jasmine Posted November 19, 2004 Author Report Share Posted November 19, 2004 [color:"red"]"I'm going to leave CS after I get my citizenship...even though the sex is great (had to boost my own ego...sorry..lol)" [/color] Well, Honey, who would write such e-mail? I have met stupid Thai women in my time who said anything about husbands, but I have not met the ones who planned that well. The ones (I met) who left the husbands after citizenship did have their marriages fallen apart already. Citizenship just gives them an avenue out. Actually one who did that was married to a Thai man who was born here, so as long as she didn't have the citizenship, she tolerated him, now she is free and you have got to see how she has bloomed. I just came back from the Thai Embassy today (getting visas for Thailand) and I got to talk to a young lady who just came from Thailand directly to work in the Embassy. She told me that she was shocked to see how many Thai women are in abusive relationships and reported it to the Embassy and she has been here on ly 5 months. She and the new embassador just created a free clinic run by a Thai doctor, for the Thais in DC. Yes, CS, you do have a problem with trust, hopefully Hon, someone does trust you. :hug: Jasmine Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spirit_of_town_hall Posted November 19, 2004 Report Share Posted November 19, 2004 of course they do. Who would prefer a tight fisted man. STH Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve Posted November 19, 2004 Report Share Posted November 19, 2004 Jasmine, I would treat her like a queen. If the vast majority are leaving because of abusive husbands, then it wouldn't apply to me (picture me patting myself on the back). If I am serious enough to bring her here, then more than likely I've fallen pretty hard for her anyway. Of course they trust me...up to a point. You have to leave just a wee little bit of doubt in their minds. It keeps them on their toes...in a manner of speaking. :: Getting back to the abusive husbands issue, its a shame. I really wish there was a way we could stop the guys who go to places such as Thailand to do what they can't get away with here normally. Truly cowards. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattaya127 Posted November 19, 2004 Report Share Posted November 19, 2004 even though the sex is great (had to boost my own ego...sorry..lol) --------------------------- It's OK, Stevo, everyone should be happy to learn his tilak is masturbating looking at his picture! :grinyes: ..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve Posted November 20, 2004 Report Share Posted November 20, 2004 If you look closer it may be her purse she's rubbing while looking at my picture. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AF16 Posted November 20, 2004 Report Share Posted November 20, 2004 chocolat steve said: Getting back to the abusive husbands issue, its a shame. I really wish there was a way we could stop the guys who go to places such as Thailand to do what they can't get away with here normally. Truly cowards. We will get a law here in Norway soon that prohibit people with a domestic violence history to get VISA for a spouse. Basically you can not marry girls, take them to Norway and beat the crap out of them anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve Posted November 20, 2004 Report Share Posted November 20, 2004 Very interesting. I wonder if that could work in the U.S.? Perhaps a law that if you've been convicted of a sex crime, spousal abuse and the like. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jasmine Posted November 20, 2004 Author Report Share Posted November 20, 2004 [color:"red"] Basically you can not marry girls, take them to Norway and beat the crap out of them anymore. [/color] Sadly, not all domestic violence gets reported, in no matter what country. Jasmine Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
check_bin_krap Posted November 20, 2004 Report Share Posted November 20, 2004 AF16 said:A couple of her friends are broke about two hours after pay day, and she see the benefit of controlling the use of money. CBK, about the romance bit, after one year in Norway my wife took matters into her own hands and took my card and bought her self some roses for 49 NKR. She told me it was my romantic gift for her. Apparently one year without flowers is not romantic enough for women, go figure Oh, I will beat you with what I say now AF16. I didn't buy my wife a wedding gift Flowers, I've done that a couple of times. I was practical about wedding gift really, we didn't know when we could get our son here. Purely economy (good excuse). So I told her frankly, it has to wait! Now is the time... Tomorrow actually, she and our son comes on Wedensday!! I will get a watch or some nice jewelry. Cheers! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 20, 2004 Report Share Posted November 20, 2004 One of them showed me a list comparing when they can retire if not sending $ 100 to Thailand/month. So am I a generous man? I gave my gf a visa card and she can withdraw 10'000 baht a month. What does she spend this money for? For her family of course. Once she told me that she paid for some improvment of the house of her family. She thought that I would disapprove it but I told her that it is her money and that she can do with it what she wants. Haha, of course, knowing me very well, she knew that this was only one part of the truth. So I told her also that I would like that she saves some money on her (thai) bank account as a reserve. IMO people are saving too much for their retirement. I read in the newspaper that 15% of the retired people in Switzerland have a fortune of over 800'000 $!! I don't think that they can ever spend this money during their lifetime.... Isn't it weird that people have the most money at a time when they need it the least?!? Best regards Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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