Savittre Posted October 5, 2001 Report Share Posted October 5, 2001 Hi Zane, First, I'm so sorry to hear of all of this. You're in considerable turmoil!! (I believe) you love this girl- that's happened before, sure, I've fallen head over heels for a Thai BG, as have 1000's of others!! Just part of being human. Having read this post, I'd like to make a few observations, for your consideration: first- quote: Noi would never ask or pressure for money Well, my friend, I never met a girl who didn't know how to push a man's buttons, and while I have no doubt that that's how she treats you, I think she puts 'The big O' in another category- she's with him for somewhat different reasons than the reasons she's with you for, so she treats him differently. Don't think she treats 'em all the same, doesn't make sense!! quote: He has promised to give her a MILLION baht ($22,850)! 500,000 when he comes in December and they go meet her family and 500,000 when they get married in Germany. All of this is his idea and is as baffling to Noi as it is to me. "I don't know him! Him not know me! Why?" Right On, Noi!!!! There could be a zillion reasons 'Why'. I can't imagine most of them, but #1, IMO, is that in the end, if she goes for it, she'll never see one satang, or as little as possible for this guy to achieve whatever it is he's after. It just doesn't match up, IMO, that this guy's not rich and has all this money to throw around... But greed does make people blind, that's how they get taken almost all the time, and I hope this isn't what he's up to with Noi, but how can I know?? 'Million Baht!!'- Talk's cheap!!! quote: the fact is that he's married now - already married to a Thai woman!!? A 45 year old he took to Germany, who has left him, taken their daughter and has gone off to live with a 21 year old German. And Otto is begging for more?!! Please excuse my ignorance/naivety, but since he's married once, how can he get married, presuming the marriage was registered in Germany, again??? And, BTW, you think because he has one failed marriage to a Thai woman, that he should therefore write off all Thai women? Well, I have a failed marriage to a Taiwanese woman, but I wouldn't write off all Taiwanese women as a result. We learn from our mistakes, we don't have to repeat them! Thai seems to be where his experience lies. I have two concerns for your Thai lady: 1. If 'The Big O' is not rich, how's he gonna manage the cash flow (Million Baht, etc., plus the phone bill, booze, etc. and don't forget he works for an airline, probably European, and have you seen the news about how well they aren't doing these days? Our overweight booze hound could well be out of a job by the time I post this!! 2. Noi must never give up her passport!!!!! Has she thought about that? I'm sure she's quite clever and resourceful, and knows the turf in Germany, but she must give some thought to this, for her own safety and well-being. As to your own well-being, Zane, you might consider putting a little distance between you and her No one knows better than you that she's not yours exclusively, besides which, as you are perfectly aware, it is her life, and in the end, her decision. I thought Nomad's post was a really good read. BTW, what's wrong with 8,000 Baht for a week?? Best of Luck to all!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nomad Posted October 5, 2001 Report Share Posted October 5, 2001 Years ago, I had a great time with this relatively innocent girl who had recently started working in Patpong. After a few weeks, she professed her love, which went in one ear and out the other. Since I was a wild dog in those days thinking only with my little head, I eventually discarded her and screwed around in other pastures. A couple of years later, I ran into her and I was very surprised by my still strong attraction for her. She had blossomed from an freshly attractive 19 year old into a gorgeous, polished and well dressed young women. She agreed to come home with me. The sex was even better than before. I was ready to lock the door and not let her out for a week. When I asked her to stay all night, she looked me in the eye and calmly said that she deeply loved me years earlier, that I had badly broken her heart, and that she'd never make that mistake again. After that searing speech, she smiled and departed. I never saw her again. She got her revenge ... delivered cold ... through hot sex. Ouch!!! Cheers quote: Originally posted by Alfalfa: Hmmm...I've had a few slip on my fingers but not through. But seriously, the same thing happened to me. As I recall, her name was Porn. She worked at Kangaroo bar for 10years before I met her. Swell gal. Said "she love me too much" which was very original so I knew she meant it. I let her get away from me when she met a 100kg, 55 year old balding Buster Keaton lookalike. Can't really blame her for wanting someone more presentable than me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 5, 2001 Report Share Posted October 5, 2001 Zane, I truly enjoy your posts. I don't have any advice on this one but looks like you've got some good tips above. I do have a request of you though. Please check your private message area. Happy hunting! AcerV Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 5, 2001 Report Share Posted October 5, 2001 Wow, I am just a new kid on the block around here. I am thinking of going to the BKK so reading the messages here are interesting. I guess I now know the dying water buffelo scam as to many other scams and ploys I have read about. I think this message board is great in terms of getting a feel for the attitudes of the "tricks" and the scams of the ho girlz. I am facinated with the whole message board and the ideas here. At 5'11 and 240 I could lose a few pounds, so I can't say much about Otto being a fat slob. I think when I go to Thailand, I'll remember to screw more, and listen to the stories of the bar girlz less. Thanks guyz for sharing your expereinces!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 5, 2001 Report Share Posted October 5, 2001 This coincidence goes beyond belief. So I guess it must be true I am with Ottos Thai wife. She beleives he will be back soon to LOS because she saw one of his friends. This is my first log on since I have been here in two months. Good old Otto. What can I say.? What a sad fuck he must be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shygye Posted October 5, 2001 Report Share Posted October 5, 2001 quote: Originally posted by RugDoctor: Wow, I am just a new kid on the block around here. I am thinking of going to the BKK so reading the messages here are interesting. I guess I now know the dying water buffelo scam as to many other scams and ploys I have read about. I think this message board is great in terms of getting a feel for the attitudes of the "tricks" and the scams of the ho girlz. I am facinated with the whole message board and the ideas here. At 5'11 and 240 I could lose a few pounds, so I can't say much about Otto being a fat slob. I think when I go to Thailand, I'll remember to screw more, and listen to the stories of the bar girlz less. Thanks guyz for sharing your expereinces!!! It has been my experience that if you do not BS the girls and make it clear that you are a butterfly the girls will not BS you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Savittre Posted October 7, 2001 Report Share Posted October 7, 2001 All you cynics should read this one again!!! quote: Years ago, I had a great time with this relatively innocent girl who had recently started working in Patpong. After a few weeks, she professed her love, which went in one ear and out the other. Since I was a wild dog in those days thinking only with my little head, I eventually discarded her and screwed around in other pastures. A couple of years later, I ran into her and I was very surprised by my still strong attraction for her. She had blossomed from an freshly attractive 19 year old into a gorgeous, polished and well dressed young women. She agreed to come home with me. The sex was even better than before. I was ready to lock the door and not let her out for a week. When I asked her to stay all night, she looked me in the eye and calmly said that she deeply loved me years earlier, that I had badly broken her heart, and that she'd never make that mistake again. After that searing speech, she smiled and departed. I never saw her again. With all that said and done, I'm pretty cynical myself... there's not much about the novel 'Private Dancer' that I doubt! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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