Pescator Posted March 4, 2003 Report Share Posted March 4, 2003 You have all heard this often enough. However, there is as always another side of the coin. The guy taking the BG out of the bar has obviously been there himself. And I see how quite a lot of guys I know living with both ex-BGs and regular girls are finding it very hard to restrain from an occasional relapse. Especially the ones who are residing in Thailand where temptation is never far away. Wonder if the BG`s have a similar saying about punters: You can take the punter out of the bar but ... Cheers Hua Nguu Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gobbledonk Posted March 4, 2003 Report Share Posted March 4, 2003 HN, I suspect that the things they have to say about hardcore punters arent quite that generous .... Do I consider myself a hardcore punter. Nah - I have neither the money nor the energy to go chasing skirt every week Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Torneyboy Posted March 4, 2003 Report Share Posted March 4, 2003 yes i agree but is a two way street. IMO a relationship with a BG or Mp will be a short one ,expensive and end in tears for one of you...not all but 99 out of 100 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
think_too_mut Posted March 4, 2003 Report Share Posted March 4, 2003 >The guy taking the BG out of the bar has obviously been there himself. And I see how quite a lot of guys I know living with both ex-BGs and regular girls are finding it very hard to restrain from an occasional relapse. Especially the ones who are residing in Thailand where temptation is never far away. What is the success criteria? How do we know the bar has been taken out of her? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pescator Posted March 4, 2003 Author Report Share Posted March 4, 2003 Good question. What triggered this post of mine was that a close friend of mine who had been married to an ex-BG for a 8 years has recently divorced her. They seemed to have been doing all right all along until she started to hang out with the wrong people. You know what`s it like, all night gambling sessions, frequent slip away to the casino, heavy nonstop partying, didn`t give 2 shit about their child etc. It seemed there was no way he could stop her. Eventually she picked up a sponsor and happily announced that this was the end. But prior to this he was caught "red handed" so to say on a couple of occasions. And that may very well have led to this situation. Cheers Hua Nguu Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 4, 2003 Report Share Posted March 4, 2003 TTM say "What is the success criteria? How do we know the bar has been taken out of her?" i dont think we ever know if the bars out or not. that can only time tell i guess. I think they are so mentally damaged by their inviorment from the past that the scars they carry with them will never fade away. so the bar will never leave their mind it will always be there in one way or the other.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
My Cow Jai Posted March 4, 2003 Report Share Posted March 4, 2003 "You can take a man out of the bar, but you can't take the bar out of the man". Ne'er has a truer word be spoken... Curing yourself of GoGoAddictsia is easier said than done! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
check_bin_krap Posted March 4, 2003 Report Share Posted March 4, 2003 I've seen many TG/farang marriages in my country break down as the guy falls to temptation. It might have been one of the reasons my own marriage failed, although I think that was a sympton and not the cause. My straying wasn't with Thai BG's, but it could easily have been. Almost all these guys end up marrying a new TG. Some go through this again and again, others seem to settle down (at least for a period). I've seen many examples where the Thai girl was not unfaithful while the farang was, including me. I'll report if I manage to control myself in some years time Cheers! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stickman Posted March 4, 2003 Report Share Posted March 4, 2003 It takes a strong, conscious effort to pull yourself away from the bars. You have to look at yourself and be REALLY strong about it. Also, if you feel you ae a little weak and can give in to temptation, you might just have to stop going out to the naughty bars altogether. Stick Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 4, 2003 Report Share Posted March 4, 2003 Why should you stop going to the bars? I've been going to the bars during a long time and doing nothing but have fun. You don't have the obligation to consume sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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