Guest Posted October 25, 2001 Report Share Posted October 25, 2001 First of all, Vtom, you are not alone and as I am sure most honest, married-long timers will confirm, wedded bliss for keeps is quite rare-I too am such a loooooser to have such a cock of a marriage, boohoo. married 13 years, yes many good years but progressively more unhappy with oh so many things but mostly this constant drain by both of us-she insisting on trying to change/train me and me insisting on resisting.....no kids(I think I was lucky there) and though 50% poorer, I have a decent friendship with my ex and she can even laugh about, sort of, my hijinks here in los but ever again???? not likely, I mean, maybe if I could find a thai girl like phordphans wife, but then why???? seems to sort of defeat the "idea" of marriage doesn't it?? I have been divorced for 10 years and, no I do not miss those special shared moments that only long term relationships have as much as I love my freedom, but its really up to you, what do you want out of life???? And that said, I guess I am a fairly selfish, shallow, self absorbed sanook with young girl loving, bastard and I hope I will always stay that way, as far as length of life-I don't worry, my goal is to die in bed with a young girl in my arms and a smile on my face Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 25, 2001 Report Share Posted October 25, 2001 Traveldog, Are you getting any Japanese tourist poon while residing in Hawaii? That would really make a guy appreciate singledom. I edited my previous post because I didn't want JEff to misinterpret the fun I was trying to have back-and-forth with him. The more perspectives on this board, the better. Keep them coming JEff. Let me add one other theory/explanation for the feminists' claim regarding the effect of marriage being better for men than for women. Married women are more likely to have kids, than are single women. Giving birth is a mortality factor. Also, as Phordphan hints, perhaps the analysis should be expanded to comprehend "quality of life," rather than just age of biological death. As you can see, this survey hits a raw nerve with me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 26, 2001 Report Share Posted October 26, 2001 Hi Vtom, Welllll, I wish I could say the Japanese tourists find me irresistable, but alas not so far.....I lived here a long time but most of my youthful years in "wedded shackles" so didn't pursue much here until divorce.....to be honest, you can score with the older Japanese, single office workers- but the youngsters and most attractive are looking for similar age playmates(I'm 47),I have had small successes, but they often travel in pairs/threes and won't "play" unless you find appropriate friends for their mates-my "happily" married friends aren't much help....to be blunt, its a lot of hard work, and los, has spoiled me for "the game".....same problem with local girls-again I am relegated to an older, post child saggy anatomy castoff, or girl in a relationship who's looking for danger-this is the most scary, and has happened more than a couple times-er, what was that "oh, probably my boyfriend/ husband coming home, but don't worry, were separated now" yeah, right, so here's the deal....as I said, I am attracted to youthful women, and I enjoy change, and but in america, it is difficult and not really accepted well, however, in the east in general, it is ok and more easily managed.....marriage, a relatively recent phenomenon, has no distinct advantages for me or most men-and divorce is definitely stacked again men in this state, So unless having children is a priority, I don't see much point.... I just can't see it in my future, Never Again! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 26, 2001 Report Share Posted October 26, 2001 Traveldog, With all due respect, I read your post rapidly, and at first glance, I thought it said, "...divorce is definitely stacked against men in this state...I can't see my furniture ever again! Wish I had been with you when you ran into doubles or triples of Japanookie. I don't mind a little sag, if it is Japanese. I love that stuff! Have a good one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 27, 2001 Report Share Posted October 27, 2001 Vtom, Well, actually the furniture can be viewed again its in my exwife's, boyfriends house!!!!! at least I can leave the toilet seat up!! I too love the Japanese ladies and oriental girls of various shades and at least not being married, leaves me options of pursuit......my unlucky married friend was whinning last nite about his wife not giving it up very often-they actually sleep in different rooms!!, and how he had to go to great lengths to "get some"-this is outrageous, but unfortunately not uncommon.....more importantly his lady is not a stunner, has really let herself go, and.... wait a minute, maybe in some instances like his, less is more.....I know I shouldn't rub it in by I showed him a pic of my tgf, Toy, 20 y.o. and how "accomodating" she is-he can't believe it is real, and most importantly can't see himself in the situation....so sad ".....oh thank heaven for little girls...." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 27, 2001 Report Share Posted October 27, 2001 So bad, Traveldog. So bad. I had a similar experience. My work friend confided in me that it was his birthday, and that "maybe" he "might get some" from his old lady, since it is a special occasion. Life is so short, and that is so disgraceful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spirit_of_town_hall Posted October 30, 2001 Report Share Posted October 30, 2001 Aptly put Vtombrown, farang women all to often dish out sex on a rationbook basis. Thats no good, a good wife/girlfriend should allow her partner pleasure. I know for one male friends who last had a good sex session with their wife girl friend, on new years eve 1999. Hey party like its 1999, not for me, I want good female company like its the 28/10/01 and every OTHER day!! Thats my right, surely? h Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 30, 2001 Report Share Posted October 30, 2001 Women who plate out sex on a ration book basis are sexual gangsters. Personally (and I may be naïve in this) I believe that there is no good marriage if the sex is no good as this is also the other way round. I know that one of my friends is sleeping under one roof in separate rooms and we are talking here of a marriage of 3 to 4 years old and so there are many of these cases. As marriages behaving like sea waves, the bedroom is still the place where the things are getting sorted out (at least in my case). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 31, 2001 Report Share Posted October 31, 2001 traveldog, you are, sir, a very modest gentleman indeed. my ambition is to die in bed in a tangle of arms and legs with at least two, possibly three of them. no, fuck it, four of the little beauties. all young ones without a serious thought in their pretty heads. come on, let's get real about this. we're not just here for fun, you know. more's the merrier. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 1, 2001 Report Share Posted November 1, 2001 Farangbaa!!!! Well, I've been called many things, but never something quite as odious as modest!!-I believe you have laid down the gauntlet and I am at your ready!!! I suggest a contest, nay a Tournament of Tangled-Thai Extremities!!! I will alight on fair shores December 18th for 1 month. As I am unfamiliar with your beerbar- "cyberspace", perhaps we can negotiate the finer points of the tournament at a more known location???? Sir, I await your reply with Viagra-baited breath Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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