JJsushi Posted June 21, 2003 Report Share Posted June 21, 2003 Inspired by another poster (CB) who conducted his own research on another topic I decided to do the same. I talked to a couple of BG's that I have known for a while who I do not have sex with only talking,eating and drink with. I read quite a few posts where guys claim that these girls are having fun, they are all smiles and it beats working in a factory or field. Many think they are happy because we nice Farang treat them with kindness, respect and show them a good time. I think theree is a distinct difference between what we think is Happy/fun for them and what they think. Here is an interview with a Patpong BG JJ: Is working in the bar fun or happy? BG: Sometime fun JJ: Why don't you go work in the factory or restaurant? BG: Small money. I have family to take care of. JJ: Tell me when it is fun/happy and when it is not fun/happy. BG: I happy when I come to work and get to talk to my friends. I am not happy when I have to dance from 7pm-2am I am not happy when manager talks about I am not a good lady because I do not have many barfines. I am not happy when manager cut my money too much. I happy when man pay bar for me. I happy when man pay bar for my friends and we all go to disco/sanuk. JJ: Why happy when man pay for friends? BG: I happy because I help my friends make money same they do for me when they have customer. JJ: Continue with when you are happy/unhappy. . BG: I am not happy when we go back to hotel and I have to boom boom for money. I am happy when we finish boom boom and customer pay me. I am very unhappy when I have to go home and stay in my room alone. Sometimes I think about what I do to make money and I don't like to think about what I do. The following was just for my own curiousity and has nothing to do with the happy/fun topic. JJ: Do you care if customer young, old, fat, handsome, ugly. BG: No I don't care. I only care if he has a good heart and he sanuk and he pay good money. JJ Are you sure you don't care if man old or young? BG: No I don't care. I like old man because him finish quick or sometime he don't want sex he just want to talk and sleep, he just want to hold lady while he sleep. I don't like young man because him want to do everything same sex movie. JJ: I don't understand you tell me you don't care but you like old man more. BG: Why don't you understand? I don't care I go with both old man and young man. When old man come bar I go say hello him. When young man come bar I go with him if he tell me come sit with him. I go with both. I don't care. JJ: I think you like man more if he handsome. BG: I not care if he handsome, yes I like man look nice. I like man that smile. JJ: You like customer more handsome then? I not care customer more handosme. I tell you before. If I want handsome man I go get Thai man. Why you ask me same question? JJ: I just want to make sure I understand. JJ: You think Thai DJ handsome Thai man? BG: Yeah him handsome but him no have money. JJ: Would you boom boom Thai DJ? BG: No. Him work same bar with me, too many problems. JJ: Do you like Farang or Japanese man better? BG: I like Japanese better because he pay good money. JJ: Then why do you go with Farang more? BG: Easy for me to talk to farang. I speak Japanese little bit. JJ: Would you boom boom man for free? BG: NO! I work bar why would I boom boom man for free? JJ: Maybe you love him or you want to marry him? BG: Cannot love customer. Okay I like him and he very good customer and he take me long time he do not have to pay very much. He want to marry me then he have to take care of everything. JJ: Would you boom boom Thai man for free? BG: Only if he good Thai man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
think_too_mut Posted June 21, 2003 Report Share Posted June 21, 2003 >Inspired by another poster (CB) who conducted his own research on another topic I decided to do the same. I talked to a couple of BG's that I have known for a while who I do not have sex with only talking,eating and drink with. JJ, Seems like you looked over my shoulder while I was talking to bgs and taking notes... Identical answers to what I got. The sample was a bit larger though but there is no deviation at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Straycat Posted June 21, 2003 Report Share Posted June 21, 2003 The strange thing in this context is that Westerners can't "see it" when visiting Thai nightspots...hence the "need" for these interviews.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 21, 2003 Report Share Posted June 21, 2003 >>>I not care customer more handosme. I tell you before. If I want handsome man I go get Thai man. Why you ask me same question?<<< now that is one thing which should be fucking highlighted!!!! well, that interview sums up a lot, concerning difference between customers and fun/real boyfriends. of course you will have many different variations in some points, people aren't computers, some girls do like young and handsome farang (and with young i mean early twenties!), and sometimes a love-relationship can develop out of the customer-relationship. but all those blokes coming here with those illusions about these thai girls prefering older western men for whatever reasons have here rather clear why and under which limitations that is so. well done. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MooNoi Posted June 21, 2003 Report Share Posted June 21, 2003 JJ, A credit to you. One of the most interesting posts I have read on this board. Bravo! :: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chilli13 Posted June 21, 2003 Report Share Posted June 21, 2003 I like these 'interviews', but I just wished they would be a bit more varied... Like including the view of BG's who like to watch sex movies & who actually initiate sex :hubba: Of course I've met plenty of BG's just like the one from the interview, but obviously it's the other more interesting one's who I'd like to remember & who make LOS worthwhile altogether Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
think_too_mut Posted June 21, 2003 Report Share Posted June 21, 2003 FlyPapillon, Why are you using the sadest possible image for your avatar? That's the scene we see only when leaving LOS, many of us fly in by night. One minute or so after this sight it's all gone, for months or longer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JJsushi Posted June 21, 2003 Author Report Share Posted June 21, 2003 Says ib13: I like these 'interviews', but I just wished they would be a bit more varied... Like including the view of BG's who like to watch sex movies & who actually initiate sex :hubba: I have one of those types of BG's but that is a PRIVATE interview because alot of my ego is involved with that one. That brings back an old memory. I remember in college there were a ton of chicks that claimed pornos were sick degrading and disgusting. Yet if they walked in the room while one was playing or if one was put in the VCR while we were all drinking,they would invariably watch in utter fascination. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chilli13 Posted June 21, 2003 Report Share Posted June 21, 2003 I hope it's not the same BG then or one of the eden babes as those 2 groups are actually the only ones I've come across who insisted watching sex movies... Sure even western girls enjoy watching sex, but then again they don't wanna be associated with it as that would amke them a slut right? Take it easy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 21, 2003 Report Share Posted June 21, 2003 "That brings back an old memory. I remember in college there were a ton of chicks that claimed pornos were sick degrading and disgusting. Yet if they walked in the room while one was playing or if one was put in the VCR while we were all drinking,they would invariably watch in utter fascination. " That is because women in the west are predispositioned to tell you what is politically correct, not what they are really thinking/really want. Oneye Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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