buffalo_bill Posted July 26, 2010 Report Share Posted July 26, 2010 What I was trying to say is that in search of a female Number 3 for the threesome it might be a good idea to talk to a pro who has probably some experience in this field instead of hiring the next best hooker who might have no skills . Upper class escorts speak usually good English and might be somewhat more " educated " in Western behaviour . I published the case with my long gone ultra longtime girlfriend to explain the flexibility of aforementioned escort women if asked for somewhat exotic services. Khun expat got the message as it looks . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Encore Posted July 26, 2010 Report Share Posted July 26, 2010 Bubi, the establishment I mentioned many of the women have at least some English, some of them quite a lot. The OP's wife is Thai, married to the OP for 10 years, between them they should be able to communicate with the other lady quite adequately. If the wife has the language edge with her over the OP, it may give her the feeling of holding the power, that may help if she's the hesitant weak link. The women in this establishment all have ample experience in threesomes, since that is a major part of the service provided here, most of their clients are English speaking, and they would be quite well versed in western clients behaviour. They also don't bat an eyelid at peculiar requests from clients. Unlike unknown quantities such as unproven random gogo or bar girls. Choosing someone from a too high class escort service, who speaks perfect English, and comes across as a middle class Thai lady, may of course be somewhat threatening to the OP's wife. ( I did spend one night with someone of such description, and while fun, I myself feel more comfortable with more ordinary down to earth Isan women). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shygye Posted July 26, 2010 Report Share Posted July 26, 2010 ... somehow I get the feeling the ducks are in for a feed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rice-Fever Posted July 27, 2010 Author Report Share Posted July 27, 2010 What I was trying to say is that in search of a female Number 3 for the threesome it might be a good idea to talk to a pro who has probably some experience in this field instead of hiring the next best hooker who might have no skills . OK. Understood. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rice-Fever Posted July 27, 2010 Author Report Share Posted July 27, 2010 ... somehow I get the feeling the ducks are in for a feed. Proceeding with caution..........extreme caution. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radioman Posted July 28, 2010 Report Share Posted July 28, 2010 I went down this road (a little way) sometime back. I was being almost encouraged to organise something very similar but on reflection decided that it was not something I wanted to pursue. I couldn't rationalise to myself why I wanted to do it but I did recognise that if such an 'event' took place it would change the dynamic of our relationship. Not being certain that this would be positive also counted in my descision. Her recognition that I really do not want anyone else in our relationship at any level is playing out very positively. Remember that asking a question does not guarantee an answer and even getting an answer does not mean it isn't wrapped in something else. Proceed with caution and take no advice but your own. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rookie Posted July 29, 2010 Report Share Posted July 29, 2010 As mentioned...be careful, it may well change your relationship. I gal I'd been with quite a while in the US asked what I wanted for my 40th birthday. I knew she'd been with other women, so I said a 3-some. We were to meet at a restaurant where I could get to know the other gal, size up the situation, then go to my home for playtime. I found the other gal was not only a pretty, but also worked in porno! Playtime was wonderful, until my gal became angry, feeling I was spending too much attention to the other gal. She left, leaving the other gal to stay and spend the night (which I enjoyed!). Next morning I went to my gals place. We chatted, but it became quickly apparent that the episode had definitely put a damper on our relationship and things went further downhill during the next few months... Yes, be careful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shygye Posted July 29, 2010 Report Share Posted July 29, 2010 ... so what was the downside? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hamokhamok Posted July 29, 2010 Report Share Posted July 29, 2010 What lessons have 'we' learned from this experience ? Answer: You've found a whole new way of getting rid of one girlfriend and at the same time getting a new one ---- all with your present girlfriends help. What more could you ask for. She dumped herself. You got the experience of having a threesome (all be it cut short) but that probably wasn't a bad thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dashiling Posted July 30, 2010 Report Share Posted July 30, 2010 sounds like she's setting a tidy little trap for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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