junglesoup Posted February 20, 2005 Report Share Posted February 20, 2005 Alright fellows. Coming back to live in Bangkok in June/July. Studying. Anyway, I m missing the place and I think I am try to get as close as possible until its time to come back. I ve been spending alot of time on Thai web sites finding out about things to do, and to find out about the girls. had a relationship here the last time but now want abit of fun with some pretty Thai girls, but not necessarliy bar girls as I found them average performers in comparison with the non bar girls, at least the few NBGs I had. SO I saw someone who had posted something on here recently about Thai uni girls. I went on to the singles and personals sites for thailand and discovered lots and lots of beautiful girls looking for men. Some even had the uni uniform on in the pictures, which was nice. There was also loads of working girls. Whats anyones take on these girls? Are they mostly looking for long term relationships and not really up for friendship and no strings attached sanuuk? However, then I found a link to adultfriendfinders. Thailand had almost 25 000 girls with profiles looking for... well how should I put it...the wording and pictures on display in the girls profiles certainly suggested each girl knew what she wanted. The profiles ranged from the " I m lonely cute Thai girl" to the more blatant " only want big blackman c**k"and "want rich farang" There were some very beautiful girls on there. YOu can search by age and location. Yes there are obviously BGs on there trying to drum up extra business, however there was also japanese students there, and lots of uni girls. The best course of action I think is to use the dating sites with the "GTG" for building friendships and whatever else comes with it. And then of course use adult finder for a bit of discreet sanuuk. On adult finder you can get to know about the girls first. Your not obliged to sleep with them just cos you contacted them. The next interesting point was that you could the adultfinder had 20 times more girls on there than the ordinary dating sites.Not only for Thailand,but all over the world. The Uk has 55 000 girls on there. Twice as many as Thailand which I was surprised at. Does anyone have experience with this kind of dating in Bangkok? ANyone think its a good alternative/accompaniment to the BG scence? Interested to hear your opinion. Cheers, Chris. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thai3 Posted February 20, 2005 Report Share Posted February 20, 2005 I have had no luck at all with the friendfinder sites, the best one is the ozzie run one, can't recall the name but I met a couple off there last time. Trouble is girls on such sites get so many replies the competition is high, thats if they are genuine to start with. The best thing I tried was an ad in a paper. None of the girls I met over 10 years though through sites or the ad developed into anything at all.Better to get introduced to people by friends. Last time I tried thaidarling one girl asked for a computer in the second email while another asked for financial support in the first! I ended up being very surprised that someone I had known for years, but never thought of as a GF really liked me so looks like I'll end up with her. Sometimes they are where you least expect to find them. I think you are just as likely to find a nice girl working in 7/11 as on one of these sites-peter Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Old Hippie Posted February 20, 2005 Report Share Posted February 20, 2005 Soup, As T3 said, many sights are a waste of time, especially the pay sights. Best to try Yahoo, BKKChat, skype etc, meet online for free, and go from there. If you will be studying here, or here for any extended period of time, you can meet a decent girl, they are out there. Just make sure she really is decent! Many are bigger liars than their "bad" counter parts. Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Khun_Kong Posted February 20, 2005 Report Share Posted February 20, 2005 JS- My first trip here was a result of a woman that I met on Match.com' a professor aT cHIANG mAI uNIVERSITY WHO WAS DOING SIMILAR RESEARCH AS i WAS. wE CHATTED FOR ABOUT 6 MONTHS AND THEN SHE INVITED ME TO COME OVER, WITH HER AS MY GUIDE TO tHAILAND. sPENT 1 MONTH WITH HER, DRIVING FROM NORTH TO SOUTH. Oops, sorry, caps lock. Too lazy to retype. Anyway, I still get a daily email from Match, with about 8-12 Thai women each day who are looking for a farang. Some appear to be reasonably classy women- doctors, etc. Spin the wheel, try your luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 20, 2005 Report Share Posted February 20, 2005 Get away from the nightlife scenes and you'll find plenty of really cool TG's that want some fun, romance, relationships and one night stands! Just enroll in a University Thai for beginners class, smile alot, hang around campus, go to a few club meetings and you'll find her...If you don't...then ask every girl on Campus out and odds are 4% will go out with you! SkiBum Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
junglesoup Posted February 20, 2005 Author Report Share Posted February 20, 2005 Thanks for the replies. UNderstand what your saying. If I m going to be here for a while, which I will be then look for a decent one here. Totally agree that there are some bullshit sites there who charge astronomical money for what you get and would stay well clear of these. Being impulsive some times, I did actually join one called Adultfriend finder( I had actaully joined it before I posted then decided to get opinions). This is more personal adds and is world wide, more girls have posted in Singapore than Bangkok. It is not an introduction agency, just independent personals. Had a good look through it and have to say I am quite impressed. Generally I found the girls on there in the 18 to 30 age group. Many seemed curious for new experiences(sexually), and some wanted no strings attached sex. Quite a few bi-sexual girls also. I did find they were very precise about what they wanted and you did need to measure up.(Sorry I should be wrting to The SUn with puns like that) There was one girl on there, age 22, looked very intelligent and high society type. Her English writing skillswere very good. SHe stated she didn t want a long term relationship, or did she like mindless humpin' and dumpin'. She liked to explore pleasure and needed a real sexual connection, with sensuality, right atmosphere and right communication. Listens to classical music and likes to to socialise... Obviously I wrote straight back to her and said "I M YOUR MAN", in a funny Belfast accent she won t have picked up on the email. No seriously I did write back. Nothing to loose. Must get my trantic sex manuals out to please this one! There were a few virgins there aswell. I did come across one site(not literally), which I think is sick. But I know some unexpecting farang will get caught out. It is some Bangkok escort agency run by two Thai ladies. BUt they are offering a bidding system over the internet to have first bite at the cherry of a young virgin girl. The sites seems to be aimed at the farang before he comes to Thailand. They said the bidding for this girl was now between 500 and 10 000 dollars. When I 1st looked I thought baht, but no $. People should be warned about sites like this. Then again if someone is that stupid to pay they they will have been taught a valuable lesson through direct experience. The membership for 4 months for the one |I joined was only 20 pound. No great risk. Take care fellows,-Chris. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 10, 2005 Report Share Posted March 10, 2005 I met my current TGF through one of those dating sites. We swapped emails for 6 months, and on my next trip we met up. To make a long story short, I am now living with her just outside BKK, in her house (she owns it), and I help her with her business. We have also been helping her friends put themselves on these dating sites. Some of them are sincere and just want to meet a nice guy and settle down and get married, some are just looking for a rich farang. If any are looking for just sex, they would not tell me. Just keep in mind, I answer all their mail and have even chatted with some of their contacts. BTW this is not for free either. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 21, 2005 Report Share Posted March 21, 2005 YIKES!!! $500-$10000 for a cherry??? Here, we call that a teen will get you 20!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 25, 2005 Report Share Posted March 25, 2005 so, which site do you recommend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
junglesoup Posted March 26, 2005 Author Report Share Posted March 26, 2005 rastaman said:so, which site do you recommend? The one I joined rastaman was Adultfriendfinder. This is an adult orientated peronals site. The site has a world wide data base, organised by continent and then sub-divided into country, and regions. I think there around 25 000 Thai/farang registered in Thailand alone. Some of the girls offer explicit photos of them selves and others just offer a simple face pic. Theres quite a mix on here. I get the impression that there are high society girls, some bargirls and lots ordinary students/and career girls. I ve been in contact by email with around 15 of them and I have to say they seem nice. I ll be in Bangkok to live from June/July so I would hope to take a few of them out and see how it gos. This is a pay site but its not so much and you will meet girls on it. I ll now give you a list of the girls I ve already taken so you know who not to contact. Only joking mate. Good luck and let me know how you get on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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