Fatboy Posted March 28, 2007 Report Share Posted March 28, 2007 A thoroughly good post. I hope I would have done the same in the same situation but not sure. I would like to think so. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David99UK Posted March 28, 2007 Report Share Posted March 28, 2007 Great story. Prompted a few good recollections for me........ I met a couple of BG's who could do a real good "newbie" impression.......one who had me going for a good few months, until I finally twigged (no bar fines involved)......I wasn't angry I was just shit out impressed that she could con me! She did however admit her dissapointment that the Newbie act wasn't the turn on for me that she expected / it usually was........and was kinda glad that every time I came into the gogo bar (a lot!)she no longer felt she had to act all Newbie - cos' it really was not her! Another I was never sure whether she was winding me up, but over a few trips and many months over a period of a couple of years we did end up laughing that when she first met me (In Asoke Plaza Beer bars, mid afternoon - and me an untidy long stay drunk ) she was absolutely terrified of me :grin: , particularly that I would bar fine her and at that time she would not have known how to say no.......but I NEVER did B/f her.....although she did change into an experianced player over the years, she always remained that gormless Newbie to me......and I retained a soft spot for her. Last I heard she had married into England. Good luck on her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whitelotuslane Posted March 29, 2007 Author Report Share Posted March 29, 2007 Good points. It could be something similar to 'maternal imprint' in freshly hatched chicks. The first 'nice guy' they find after hatching will forever remain in a somewhat special spot, no matter how hard-core they turn in the following months. As for faking to be newbie... I think most girls do it to some extent ("I've worked here 3 months") I also think most must realize there's more mileage in showing some experience.. after all newbies are the most likely to go starfish? Then again I also don't doubt for a second that there's also guys who find (pretend) innocence a turn on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Encore Posted March 29, 2007 Report Share Posted March 29, 2007 Yes, nice story, nice sense of humour, welcome to a fairly new member, hope to hear more from you. I used to shun new girls, since they often had too little experience to please me. But over the years had a few surprise hits, most of which have turned up in my trip stories. The gal from Dundee, on her second nite in the bar, me being the first falang, still have her pix. Then MsBabyfat from BWNN, who's second falang I was. The first one treated her rough, she was at first nervous, then very grateful that I didn't hurt her, came like a train, and rapidly got attached to me. Took me some toughlove to disattach her, but would come back for a repeat at least once every trip. Now she's privatised by a falang, still works serving drinks, though no more dancing. Alway get a quick cuddle when I come to her bar. Sometimes miss her innocence, she's a bit more expereinced now. Then yesterday, at the one and only Jomtien GOGO, a 34 year old, who'd been there 5 days, actually the most attractive in the whole place. I asked if she's had much clientele, no, just a BJ for one guy, never f....d a falang. She was fun, responded with great energy to me going down on her, but insisted on covering up for a BJ. Made up for it however while f...g, nice technique, great musclecontrol. Well, I suppose she had two kids, so must have done it before. In the balance, I prefer more mature women. Or to put it differently, go watch the 20 yr olds, then go home and f..k the 30 yr old. Maybe worth a repeat visit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lembeh Posted March 30, 2007 Report Share Posted March 30, 2007 Am I *really* the only person on this board who finds the whole saga to leave me with a sense of disgust, and indeed shame? The *sexiness* of desperation?????? Do none of you see how wrong that is? Whats next? A quick trip of the border to screw a chained up hooker in Cambodia - that must be pretty desperate no? So, we have young mother *forced* (there is that word) to sell her self to pay for treatment for her baby in hospital. High fives all round dudes! Never mind that Thailand has enough money to build the most expensive airport in the world but has *nothing* for dying babies, at least it keeps the hooker bars full eh! The homage to "slave appreciation day" leave me practically speechless. Can't get me a *real* slave, I'll go shag an economic one. Hey, High fives again dudes!! Well, the good news guys is I am sure there are plent more sick or dying babies up in issan. You can all get your turn. Just leave your brains by the door. -j- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
farangman Posted March 30, 2007 Report Share Posted March 30, 2007 Couldn't agree more with you. The reality of the situation means there are thousands of desparate stories behind the girls entering the scene, but to relish and get off on their desparation seems really callous to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whitelotuslane Posted March 30, 2007 Author Report Share Posted March 30, 2007 Thank you Josh and Farangman for taking in one of the larger issues presented. So, we have young mother *forced* (there is that word) to sell her self to pay for treatment for her baby in hospital. High fives all round dudes! I didn't see high fives. I take it you are also not high-fiving, though, what exactly IS your response? No general thumbs-down please, point a finger at one or more wrongs you see before you. Never mind that Thailand has enough money to build the most expensive airport in the world but has *nothing* for dying babies, at least it keeps the hooker bars full eh! Fair enough, there's one finger aimed at 'Thailand' (or the Thai government(s) & people). Let's have some more candidates: 1. Me. That I didn't know the urgency of her situation at the time of barfining hardly matters. And if her mum hadn't called I wouldn't even have known. By going to bars though I support the general model. 2. The bar employing her, without salary for the first month, and with quotas on drinks & off's she will most certainly not make, so she will not be getting any salary for the foreseeable future. She does get accommodation to share with other girls upstairs, but who knows the bar might charge her (or run up a debt) for that, too. 3. Thailand, and the Thai government for not turning to a socialist model where capitalist exploitation is not allowed. 4. 'Morals', based on religion or otherwise that sex is sinful. Had she not had money for her baby but be forced to over-work in a factory or construction site to raise the money then all would be well. 5. The girl herself. (Can't think of a reason to blame her, but maybe someone else can) Karma perhaps. 6 ... Feel free to add more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Encore Posted March 30, 2007 Report Share Posted March 30, 2007 Josh, I see your point. I think the OP was largerly speaking in jest. But we at least ahve to give him credit for one thing: >Of course, sending her back wouldn't exactly help anyone either, so I said "you know, normally guys give some money in the morning or after things finish, but I understand your thoughts must be with your family right now, so I'll pay now and it's up to you what you want to do. Can stay, can go back, can wait until bar closing time and then go back, you can do absolutely anything you want, except watch Thai soap series on my TV."< He gave her the choice of receiving the money and walking out without having her body used by this falang. I think that is quite an honourable position he took. i think the jest in his account is possibly a way of dealing with his own un-ease about the situation, the sense of shame finding out she was really selling herself to pay for her child's medical cost. i'd like to think I'd be generous enough to do the same in his position. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
was_usvirgin Posted March 30, 2007 Report Share Posted March 30, 2007 In your actions, you didn't do anything I wouldn't do in the same situation - that's why I didn't initially reply. What was disturbing about your post was the thread title and your attitude. 'I fucked a desperate girl on Slave Appreciation Day.' Gosh, how funny and ironic! It's provocative because it shows that some of us might take the same actions for very different means of gratification. But, if I was you, I wouldn't advertise yours. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keedar Posted March 30, 2007 Report Share Posted March 30, 2007 I think the OP was well written, he presented a case which is more than likely many paid sexual encounters, yet unknown by the punter. Is it the title that disturbs you? Here he knows about the reasons the girl is working, and writes about them. I don't see him boasting; the title is more about the fact the sex was enjoyable after he gave the girl the option of taking the money and not having sex with him. Look forward to your thoughts. While the situation is aweful, it is also far too common but as said, unknown to the punter. Here the punter knows~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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