jonjon058 Posted March 25, 2007 Report Share Posted March 25, 2007 My friend got a curable STD from a bargirl in Nana plaza. I thought he was being paranoid when he said he thought he had caught something because it was his first day in LOS and he had only gone with one girl. Plus he said he had been careful. But to put his mind at ease we went to the hospital and found out he was right. I was shocked since I have been with more girls than I can remember and never caught anything... and yes I do get tested every so often to be sure. Anyway, within a few days he was fine. But after he left Thailand I ran into the girl that he caught it from. So here is the question. Do you tell her to go get a check up? I pondered that while chatting with her and in the end decided not to say anything. I figured it would only embarrass her and getting rid of it for her would be like shoveling snow in a blizzard. Has anyone actually said something to a bar girl and if so how did they react? Do the bargirls normally go get check ups on their own periodically? She worked at an outside beer bar so I doubt they require any type of testing to work there like some of the gogo's claim. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wonderlust Posted March 25, 2007 Report Share Posted March 25, 2007 Most STDs have an incubation period of longer than one day. The chances are he'd been carrying that STD (chlamydia?) for some time but it had showed no symptoms. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
man_ghon Posted March 25, 2007 Report Share Posted March 25, 2007 If it was Non-specific urethritis it isn't only caught through usual extra-curricular encounters, it can also be caused by excessive friction during masturbation or sex, an allergic reaction to soap or detergent, or drinking too much alcohol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 25, 2007 Report Share Posted March 25, 2007 I'd tell the lady concerned...i wouldn't want any others to catch anything, but then i'm a kind caring type...others are not... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TroyinEwa/Perv Posted March 25, 2007 Report Share Posted March 25, 2007 I agree with wonderlust....incubation period is longer than one day. He had whatever it was before he left home. Tell him to talk to his steady to get her checked. And yes.....100 percent do tell your partner if you contracted something from them, ESPECIALLY a bargirl. I don't want to catch what he possibly gave to her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trooper Posted March 25, 2007 Report Share Posted March 25, 2007 I'm afraid I wouldn't bother to tell. I believe most of them carry something anyway and are too afraid to go to doctor. But that's not funny he got something even he was using condom. I have one friend who has caught gonorrea twice in Thailand and he also claims he's always been protecting his willy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shygye Posted March 25, 2007 Report Share Posted March 25, 2007 Could be from a BBBJ. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChristianTroy Posted March 25, 2007 Report Share Posted March 25, 2007 Of course you tell her and if she declines a check up and to treat her STD you walk straight to the mamasan an get her ass fired. It is irresponsible to let her continue spreading the disease no matter how minor it is and there are not only health reasons for that! I am not condoning cheating husbands but some men simply can't resist, his wife trusts him and has unprotected sex with him while he doesn't know he is sick! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bust Posted March 25, 2007 Report Share Posted March 25, 2007 If the incubation period is correct then maybe it is he who could have passed something onto her. Maybe paranoia prompted him to get the check up. So maybe the right thing to do is tell her that maybe she should have a check up as he could be the problem not her. Whatever the situation you should have said something, makes you irresponsible because you know for certain that he has an STD and she may be unaware. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jonjon058 Posted March 26, 2007 Author Report Share Posted March 26, 2007 I was looking to see if the it was really possible to have symptoms so fast, as I know for a fact he had only been in LOS for less than 24 hours and had been with only one girl in that time. Couldn't find anything saying chlamydia could show symptoms that fast. So maybe he had it all along as you suggest and paranoia caused him to go get checked out. If that is the case and he was really careful like he said she may not have it. Anyway, I am not asking whether I was being responsible. I was asking what the likely reaction would have been from the bar girl. Has anyone ever actual told a bar girl that she has an STD and what did she say or do? It just seemed like such an obvious thing to say to someone who goes with one or two strangers per night "hey, you know you might have an STD and should get a check up". For all I know, Chlamydia may be the least of her worries. If there is a Nana Plaza regular who is seriously concerned about this girl and wants to tell her then I'll let you know where to find her. Not on this open forum though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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