Old Hippie Posted June 28, 2007 Report Share Posted June 28, 2007 "...I never will understand the too stupid farang who falls for the first or second or third or even 20thies bg he sleeps with..." I agree...but I also know of at least 3 guys on this board who married their first bar fine...1 seems to be working out, 1 a bit shaky, and one guy has no clue as to what is going on under his roof...veiled message to someone...? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julian2 Posted June 28, 2007 Report Share Posted June 28, 2007 I never will understand the too stupid farang who falls for the first or second or third or even 20thies bg he sleeps with. I started bg'ing in 1990, preffered VLT's to ST's (often keeping them for one week - the experience is just that much better) All business deals. Strangely once I fell in love with a Cha Am hairdresser, took me many years to forget her, luckily never went after her when coming back. It would have ruined my life if I did. Like Drogon I live close to 6 years with an ex-bg, but that's an other story. I did not fall for her, nor did she for fall for me. We just found it convenient to stick together. That's the only way to do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nervous_Dog Posted June 28, 2007 Report Share Posted June 28, 2007 << Now if you were sleeping with the air hostress, your restaurant server, your nurse, your hotel clerk for money, you would face the same dilemma you would with BGs maybe even worse becasue her day job would probably cloud your mind to thinking she might even like you and try to make it work...>> No - I've learnt as I get older that Love and Sex are often different things, and yet great when together. Still wouldn;t stop me from trying to sleep with the bus conductor, but I wouldn;t fall for her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bibblies Posted June 28, 2007 Report Share Posted June 28, 2007 Easy. I'm English. I find the more emotionally detached (but still nice) you are, the more they like you, so that helps. I used to be a bit more intense ( ) when I was younger and it was as repellant to them as an English teacher. I think like a bar-girl, maybe? It helps that I don't have any sort of jealous or possessive streak (when I stayed with a BG, I would urge her to go with others). In my perfect world, I would have a life partner with whom I liked to do normal things with - sleep, eat, go out, etc - but there would be open relationships on both sides so you could still have short-time experiences without jealousy. I had that for quite a while with the BG I lived with. We enjoyed the same food, drink, movies, jokes, TV, eating each other's cooking, sleeping for the same length of time (very important ) I really wish guys would stop marrying them or knocking them up and taking them away though. I have to keep finding new ones. It's most annoying! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Munchmaster Posted June 28, 2007 Report Share Posted June 28, 2007 ...when I stayed with a BG, I would urge her to go with others.... You really urged the girl you were living with to go out and get shagged by other guys? ...We enjoyed the same food, drink, movies, jokes, TV, eating each other's cooking, sleeping for the same length of time... She sounds perfect, she even slept for exactly the same length of time as you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bibblies Posted June 29, 2007 Report Share Posted June 29, 2007 It is really important! I'm not joking there. If you're a late sleeper who likes to lie in, you can't be staying with an early riser or someone who gets bored snoozing and has to jump out of bed first thing. The deal at first was that we'd just stay together but could continue to do our own things so, yes, I did encourage her to play around. While she's playing, I'm playing. It's only fair, isn't it? I don't really understand jealousy. Why do guys need to 'possess' women? It's stupid. You can't be shagging them all the time, most of the time you'd like to be shagging other people too so why can't we all put ourselves around, like library books? I'm not so sure I'm that emotionally detached though. I've just been stunned just by seeing an absolutely beatiful girl in Emporium. I could hardly even function. I was smitten. I think there are certain times in anyone's life when one is vulnerable, no matter how 'detached' you may be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BKKanalist Posted June 29, 2007 Report Share Posted June 29, 2007 bibblies- "I think like a bar-girl, maybe?" You know what you want and you understand the game. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bibblies Posted June 30, 2007 Report Share Posted June 30, 2007 I thought I did! But I'm a bit worried that I've been falling apart a bit in the last few days. See the end of this thread - Do you try to get the girl hot? When she said, "If you're going to do it, do it" and just lay there, somehow I let it put me off enough so that I didn't do it. I think MooNoi's cursed me, turned me into a pussy! :grin: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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