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Don't u believe the hype my friend, everyone gets some sort of horniness at some point. The question is do they indulge it or supress it.

 

Hmm, some women (not GFs) told me that they can just ignore any thought about sex... and I won't exclude that they spoke the truth.

I agreee with you that the question is if they do indulge or supress it.

 

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Suspended disbelief...

 

This has got to be the best way...I've been laughing and slowly grinding in to many BG and TG while they professed faith and swore not to be with any men to their falang BF for me to do anything else in the reverse. Naiv is right to flat out deny it.

 

But isn't this alot like being a porno star. Alot of these ladies and guys are married. They separate love from sex as many of us do.

 

It's just a challenge to think of your GF as someone elses fuck doll... But, after you get past it you don't think about it or simply choose not to dweal on it or make an issue out of it.

 

For me, I find the stories of her customers as entertaining and enjoy that they liked my girl. I'm more concerned about broken condoms then most anything and her safety...Thus I send her an ample supply of KY. JMHO.

 

SkiBum

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[color:"red"]Don't u believe the hype my friend, everyone gets some sort of horniness at some point. The question is do they indulge it or supress it. Why do u think chicks spend so much time in the bathroom?

 

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Couldn't have said it better!!! However, a bathroom is not, IMO, a good place for that feelings, there are lots of better places!! :o

 

I think it is not the question of sexual urges, nor temptation, it is a matter of wanting to be faithful or not.

 

Jasmine

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Skibum wrote: "For me, I find the stories of her customers as entertaining and enjoy that they liked my girl. I'm more concerned about broken condoms then most anything and her safety...Thus I send her an ample supply of KY. JMHO"

 

 

An unusually reflective and altruistic tone to your post...are you sure you are quite OK today?.......(only joking, really I relish your board identity (persona?))

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I hear a lot more about these guys than I used to when i first travelled here. It would seem that the real hedonist type belong, for the most, to a former period of sex tourism, now you just have the desperate for some sex at least in the year (no hedonist IMO), and the loser who can't get a GF back home, or is miserably divorced and falls for the first smiling girl he meets in LOS.

 

These guys are totally in denial of the scene and its makings. they expect their TGB to act as if it was farangland, and some the jealousy on their part, as i hear about, is plain ridiculous and immature.

 

Though the girls are nice to them, are even grateful for the generous affection and call them sincerely their BFs, it has never kept them from living the independant life they learnt to adopt when leaving the village for the big city/resort.

 

Such RT is doomed from the start, as obviously the guy has absolutely no idea or curiosity to find out who the object of his love is coming from or simply who she is. They're all losers with a displaced sense of pride and machoism (unfortunately, some girls are beaten up by some of these clueless jerks), who will endlessly repeat the same mistakes all their lives, as if changing the nationality of their GF is making any difference.

 

yes....IMO!

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Comment are general and not meant to be directed at any one poster-

I find most of the comments on this thread to be quite stunning!

1st and foremost if one is not willing to commit to a serious realtionship with the girl, then she is smart to hedge her bets.

2ndly, many of you have falang families back home! How can you even justify feeling any jealousy. Your "girlfriend" in LOS has to deal with the fact that you have a wife and kid that is your 1st priority. I would say that that is alot MORE to deal with then your feelings toward the 30 or so guys a month she is doinking.

3rdly, If you have to save money to take her to your home country how in the hell are you going to support two people (and maybe more with kids) when she gets there?

Sorry guys, but personally I love girls that are "taken care of." They tend to be the most fun as they go with guys that they want to go with. It is great to hear the stories!

As far as my girlfriend is concerned, we both know that sex is not love. Everyone want to doink someone now and then so we both are ok with that. It is not the infidelity that kills the relationship, it is the lies, so best to affirm human nature and allow for it...

I agree with skibum, stories can be quite exciting!!!

GS

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Goatscrot, as the one who initiated the thread, I must tell you your response brought a smile to my face.

 

1. Of course, she'd be smart to hedge her bets. My ex GF did, and it proved to be a smart move.

 

2. Yes, at the time I had a wife at home. Ex GF knew.

 

3. "but personally I love girls that are "taken care of." They tend to be the most fun as they go with guys that they want to go with."

 

And you're less likely to get too atatched to them, because they're already attached. That's what i like about my friend in SC, with LT german supporter, makes her 'safe' for me.

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And you're less likely to get too atatched to them, because they're already attached. That's what i like about my friend in SC, with LT german supporter, makes her 'safe' for me.

 

Aside from my gfriend I have never really been seriously tempted to another attachment. Sure when I am balls deep and feeling good, I might think, Damn this would be nice to stick it in every night, but then I come and they start to talk about their families and their insane lives and I cannot get out of the ST room soon enough!

GS

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GS wrote "As far as my girlfriend is concerned, we both know that sex is not love. Everyone want to doink someone now and then so we both are ok with that."

 

looks like you cope with your girlfriend fucking other guys by believing 'sex is not love'..clearly they are distinguished and I am glad it works for you...for myself I have found the dividing membrane can be pretty leaky, sometimes under the most inconvenient of circumstances

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