Diamonds in the rough!

[Ranger]

And by rough, I do mean rough. Soi Yodsak in Pattaya (Soi 6), where walking the gauntlet of soi dogs and katoeys can be a daunting experience. Over the years, I have always managed to find at least 1 or 2 gems per trip, but it took lots of sifting through the rubble.

 

This trip, I found the proverbial oasis in the desert-TG Bar. A whole bar full of cuties. 17 girls in the bar, and at least 10 of them are acceptable and several are outstanding. They make a real effort to dress up here as well. One day was schoolgirl outfit day and the good thing was, most of them looked like they belonged in the schoolgirl outifts!! It seems this has not gone unnoticed by the locals as this place is usually packed and there's a good chance your favorite girl will be "occupied" . I ended up taking 2 of them home my first night here in Pattaya. Couldn't be taken out for LT until after 8 pm and it seems this is a set in stone rule. The Mamasan said if she didn't have this rule, then all the girls would be gone by 2 pm. I wonder how many ST's they squeezed in before I arrived at 8 to pick them up?

 

The girls I took were roommates and best friends and as it turns out they were quite "friendly" with each other. If they weren't kissing me, they were kissing each other. No matter how many ST's they did that day, they saved plenty of power for me and in fact I had to beg for mercy more than once. "Sorry girls, I only have 1 dick, you have to share" "OK, then you "fishing" for me while you make love she, OK???!!!" A guys got to do what a guys got to do! ::

 

I wanted to let them sleep late the next day, but they had to be to work at 1 pm or else "big problem" with mamasan. I arrived back in their bar about 4 and they were in obvious need of more sleep. Pleaded with the mamasan to let me take them home to rest, but she wouldn't budge. I told them I would pay bar again and come fetch them at 8, but it seems there was a problem. The cuter one of the 2 was barfined already. Damn, I guess you gotta get here early. I told the other one to pick another friend and then the cute one got jealous and decided she would call the other guy and pretend to be sick. Paid both their bar fines and told them I'd be back at 8 pm.

 

Life is Good!

 

to be continued.........Part 2: Ruining the illusion/2 40 Kilo girls + 20 shots of Tequila=???????????

 

BTW, yes I am married. Please keep the holier than though comments to yerself. And BTW, WTF are you doing reading the nightlife section is this stuff offends you. And yes, that's why I haven't posted in a long time.

 

Ranger

[Lusty]

THANK FUCK there will be something decent to read this week!

Will you be re-visiting the one with the big tits?

[CarlBkk]

I'm not holier than thou, but why the fuck did you bother to get married if you're going to bang bargirls and broadcast it?

 

Just asking out loud as that's certainly what I'd be asking myself when I came home to a loving wife.

[thai3]

I did not intend to post on this board again partly due to it's suport of these adultery reports(if only passively) and partly due to the way certain posters have been hounded off over the past few months.

You are quite right to ask the question, but I expect your comments will be called 'sanctimonious crap' as were mine a few days ago by KS. In that particular case the adulterer did happen to have a good excuse as his wife was not well. However, looking back at posts refering to his last trip 5 years ago he was visiting cambo brothels then, well before the following circumstances.

If KS wants to tolerate this sort of thing it's up to him but I don't want to asscociate myself with this sort of crap. There's nothing in it that any decently motivated person would find interesting, funny or sexy. Just the pathetic boasting of a guy who, although married, cannot give up his previous lifestyle. Who knows maybe he's no longer married, but I recall similar schoolboy tales within weeks of him getting married.

So lets hear it good old boy, why did you bother to get married? I say again and for the last time, I don't tell people what to do, just wish they would keep it to themselves-peter

[thai3]

some excuses for the adultery fans:

 

 

 

 

excuse one: no marriage is safe from adultery, it can happen to anyone.

 

Adulterers are rather mystical people. They have no explanation for anything, and don't want one. They prefer instead to shrug their shoulders and follow their feelings instead of using their minds. Adultery, to them, is much like love; it is causeless, groundless, and can descend on a couple like biblical locusts before they even know what hit them. Just ask an adulterer sometime to express his thoughts or her reasons for doing what they did; almost invariably the response is a wide-eyed shrug of ignorance or the silence of sheepish bewilderment. I don't know why it happened, they say. It just did.

 

This idea, that sex somehow "just happens" has surely got to be one of the biggest self-delusions ever perpetuated by mankind. Sex never "just happens" - it isn't like breathing or waking up in the morning or growing a beard - barring cases of rape, sex is always a conscious decision and a consensual act, something you very clearly either choose to do or not to do. People who like to claim that they mysteriously found themselves having sex one afternoon are either kidding themselves or the people they claim to love; the same can be said about extra-marital affairs, which, according to those in them, "happen" with the same alarming and bewildering suddenness.

 

I challenge this notion that adultery is like some sweeping plague that either enters your life and destroys it or mercifully passes you by. I challenge the notion that even the happiest of couples is vulnerable to the creeping evil of adultery. This attitude completely absolves grown adults of all responsibility for the choices they make in life and renders them little better than malleable children. It also makes marriage seem like some delicate orchid that must be sheltered from the strong winds of temptation and vice, or like some capricious and fragile gift of the gods that can be taken away as easily as it was given.

 

Marriage is as strong, or as weak, as the people in it and if it is entered into for the right reasons, is most definitely strong enough to keep adultery at bay. Adultery doesn't even skirt the perimeter of truly happy marriages. In truly strong, well-founded marriages, adultery is laughed at as the pitiful last resort of people who are too immature or too incapable of intimacy to understand what marriage really is. Adulterers need to grow up and take responsibility for their actions instead of trying to convince everyone else that it is a force beyond their control that they are powerless to stop. A marriage is only threatened by adultery if those in it allow it to be.

 

 

excuse 2: I was madly in love when I got married, but after __ years, the spark is gone.

 

This, if it were true, would be perhaps the only somewhat plausible explanation for adultery. It would not explain, however, why you are still married to someone you are not in love with, but I grant that the temptation to find a new lover would indeed be strong if you had lost the love of your life and found yourself aching for that kind of connection again.

 

The trouble lies in the inherent contradiction set out in this kind of statement. "I was madly in love", it begins...and "but I'm not anymore." is essentially how it ends. This doesn't make any sense, if you understand that love is caused by shared values and doesn't just up and die one day like a neglected goldfish. Are people who use this line saying that their spouse suddenly did an about face and turned into a completely different person after a few years? If that's so, why aren't they headed straight for divorce court? Why on earth would you stay married to a virtual stranger who bears no resemblance to the person you married?

 

Because these people are not saying their spouse turned into a different person or that their values suddenly changed so drastically that they weren't the same person. In many of the extra-marital website forums, the most common complaint heard from adulterous spouses has nothing to do with the personality or values of their spouse ( who is almost always praised as an incredible wife, mother, friend, companion, all-round person). The problem is simply that their mate looks different than they did __ years ago when they first married.

 

Unfortunately, the largest number of complaints about dwindling physical attractiveness come from men (who themselves are likely balding or the proud possessor of a spare tire) who seem to think, somehow, that even though they age and gain weight and become less sexually adept, that their wives should be miraculously immune from these changes and should remain nineteen year old hardbodies for the rest of their lives. In the absence of such a miracle, these men believe that they are entitled to have as much sex as they want with young babes - they somehow believe they deserve such bounty and that young women should fall all over themselves to oblige. This is not only supremely stupid, it is also completely insulting to the vibrant human being they married and whom they dismiss because she isn't good looking enough for them.

 

Anyone who can look at the woman who carried and delivered their children, who put her body through tremendous stress and alteration to do so, who spent the last __ years raising and caring for them and who also probably held down a job at the same time and say "I'm going to have sex with someone else because you don't look like a Playboy bunny" doesn't deserve a wife, a family or even the smallest amount of love, affection or regard. This kind of person is a stunted teenager, someone who clearly never really loved his wife at all and someone who thinks so little of sex, so little of the bond two people can share and so little of himself that he believes the only thing worth having in life is meaningless sex with a good looking shell.

 

These people were obviously not madly in love when they got married, they were obviously smitten with someone's beauty and horny for their cute little body, and thought this meant they were in love. They thought beauty was the only value worth having in life and that marriage would require nothing more than a twenty-two inch waistline and a D cup. They never bothered to fall in love with a whole person, their beauty included, they convinced themselves that falling for an exterior was all that was needed for a lifetime of wedded bliss.

 

Of course the spark is gone from these marriages; it was never there in the first place. Adulterers should at least be honest with themselves and admit that they either didn't hold out for someone whose mind and character they loved as much as their body, or else they are completely incapable of feeling that kind of deep admiration and love for another person, and have to satisfy their sexual urges in as meaningless a way as possible. Which leads to the most common excuse of all:

 

 

excuse 3: I still love my spouse.

 

No, you don't.

 

I don't know how anyone can say this with a straight face. If you were really in love with your spouse, you wouldn't be having sex with other people. And even if you were no longer passionately in love, if you had even the slightest concern or regard for the person you're married to, you wouldn't deceive them in such a disrespectful, dishonourable way. If you really loved them, you would respect them enough to be honest with them about your feelings, even if it means an uncomfortable situation or possibly a divorce. Lie to yourself all you like, but adultery means the irretrievable loss of love, and consequently, the loss of any basis you might have had for being married.

 

 

There's no end to the excuses adulterers will make for themselves, probably because deep down, no one wants to admit that they're immoral or making serious errors of judgement. Maybe if we shattered the myths about what adultery is and why it happens, they wouldn't be able to hide behind excuses anymore and would have to face the truth about how they choose to live their life. Without that "moral" sanction, without their myths to back them up, I wonder how many of them would still have the courage to cheat.

 

Sad that adulterers, and worse are looked up to as nightlife heros by some on this board. ::

here endeth the sermon-peter

[jack_schist]

GO AWAY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOUR A SERIAL PEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Zorro]

thai3

 

Why do you feel the need to preach so much on this topic?

 

Have you had a religious experience or something?

 

I am of course happy that you believe what you believe but I am also very suspicious when people try to shove their own beliefs down other peoples throats as you seem to be doing on this subject.

 

There are many reasons why someone might have sex outside of their marriage and in some cases it is even concensual ie the wife is happy that he is getting it elsewhere.

The wife may not have a high sex drive and the husband does or vice versa. One partner may have a disease or disability that precludes sex. One partner may be away a lot and cannot see their spouse for long periods of time .....

Some people like variety and are not satisfied with one sexual partner etc.

At the end of the day men and women have wants and needs and if they are not being satisfied they will seek gratification elsewhere.

[khunsanuk]

Hi,

 

"If KS wants to tolerate this sort of thing it's up to him but I don't want to asscociate myself with this sort of crap."

 

Then leave!

 

No, hang on, I'll help...

 

Sanuk!

[Lusty]

I think you'll find they have an "open marriage".

I think it all boils down to the fact that one thing that's better than pussy is different pussy!

If you look at many species in the animal kingdom its natural that one male services many females and vicer versa.Immoral or not,I dont know,thats just the way it is.

 

[Nervous_Dog]

Great post Ranger, good to see your most likely having safe sex too, unlike some

 

DOG