thalenoi Posted May 17, 2002 Report Share Posted May 17, 2002 sorry whosyourdaddy, but you don't have enough details for making such a harsh statement on Khun Moo, give him some credit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phoenix Posted May 17, 2002 Report Share Posted May 17, 2002 Thalenoi: >sorry whosyourdaddy, but you don't have enough details for making such a harsh statement on Khun Moo, give him some credit.< Both of you make a valid point. The real issue is that it may have been a scam, it may have been a real cost incurred in hospital due to complications. In one case Khun Moo appears the victim, and the girl a baddie, in the other case he's the baddie and she's the 'victim'. We won't ever know (unless she turns up and provides a verifiable hospital bill and doctor's statement, which is unlikely under the circumstances). I have been in 'pregnancy situations' twice in LOS, one time my paternity could be verified as negative, the second time, I'll never know now. My position has always ben to give the least 'powerful' party always the benefit of the doubt, to avoid me committing a gross unfairness to her. In that position, you make yourself vulnerable to scams. But, to do the other and run the risk of committing a great unfairness to her may be a risk I didn't want to take. So maybe I got scammed a few times. Maybe it was on a scale I could afford, and maybe it taught me something. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tko Posted May 18, 2002 Report Share Posted May 18, 2002 My position has always ben to give the least 'powerful' party always the benefit of the doubt, to avoid me committing a gross unfairness to her. ----------------------------------- Cheers! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gobbledonk Posted May 18, 2002 Report Share Posted May 18, 2002 Dude, Well before Thailand, but after one too many scares here in Oz, I had a vasectomy. Not everyone's cup of tea, but it can save you some sleepless nights. 'Up to you'. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted May 18, 2002 Report Share Posted May 18, 2002 Just for the record guys,we didnt break up ok.Everything was resolved after lengthy discussions,and im as happy as larry!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted May 20, 2002 Report Share Posted May 20, 2002 Glad to see you got things worked out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jp1 Posted November 7, 2002 Report Share Posted November 7, 2002 Sorry guys to revive this old thread but I'm a bit in deep shit now. Just a couple of days ago my gf phoned me and told me that she's pregnant (2nd month). After long discussions with her she reluctantly agreed to abort. Yesterday she visited Burumgrad (sp) Hospital and was told that she's to wait for 10-14 days until the abortion can be performed. According to her she'll receive the exact date next week (by phone). Since any delay can complicate the matter I'm in a hurry to have this operation done as soon as possible. Is it normal that an abortion is not done immediately or is she trying to fool me? I know she wants the baby but I'm not keen to have it. She wants me to come to Thailand immediately but I cannot be there before Nov.20th. Right now I'm too busy. Thanks for any information. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
check_bin_krap Posted November 7, 2002 Report Share Posted November 7, 2002 Whats the beef with all these guys in relationships getting girls pregnant, and they don't know if its a scam or not? They don't know if they can trust the girl or not? "Is she trying to fool me" And pressuring the girl into abortion? Do a vasecomy (sp?) and stop playing with life and death. :: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jp1 Posted November 7, 2002 Report Share Posted November 7, 2002 She's my GF for almost two years, is living abt. 70 km out of BKK and is NOT in the trade. All I want to know is whether it really takes two weeks to get a hospital appointment. I'm pressuring nobody as I've clearly stated that she agreed to abort. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
check_bin_krap Posted November 7, 2002 Report Share Posted November 7, 2002 A relationship for 2 years, you have gotten her pregnant and you don't know if she is trying to fool you? Grow up and wear a condom next time. Pressure or not, you know that best yourself. You stated that she wants the baby though. Its pretty irrelevant if she is in the trade or not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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