not fear a beating. Some left their thai bf/husband for the scene because he was beating her more often than what she considered reasonable.

 

Some are surprised when they fuck over a farang and the farang takes no action.

 

The control freak farang described by FP has a personality disorder and will get only contempt from the girl. A farang who is the opposite and is super nice will also get no respect. No matter what, thais don't respect farangs. :: :: ::

[think_too_mut]

>has anyone ever spoken to BG's concerning any worries they might have regarding their safety when going to a Punters room?.

 

I remember some discussions from the days when I still had interest in that.

 

One thought on their mind is - how to get out with as little "work" as possible.

 

All those complaints about bgs "starfishing", refusing to give head, taking shower first and pretending to fall asleep and other manifestations of little or no eagerness to do the work are supporting that standpoint.

 

Before the advent of viagra, drunk guys were good as they quickly fall asleep.

 

Customers from hell were young, strong, not very drunk guys taking them LT. That's where run for money and all the blasting happens.

 

Not really fearing beating or sadism, they would have refused to go if they did.

[JJsushi]

think_too_mut said:

 

Customers from hell were young, strong, not very drunk guys taking them LT. That's where run for money and all the blasting happens.

 

 

 

 

Au countraire my dear boy.

I must have been a Hellion and the BG's I took must have been Succubi years ago when I was young, strong and didn't drink. No starfishing or having to leave early, on the contrary it was insatiable, marathon, bedroom sexual acrobatics with nymphomaniac BG's and searching for a reason to kick them out of the room by 1pm.

 

These days I am older, less strong, carrying extra weight around the middle, smoke cigars and enjoy a fine scotch(several glasses that is). The marathon sex has turned into more of a intramural game with sporadic moments of brillance that remind of the stud I used to be. I still have the same problem of figuring how to send them off before 1pm.

[Guest]

found a Photo i took of her in my room after i had known her for around an Hour. she was an experienced BG but she has this look on her face which seems to one of apprehension.

 

Seriously, more likely she is worried it will wind up on the internet and her BF/fiance will come across it and find out something he is not supposed to know.

 

but surely some of them must get mistreated wether it be violently or having the Man refuse Payment?

 

Africans have a bad reputation for both of these. These problems could also be one more reason they like ST's for the increased safety. It is kind of an amazing leap of faith for a young girl to get in a car with a complete stranger, go to the residence of a stranger, and so on. That is a life threatening ordeal in other countries and not sure why it isn't so bad in LOS. Strangely, it actually seems more dangerous for the punter with druggings and such.

[think_too_mut]

>I must have been a Hellion and the BG's I took must have been Succubi years ago when I was young, strong and didn't drink. No starfishing or having to leave early, on the contrary it was insatiable, marathon, bedroom sexual acrobatics with nymphomaniac BG's and searching for a reason to kick them out of the room by 1pm.

 

 

jj,

I was talking an average punter, not a superman.

 

Forgot to mention what "perfect" customer was described as:

 

50+ yrs, drunk and knows of no pills. Shows picture of his wife and kids (that gives some guarantees about himself).

 

Falls asleep in 5 minutes, hands over the money in the morning while dying of hangover...nothing happened, solo TV watching (if punter's snorring permits the tone to be heard).

[sayjann]

you don't think i slept that night do you?.

i stayed awake because i was worried the young Handsome stud 6 feet away from me might awake confused and thought he was back in LOS and molest the nearest body to him.....