Dumsoda Posted September 9, 2005 Report Share Posted September 9, 2005 maxal said:My gut decision tells me this is way ahead of my schedule. My schedule, my money, my feelings. Too hasty. I'm really thinking of stepping back and let her look. It's her life right? Hi Max, Sounds like you've pretty well got your shit together. Well done. Wise move to take things at YOUR pace, don't get "railroaded" into something you (or your wallet) may regret later. It's always a tough call when you become emotionally involved and best to try and make sure it's 100% two way before "diving in at the deep end". You're the only one that can make the call, but make sure "Gut" & "Big Head" play a large part in the decission making process. Chock dee Dumsoda :beer: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lembeh Posted September 9, 2005 Report Share Posted September 9, 2005 >She's not a hardened BG yet Quite honestly, I am not sure about that. I have a lot of time for the girls, and can normally see both sides of the issue. For most of the girls, what is MOST important can perhaps be summed up by the word "Hope". Ideally they are looking for some one who will be there in 5, 10 or 15 years. Sponsorship often fails because the girls know, frankly, that it can end at any moment when the punter gets bored, fed up or whatever, and they look for some one who provides better security (not always better money). However, in this case, as far as I can see, the girl is not even prepared to invest four (supported) months to see how things pan out, and is basically telling you "pay up or else". This *is* blackmail, and if she is not prepared to put some "effort" into making things work (or some compromise on her side), I would have to say she is not serious about *you* (as a person). Sadly in this case I would have to echo the advice of others : Run. -j- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-.-.- Posted September 9, 2005 Report Share Posted September 9, 2005 You gotta decide if she is a keeper or not. sounds as if she is from what you said. I give her great credit for being honest with you. That alone might be worth the money. Good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jitagawn Posted September 9, 2005 Report Share Posted September 9, 2005 Dont let her play you. It sounds way too tough/hardline BG stuff- :: There are so many in the sea. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaiLuk Posted September 9, 2005 Report Share Posted September 9, 2005 >>If I can't provide the money and meet her time limit, she'll look for another guy who will give her as she says in her own words the "kindness" she needs.<< Always an interesting experience when the sweet thai girl you love suddenly shows you that emotional desert at the center of her heart. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zorro Posted September 9, 2005 Report Share Posted September 9, 2005 Plenty more fish in the sea.....when you meet the next one you will be glad you didn't bother with this one...believe me....you have to play hardball somethimes....let it slide and if she is still available when you next return take if from there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Torneyboy Posted September 9, 2005 Report Share Posted September 9, 2005 Hi It will not stop at 15k a month.....be more much more :: Get out....many more to choose from. Good Luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maxal Posted September 9, 2005 Author Report Share Posted September 9, 2005 Love doesn't come with a price tag, ever Thanks for the straight up pe7e. Its not her job I'm questioning here but her ultimatum. Its the love I want to continue but not like this. Money was never an issue during the 4 months. I wear the trousers but someone has to iron them and its not going to be me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maxal Posted September 9, 2005 Author Report Share Posted September 9, 2005 In the morning, its all about the Gut and Big Head right? Thanks DS! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maxal Posted September 9, 2005 Author Report Share Posted September 9, 2005 This *is* blackmail, and if she is not prepared to put some "effort" into making things work (or some compromise on her side)... Thanks josh_ingu, Good point about her effort in all of this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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