theshaw66 Posted November 12, 2006 Report Share Posted November 12, 2006 i also guess it would depend on how good a friend that person was from the start as well... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shygye Posted November 12, 2006 Report Share Posted November 12, 2006 I would not reply to the contact. That is the Thai way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rodin Posted November 12, 2006 Report Share Posted November 12, 2006 As everyone else says it depends on the variables. Like how badly does she need your help and what would happen if you didn't help. I think maybe it comes down to whether you would feel happy or guilt free if you didn't help. Thats a personal thing and theres no right or wrong answer. After all its about how you will be left feeling. Even generous deeds are selfish! Besides maybe you can use this as an excuse to air your greivances. If she needs help that badly she'll have to listen to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soongmak Posted November 12, 2006 Report Share Posted November 12, 2006 For someone who screwed you over, and knows it, to come back a year later and try to hold you to your 'promise to help' just shows how clueless they are, and shows they still do not care that they are playing with your emotions, taking advantage of your good heart, and shows to me they are selfish and thinking only of themselves. If they hurt you before and realize the pain they caused you they would not come back into your life if they cared for you one iota. With this type ... its always all about them. Absolutely agree. I am not the type to look for revenge, but I not enough of a masochist either to help them again. Som nam na! :grin: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MooNoi Posted November 12, 2006 Report Share Posted November 12, 2006 Sorry to be so blunt, OH... But if it was a bar girl.. "fuck off". There's always another idiot to help her out. Anyone else, you get a second chance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David99UK Posted November 12, 2006 Report Share Posted November 12, 2006 Forgive them and help them out, This ONE time only... Cos' it's good Karma when you help someone you have every reason not to. .........and because I am soft in the head :grin: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prosal Posted November 12, 2006 Report Share Posted November 12, 2006 Getting us to feel sorry for them is a big part of the women's scam. I personnaly would NEVER fall for it, and I would NEVER pay one bath for the alligator tears of a bitch. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AF16 Posted November 12, 2006 Report Share Posted November 12, 2006 I promised I would and I would. the condition of course would be that the favor did not include something I would not be comfortable doing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Old Hippie Posted November 12, 2006 Author Report Share Posted November 12, 2006 Prosol, Normally, I'd be in 100% agreement with you. But this is a philisophical discussion, which is why I also agree with AF16, a promise was made. In life, we live by a code (some of us) and we are honor bound to stick to it. If we make promises and then break them, are we not then as bad as the whores we scorn? Are we not in fact reenforcing the idea that "...see all farang are liars, who never keep a promise...?" Discuss... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
liquidflux Posted November 12, 2006 Report Share Posted November 12, 2006 I'm sure there were promises made on the other side not to screw you over, cause you pain, etc. I'm normally one to keep my word, but this just seems like a way of opening the door to getting hurt again. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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