Guest Posted July 19, 2005 Report Share Posted July 19, 2005 Depending on what the word "WANT" is described. It can mean to have a clean date, sex, a short term relaltion, a long term relation, a marriage life, a companion or any other. I agree that many Farang men want to try a Thai woman when they come here but I don't think "many" Farang men will want a permanent or long term relationship with a Thai woman (especially with the needy and poor one). Well, there are many variables for the answer of this question; what type of Farangs who want a Thai girl, what type of Thai girls they want and what type of relationship. !!! Long research!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AF16 Posted July 19, 2005 Report Share Posted July 19, 2005 Old Hippie said:O.k. but the question is/was "Why do the men take them up on the offer?" Which, I agree has been sort of answered, but many people ahve different opinions...so the more the marrier For me it was just one of these things. Met a Thai girl in my contry, got fucked up, went to Thailand and married on the rebound. So far seems like I have gotten more lucky than any sod deserve to be. Married, happy, no sick buffaloes, a child ... and hopefully more good things to come. (Knock on wood) When telling people that I'm married to a Thai woman I have gotten som strange answers which includes : If I'm not married before I'm 40 I will ... or 'My xxxx of an ex wife cleaned me out so I might just go to thailand to get me a real woman', which I think translates to a submisive asian woman that loves nothing else than to clean up their mess and keep them happy in bed. Can not think of any reason thier first wife fucked them over and why their potential asian bride would not do the same. [/irony] I also see that many meet their thai wife on parties in their own contries and that those marriages seem to work better on average. A few angles of many.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bibblies Posted July 19, 2005 Report Share Posted July 19, 2005 Redbaron said: I'd narrow it down to a few things 1. Looks - A lot of guys see TG's as being better looking than their farang counterparts.... and they don't seem to get as wide -especially in the arse- with age. 2. Sex - Let's face it, we (guys in general) love sex, TG's are often good at it, and seem up for it a lot more than western girls. 3. Submissive - TG's often appear to be more submissive than western girls... IMO this assumption is a wrong one, but a reason nonetheless farang guys are attracted to tg's. 4. Availability - TG's seem to be readily available for a short/long term relationship with us, even if we are only in town for a few weeks, days (hours??) - especially in the more questionable areas of Thailand... Pattaya, sukumvit, parts of Phuket etc etc You just want "subservient women" seems to be the one and only reason (or accusation?) put forward by the farang woman I know. But they're complicating the issue. Subservience is a personality trait and my dick couldn't care less about personality. All it wants is a nice looking young female with an arse and belly smaller than a small country... which is an increasingly rare sight in the UK (on native women anyway). What the hell is "subservience" anyway? Making your tea when you ask for it? Do you see men buying porn mags filled with pictures of women making the tea and doing your ironing? I don't think so! They just want a non-whale. Of course, you try to tell the women (always with the enormous arses) accusing you of this and they just don't get it... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Old Hippie Posted July 19, 2005 Author Report Share Posted July 19, 2005 Regarding the subservience bit...we need to clarify it a bit for these wide ass farang women...If I bust my ass working overtime to make extra money to send to her family, while she stays home learning English, taking care of the house etc...isn't poart of her Home maker job to make the food clean and iron? as my job is to provide all the crap in the house for us and her family...? I mean both are jobs, one dependant on the other... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jxxxl Posted July 20, 2005 Report Share Posted July 20, 2005 I think the word "traditional" as in traditional wife's role would be more appropriate than subservient. And, many Thai women are happy to play a tradional role whereas western/white women seem to find domestic tasks demeaning irrespective of the circumstances. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattaya127 Posted July 20, 2005 Report Share Posted July 20, 2005 yeah - what ever you think your reading it's Nanaplaza.com, not the lonely planet! --------------------------------- what does the LP has to do with farangs wanting thai women? and what does it have to do with me? Seems more like you have a personal tooth against me, and i have no idea why. You assaulted me for no reason, as far as what i was saying, and if there is one outside of this thread, say why, and do not beat around the brush. When I had problem with a guy here, I PM-ed him, and talked it over. That's what men do, it profits the board as well, gives less headcahes to KS over the long term, and we are all a lot more connected to each other than with any LP crowd. Thanks to thai women... Thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lazyphil Posted July 20, 2005 Report Share Posted July 20, 2005 <<what does the LP has to do with farangs wanting thai women? >> Feel free to ask! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattaya127 Posted July 20, 2005 Report Share Posted July 20, 2005 ahaha... Not Lonely Phil, Lazy planet! Actually, it does, the author of LP Thailand left hiw wife of many years for a...Thai woman. I tell you, being in Thailand makes a lot of difference. About western women, can't talk about continental euros, i have no idea, but I think US and anglo guys seem to be a lot more frustrated about "their" women than french. wherever I go, in France that is, the roles are still pretty much that the wife still does a lot of household chores, and that means after work too. I remember a friend whose french GF was pampering here, in SF, and some american girl lectured her on not being subservient, the french girl shut her up and told her she wouldn't do it if she did not want to. That's the problem, too many chicks here bring the whole society in what is specifically something between a man and a woman. I think guys appreciate it comes back to that when they pair up with a thai woman. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AF16 Posted July 20, 2005 Report Share Posted July 20, 2005 jxxxl said:I think the word "traditional" as in traditional wife's role would be more appropriate than subservient. And, many Thai women are happy to play a tradional role whereas western/white women seem to find domestic tasks demeaning irrespective of the circumstances. Define happy. My take is that there is a cultural tradition that force women into taking care of the husband in Thailand and for the most part it forces women to enter this role or even shape their desires. My wife is 'expected' to take care of me, but she found the western freedoms to be very much to her liking. She like the sharing of domestic tasks. It's not demeaning to do them, it's deamening to be expected to be the one doing them. We have shared tasks, but as she now stay home with our baby she does most of the housework. It will stay so untill her maternetyleave is over at which I will take my fair share again. I find that to be the true meaning of a relationship, the bit where both gets to fulfill thier desires, and I belive most desire more of them self than cleaning up after their partner. I know my wife does. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jasmine Posted July 20, 2005 Report Share Posted July 20, 2005 [color:"red"] I remember a friend whose french GF was pampering here, in SF, and some american girl lectured her on not being subservient, the french girl shut her up and told her she wouldn't do it if she did not want to. [/color] In my days dear P127, I have told many American women off on that subject. I have never figured out the "subservant" issue with these women. Jasmine Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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