Steve Posted July 14, 2001 Report Share Posted July 14, 2001 I'm not looking for a girlfriend in LOS, I enjoy being a butterfly but I keep reading in these posts about BGs keeping their Thai boyfriends. What is it about these guys that they maintain their hold on the women? Is it that they share a cultural background that farang men just will never be able to match? Or is it their mannerisms? I've heard of them being less than kind, etc. when compared to farangs? Do the women go for the type that wil disrespect them out of some freudian/jungian psychological need? I'm just curious. Is it better sex (no way, us farangs are better, right fellas?!--joke). If there are any Thai women who can answer this for me besides the theories of the guys on this board (and it would be all theories), I'd like to know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whosyourdaddy Posted July 15, 2001 Report Share Posted July 15, 2001 quote: Originally posted by chocolat steve: If there are any Thai women who can answer this for me besides the theories of the guys on this board (and it would be all theories), I'd like to know. Yes I am sure many of the thai ladies on this board will speak right up. or maybe the guys can ask the girl they bar-fine tonight the answer and get the real answer for ya. What makes you think that thai guys are bad in bed. Last time I taught human anatomy, I did teach that even thai guy's have a penis. Who would you rather have as a partner, someone who understands your culture, your language, your position in life or someone who will meet you for a few weeks while on holiday. The answer will probably be the same as the other humans on the earth Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
New Petchburi Pete Posted July 15, 2001 Report Share Posted July 15, 2001 I know a few Thai ladies who live with farang men; but keep a Thai boyfriend for sex. The farangs don't know what's going on; and I wish sometimes I could tell them the truth, but cannot due to the complex nature of friendships between the ladies. The gals confide in me that they prefer sex with their Thai boyfriends because they say that the farangs they live with screw too slowly! Needless to say, I have since picked up the pace of the race! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
New Petchburi Pete Posted July 15, 2001 Report Share Posted July 15, 2001 Thank you for upgrading my status to that of "regular member." I had a feeling my last post would do the trick!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cardinalblue Posted July 15, 2001 Report Share Posted July 15, 2001 The answer is simple. "Birds of the same feather will always flock together." It always has been and always will. Let's not forget that these women's interests in you are primarily driven for economic reasons (even including those living with you). Emotional, social, and psychological needs are still met by their own kind. It is rare for a Thai girl to either have the ability or ambition to step out of their inner circles to explore another culture. Odds for this happening, though, does improve with their level of education or their commitment to re-locate to your country. The more education and earning power (financially independent of your money) they have, more of the relationship will be based on non-economic factors. A committed relationship of this type will have a much greater chance of success than one solely based on economic factors. The problem is there aren't too many Thai girls proportinately (key word) interested in farangs other than for economics reasons. If you do find one and that is what you want, grab her because she has been able to step "out of her own little box" and let go of her attachment to her own kind........... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JJsushi Posted July 21, 2001 Report Share Posted July 21, 2001 quote: Originally posted by New Petchburi Pete: I know a few Thai ladies who live with farang men; but keep a Thai boyfriend for sex. The farangs don't know what's going on; and I wish sometimes I could tell them the truth, but cannot due to the complex nature of friendships between the ladies. The gals confide in me that they prefer sex with their Thai boyfriends because they say that the farangs they live with screw too slowly! Needless to say, I have since picked up the pace of the race! Pete, I too have noticed that the Thai girls like to screw like jackrabbits. I have slept with both BG and non BG. They both only seem to get off when you bang them like you are running a sprint. Girls have told me that when I bang them fast and hard they come anywhere from 3-5 times. I actually don't mind it because after you stroke them long and slow American style you give them a few of the quick staccato style porno bangs and they love you for life! I have had many a girl wake me in the morning/afternoon and demand repeat performances. I for the life of me could never figure out why the chicks like the fast and furious banging until I started to watch Japanese porno(they screw like energizer bunnies). I then surmised that the pornos are probably where the Thai men learn their technique and thus use it on the women. Just my theory Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sidsanuk Posted July 21, 2001 Report Share Posted July 21, 2001 Just the topic of farang v Thai love making techniques, what about oral sex? I get the impression, from my limited experience, that Thai guys can be a bit selfish when it comes to the 'horizontal tango'. I for one love giving oral sex and my GF seems to go into orbit thinking it is the best thing ever. Do Thai guys tend not to do this? Just curious. Whilst she loves the slow and romantic approach, given the other posts, I better add a few frantic 'bunny' style performances too LOL Sid Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattaya127 Posted July 21, 2001 Report Share Posted July 21, 2001 quote: Originally posted by cardinalblue: The answer is simple. "Birds of the same feather will always flock together." It always has been and always will. Let's not forget that these women's interests in you are primarily driven for economic reasons (even including those living with you). Emotional, social, and psychological needs are still met by their own kind. It is rare for a Thai girl to either have the ability or ambition to step out of their inner circles to explore another culture. Odds for this happening, though, does improve with their level of education or their commitment to re-locate to your country. The more education and earning power (financially independent of your money) they have, more of the relationship will be based on non-economic factors. A committed relationship of this type will have a much greater chance of success than one solely based on economic factors. The problem is there aren't too many Thai girls proportinately (key word) interested in farangs other than for economics reasons. If you do find one and that is what you want, grab her because she has been able to step "out of her own little box" and let go of her attachment to her own kind........... this post is full of wisdom. good one, Cardinal. We should not get hung up about thai boy friends. I sure hear a lot about thai guys being lazy, selfish and "quick" in bed, from thai girls too. I just learnt to take everything heard in LOS with a grain of salt. It makes sense that some girls have thai b/fs, as much as it makes sense that some have been hurt and have given up on them. Stuff of life, really.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 21, 2001 Report Share Posted July 21, 2001 yeah, that's the question. Why does she have a western boyfriend who is double her age and still needs to play around with a young, hardbodied, good looking guy who speaks her language and enjoys the same things as her, but is just too poor to give her the lifestyle she is already accustomed to? Difficult to answer... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 21, 2001 Report Share Posted July 21, 2001 I hate to sound like some PC prat (and I hope you don't mistake me for one) but I think the implicit assumption is flawed. I think the whole "Thai man no good," has simply become a mantra passed from one generation of TG to the next. Let's face it -- it has the immediate effect of boosting your ego (hey, I didn't even do anything yet, and already, I rate pretty high in her estimation). Secondly, it renders yon TG into the fallen ingenue who, while desperately evading the clutches of those callow Thai rogues, slips comfortably into the embrace of yours. The evil party here is "man Thai", and who's going to defend him while she's nuzzling your arm? Presto change-o, the pair of you are exonerated from the moral implications of your rendezvous. Your act of commerce has been transformed into an act of mercy. Call me an irrepressible humanist, I refuse to believe Thai men are really all that bad. Yes, some of them probably are, who'll sell their youngest girl to a massage parlor to fix their motorcycle. I'm sure some of them are living saints as well, who'll strew rose petals before the feet of their mia loaung (sp?), mothers, sisters, and daughters. Likewise when TGs stare me earnestly in the face and tell me "Thai man no good," I'm sure some of them are lying and some of them are not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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