chilli13 Posted June 22, 2005 Report Share Posted June 22, 2005 Well maybe I'm speaking from own experience maybe not. In all cases I'm very curious how you experienced guys deals with your wifes, girlfriends etc. when discovering they have been having sex or even keeping relations behind your back? Kill them is default choice obviously, but even forgiveness may be considered valid? More important assuming relation comes back on track how do you get to 'trust' her again & believe she has changed her bad girl behaviour? :: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redbaron Posted June 22, 2005 Report Share Posted June 22, 2005 Simple, say goodbye, good luck and walk away. Forever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Torneyboy Posted June 22, 2005 Report Share Posted June 22, 2005 ib13 said:Well maybe I'm speaking from own experience maybe not. In all cases I'm very curious how you experienced guys deals with your wifes, girlfriends etc. when discovering they have been having sex or even keeping relations behind your back? Kill them is default choice obviously, but even forgiveness may be considered valid? More important assuming relation comes back on track how do you get to 'trust' her again & believe she has changed her bad girl behaviour? :: This has happened to me....my Ex was seeing a friend of mine when i was overseas. They got caught out by the guys wife...saw a bill on his Amex card ...she rang and told me. That night i asked her to get out....I then worked hard to find a Nice Thai Girl ...married her and have never been happier!!!. Kick them out and move on...don't look back Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chilli13 Posted June 22, 2005 Author Report Share Posted June 22, 2005 wow pretty clear messages so far so you guys both sure somehow that nothing going on your backs - how? you checking all their emails,chat, sms, lonesome goings when u not around? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
khwaimaisabai Posted June 22, 2005 Report Share Posted June 22, 2005 Torneyboy said:[Kick them out and move on...don't look back Hi tb, Yes but ................. This depends on how much you want her and how much you are willing to try to make it work - and exactly what happened anyway. Khwai Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
STDAY3 Posted June 22, 2005 Report Share Posted June 22, 2005 I think, how we handle it becomes even more complicated when there are children involved. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Torneyboy Posted June 22, 2005 Report Share Posted June 22, 2005 Hi Yes ..true. But could you ever trust her again? In my case no..as i am away a lot i could never be sure...so best to end it then and there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
khwaimaisabai Posted June 22, 2005 Report Share Posted June 22, 2005 STDAY3 said:I think, how we handle it becomes even more complicated when there are children involved. Hi st, Interesting angle. In my case, the child involved was the one that GF, on one never to be forgotten evening, told me she was expecting in another five months time. We both knew there was no way I could be the father, but GF consistently denied that her pregnancy was the result of having sex with another man. We don?t talk about it any more. I am named on the child?s birth certificate as her father and she bears my farang family name. As far as I can tell, family and friends all believe that I am the natural father and I strongly suspect that the real natural father is not aware of the fact. Amusingly, I have been told several times that the child looks more like me than GF. Relating to the OP, how could anyone looking in the eyes of a girl he has fallen in love with and cares for, abandon her with no financial support in a situation like that? I guess you could if your ego and male pride were more important than the welfare of those you care for and who depend on you. Khwai Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zorro Posted June 22, 2005 Report Share Posted June 22, 2005 Too many variables here to make any definitive statement either way. But there wouldn't be too many marriages left if the criteria was fidelity..... IMHO of course. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chilli13 Posted June 22, 2005 Author Report Share Posted June 22, 2005 Yeah I'm afraid its often a bit more muddy than plain black & white. Quay I'm impressed how u dealt with u dilemma. Thanks for sharing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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