Guest Posted August 25, 2003 Report Share Posted August 25, 2003 I hope I will get some real assistance here and not a dose of sarcasm as this is not easy to write. I was a regular visitor to LOS in the early and mid 90's and always had a great time, both in Bangkok and Pattaya. I am now 55 and in the past few years I have battled with cancer and have finally won the war. Unfortunately, I have been left with one awful side effect. While I still have all my pleasure sensations intact, Mr. Stiffie is more often Mr. Softie and tends to work maybe 10% of the time. I have tried Vitamin V and a few other remedies but no luck there. I want to take a few months and truly enjoy myself back in LOS but I am somewhat embarassed because how do I let the girls to know that even if the plumbing doesn't seem to work right, the interior wiring is all lit up and can still achieve Final Destination! I love oral dictation both giving and receiving, but obviously I am unable to provide a main event to the girls. With my 50 word Thai vocabulary how do I explain it, and how do I convince a little lovely that while she is sitting on my lap in a gogo in NEP I really am having a good time even though I may not be rising to the occasion. I have to believe I am not the only poor soul in the world who is in this dilemna so how about some suggestions. The docs had told me it is not impossible to get back to where I once was, and that it is now as much psychological as much as physical, What I really want is to take the pressure off and go have a good time, so how do I address this with a gogo girl without having her either laugh or take off thinking she is not doing her job well or I am not interested. Come on guys, help me out here. You are my last hope right now and I want to get on the plane and do this! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 25, 2003 Report Share Posted August 25, 2003 All you have to do is tell any of the girls you hire that you want them to play with Mr. Happy until you cum. They will oblige, some might ask questions, but I'm sure if you just say you were sick and even though he won't stay hard it still feels good, they will accept your explanation and that will be the end of that. Remember most of these girls have been around the sexual block a few times and so the idea of a guy who's only partially hard or whatever is not gonna be new. Hell, half the guys they end up with are probably too drunk to fuck anyway. Most of all, just go and don't worry so much. You will have a great time! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
khwaimaisabai Posted August 25, 2003 Report Share Posted August 25, 2003 Hi russ, A while back I met someone who was in a similar position to yourself. He dealt with it by talking to the mamasan and explaining the position. She then fixed him up with a girl who was willing to oblige. That was in the old Doll House, Clinton Plaza. I don't know the details, but he seemed to be having a good time. So you need an english speaking mamasan - most are reasonably good, in fact - and hope for the best. No need to worry - that probably does not help your condition. As an observation, I would say most of the girls will not have a problem. Most of them are not really interested in extended, wild bedroom athletics. They are too lazy and such activity is too much like hard work. Good luck. Khwai Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattaya127 Posted August 25, 2003 Report Share Posted August 25, 2003 first, congrats on battling the big C. No one will use sarcasm, or their post will be dealt with, as you deserve admiration for coming thru. i am sure it took a lot of moral strentgh. One thing that is not highighted enough, is that the girls are good-hearted, can understand and sympathize with you, and still take care of you. Thailand is not free of terminal diseases, and these ladies may have an experience of someone whose life has been challenged by a disease in their family. Still, I am not sure if I understand that your capacity are only 10% like one out of 10 out of trying, or you need a girl who works hard at waking up the little Stiffie, so how about Viagra, seems it was first created for conditions like yours. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 25, 2003 Report Share Posted August 25, 2003 Well this even more embarassing now but here goes... The 10% has to do with the ability to keep mister happy saluting the flag... As I posted before, I have tried Vitamin V, Penagra, and even Cialis but none of them have any effect whatsoever except to make my wallet soft as well! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 25, 2003 Report Share Posted August 25, 2003 On my trip, I was chatting with an older guy for an hour or so and I mentioned to him that all the "boom boom" was really wearing me out. Here a few of the things he mentioned: Taking Ginsing Taking Androl - over the counter testerone bought in Thailand Taking Womans Longevity Korean Red Ginsing (red root) Going to the gym - get everything moving and flowing I only tried the Ginsing and very little Androl. Of course, you can take the Viagra. I recently tried the Pengra and it was cheaper than V and pretty good also. I think the other board members gave some good advice also. Good luck Rug Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 25, 2003 Report Share Posted August 25, 2003 my guess would be that the girls will like you a lot more than some viagra doped up old fart who wants to give it to them the whole night. don't worry, no need need to compete with anyone in that regard (and as you will be a lot easier on the girls in most cases you would win that competition anyhow). and maybe, given time, that relaxed attitude here will sort the psychological part of your problem out by itself. and if not you can still enjoy your time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
llso Posted August 25, 2003 Report Share Posted August 25, 2003 Hi Genruss, Glad to hear you beat the Big C. I too tried the red Ginseng a while back and it definitely works for me. I think you just need to get on over here and when you got a sexy young little thing bouncing on your lap see what happens. LL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jp1 Posted August 25, 2003 Report Share Posted August 25, 2003 Genruss, as several guys have stated already, Ginseng is one of the best natural products you can get. In particular Red Ginseng from Korea. I use it myself since years and on top also take Gingkomin which comes again from Korea and is produced by Eastern Pharmaceutical Co. Ltd. Gingkomin comes in medium sized packages (green and red color) with 100 tab. / each 40mg. Composition: each tablet contains 40mg Gingkoflavonglycosides Indications: Peripheral and cerebral blood circulatory disorders. It's a natural product and for me really great. It saves me all the money for Viamin V. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 25, 2003 Report Share Posted August 25, 2003 Well you certainly have eased my mind a bit. So where in BKK is the red ginseng etc available. Can't hurt to give it a try. And while you are at it maybe some of you oldtimers can give me some suggestions of bars to steer me towards a few sweet young things who like to have their sweet young thing nibbled on lol... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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