I_Love_Farang Posted September 28, 2009 Report Share Posted September 28, 2009 What is best for a childs : single mum or fighting parent ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WorldFun Posted September 28, 2009 Report Share Posted September 28, 2009 either option no good! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sanddawg1 Posted September 28, 2009 Report Share Posted September 28, 2009 If the choice must be made I vote single mom; I was raised by my mother alone and it was fine. S1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CTO Posted September 28, 2009 Report Share Posted September 28, 2009 Why can't it be single dad? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Old Hippie Posted September 28, 2009 Report Share Posted September 28, 2009 I was raised in and around fighting parents, not good at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CTO Posted September 28, 2009 Report Share Posted September 28, 2009 My poarents would walk down the beach holding hands I'd throw sand "Why can't you be like my friends parents and not be all nice and lovey dovey to each other" Seriously - they were like that and I was ashamed - glad I got over that! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cavanami Posted September 28, 2009 Report Share Posted September 28, 2009 ...and today, you walk hand in hand with your better 2/3's...life is a circle and now it is back to you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Central Scrutinizer Posted September 29, 2009 Report Share Posted September 29, 2009 Best way is to split if the parents can not get along. Being in a home where the parents are at each other's throat all the time is very damaging and does not set a good 'relationship' example for young minds on how a good marriage is supposed to be. Saying that though neither spouse should use the kids against their spouse, and both should have equal access of the kids - both compromising along the way and using some due common sense and basically behaving like adults and not spoiled angry children themselves. Selfish petty adults fuck up many a child's childhood and lives. Staying together for the kids only works if both partners can behave civilly and set an example that helps the kids gain the skills they will need as adults when in their own relationships. It rarely works though, as kids are much more sensitive and intuitive than many adults realize. An amicable split, go your own seperate ways and find whatever happiness you can, and treat the kids right emotionally and financially. (All while trying your hardest to keep lawyers and courts out of it as much as is possible.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mentors Posted September 29, 2009 Report Share Posted September 29, 2009 either option no good! yes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kamui Posted September 29, 2009 Report Share Posted September 29, 2009 either option no good! yes Single mothers are more and more common today. A stable, loving relationship with one parent is much better, than parents being in aggressive fights constantly. Therefore I wouldn't say that both options are equally bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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